why is it................!?!

earndien
earndien Posts: 195 Member
in Motivation and Support
why is it when you try to lose what and you let people know that you are dieting that you see the look
on there face saying i wounder how long is this time going to last or when u lose you weight and it feel
like some one ore everyone is waiting for you to slip up and fail?!?!
why is it like that?!?!
i looking for suport, and i got alot of mfp but here at home there none what so ever suport they either dont know
or they just waiting for you to fail!!

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  • kelly101386
    kelly101386 Posts: 389 Member
    Amen, when I first decided to lose weight I didn't tell anyone at all. Then a few months in I got complimented and people asking me what kind of diet I am on, I said I'm not on a diet, I am just changing my life style and seeing the results :P
  • tcatcarson
    tcatcarson Posts: 227 Member
    Maybe they're judging you by their own bad experiences :-)
  • foody44
    foody44 Posts: 21
    Urgh. It happens... Some people are just like that.

    BELIEVE in yourself, and believe that you ARE going to make this happen!!!

    ...I mean yeah, we all need support etc. but YOU should be your own biggest supporter. Its your journey, you know yourself better than anyone else, and you gotta try and keep your head in the game.

    Depend on no one else... YOU CAN DO THIS!!! ... with or without others. Keep your head strong. It'll happen for you! :):)
  • rocketass99
    rocketass99 Posts: 537 Member
    I get it. Its like that in my house. My husband, just looks and me and continues to strum his guitar. the worst part though is after I say that, every time I pick up something to eat that is not healthy, he gives me those, "you shouldnt be eting that" eyes. I have decided to not say anything any more. I will just continue to do the best that I can and get my back pats from here.
  • dangerousdumpling
    dangerousdumpling Posts: 1,109 Member
    My guess is that it's because a lot of people yoyo diet. Out of all the people I know, many of them have dieted but very few, if any, have kept the weight off. I guess they assume that we'll fail, too. It would be nice if people would be positive and upbuilding to us but sometimes we just have to do that for ourselves.

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