How will I look when I'm older?

ninerbuff
ninerbuff Posts: 49,210 Member
edited January 16 in Chit-Chat
This is obviously going to depend on how you actually take care of yourself, but it's not uncommon for a male or female to look like their same gendered parent as they age.
I talked to a female after class and she asked me if seen Christina Aguilera lately. I said yes and that she's obviously "fuller" than she used to be. And she said "She's starting to look like her mother".
Well it's not unusual. As I mentioned it's not uncommon for a male or female to end up looking like (in body shape), like their same gendered parent. So if you want a look into your future of how you MAY look, look no further than them.
Now it's NOT always the case, but having their genetics predisposing one to their shape most of the time.

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  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    My mom looked like a red-headed Pamela Anderson when she was in her 40s.

    I don't look anything like Pamela Anderson. I'm like my dad in a wig, sadly.
  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    My mom looked like a red-headed Pamela Anderson when she was in her 40s.

    I don't look anything like Pamela Anderson. I'm like my dad in a wig, sadly.

    Wow! Your Dad has amazing legs. LOL
  • triciab79
    triciab79 Posts: 1,713 Member
    And really great shoes!


    I don't look like my mom or dad. I do look a bit like my dad's best friend though hmmmm
  • SpecialSundae
    SpecialSundae Posts: 795 Member
    I can't see myself looking like either my mum or my grandma. My mum in her 20s was stick thin and is now rather barrel shaped (even though she weighs 30lbs or so less than me). My grandma had a 19" waist at my age and never got that much bigger.
  • Erikalynne18
    Erikalynne18 Posts: 558 Member
    my mother was much smaller than me when she was a teenager, but since then she has had some very difficult years; lost her career, 2 divorces, and much much more :( Sadly she has gained alot of weight as a result :(

    She was actually partially my motivating factor to get in shape. Ever since I was little everyone has always said I look just like my mother. But when I was 25 I saw myself steadily gaining weight and becoming the person my family leans on (like my mother was), which was very stressful. When I realised (admitted to myself) I had tipped into the "overweight" category, I decided to make changes NOW before I let more excuses in.
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    im gunna be a hott old person.

    just sayin.
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
    This is obviously going to depend on how you actually take care of yourself, but it's not uncommon for a male or female to look like their same gendered parent as they age.
    I talked to a female after class and she asked me if seen Christina Aguilera lately. I said yes and that she's obviously "fuller" than she used to be. And she said "She's starting to look like her mother".
    Well it's not unusual. As I mentioned it's not uncommon for a male or female to end up looking like (in body shape), like their same gendered parent. So if you want a look into your future of how you MAY look, look no further than them.
    Now it's NOT always the case, but having their genetics predisposing one to their shape most of the time.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness industry for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    Kinda look like my mother, just not entirely though. She is a mix of Elizabeth Taylor meets Drew Barrymore meets Daphne Zuniga.

    I'm more a blend of my paternal grandmother (80%) mainly meets my maternal grandmother (15%) with splashes of my Mum (5%). My maternal line's look are combinations of the ladies mentioned above, only they're women of colour. And then I have to factor in, that my late Dad's side are chocolate (Taye Diggs, Sidney Poitier, Bill Cosby look - for males; Denzel is a ringer for my father, only that he is smaller, on the skinny side). And the women from my paternal side are twists and versions of Liya Kebede (from the lightest to the darkest).

    To complicate matters, my base look is Carolyn Murphy (majority 80%), with splashes of Liv Tyler (15%), gone exotic (5%). Yup - that's me. I wouldn't say I look like my Mum or my Grandmother at my age right now, for my maintenance is far more extreme than theirs were, for their times.

    My sister on the other hand, is base-look Natalia Vodianova meets Devon Aoki in equal parts, gone more exotic ala Liya Kebede injection (around 2 - 5%).

    Are the looks our mother's? Not really for my sister too, pulls on my paternal female ancestors, where we get the Jap/Korean and Russian meets Scotland/Ireland.

    Too much blending ... :laugh:

    Edited to add: My Mum has been known to be pushed to tears, when some would dare insist that we can not possibly be her daughters, well into our mature ages - now. They'd challenge her and say, "Did you adopt them?"
  • RobynMWilson
    RobynMWilson Posts: 1,540 Member
    I look more like my father and when I was heavy, I was not an apple shape like my mom now is. She has toothpick legs, carries all her weight in her mid-section and big 'uns. I'm flat chested, and when I was heavy my weight was more evenly distributed to everywhere besides my boobs lol. I think I'm gonna end up more taking after my dad, but I sure hope I'm as healthy as my mom! She's got the strongest immune system of anyone I know, she smokes like a chimney and eats crap and besides her cholesterol she's in pretty good health, all things considered lol
  • Lesa_Sass
    Lesa_Sass Posts: 2,213 Member
    I look like my mom and act like my dad. It is a really bad combination.
  • SmartAlec03211988
    SmartAlec03211988 Posts: 1,896 Member
    If I look like my dad when I'm older... god help me. O.O
  • HerBravado
    HerBravado Posts: 392 Member
    I look like my mom and act like my dad. It is a really bad combination.

    Saaaame.
  • My mom is so beautiful, I hope I can age like her!!

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  • NaomiJFoster
    NaomiJFoster Posts: 1,450 Member
    I have my dad's nose, facial shape, and weight issues.
    I have my mom's eyes, mouth, and body shape.

    My sister is the exact opposite, she has our mom's nose and facial shape and our dad's eyes and mouth. We are each a 50/50 mix of each parent, but not a matching set. Who I look like depends on who I'm standing next to.

    Most of my health and development milestones match my mom (all that female stuff is happen to me in my exact same year as it happened to my mom).

    My mom is starting to look just like her mother looked in old age. I am starting to look a lot like my mom looked in her 40s. I don't think it's any mystery what I'll look like when I'm older. It's sort of comforting, really. In a way.
  • NaomiJFoster
    NaomiJFoster Posts: 1,450 Member
    My mom is so beautiful, I hope I can age like her!!

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    You look a lot like your mom! Congrats. She's lovely and so are you.
  • Irish_Eyes81
    Irish_Eyes81 Posts: 808 Member
    I am a mixture of both, just glad I didn't get my dads nose :( lol
  • GiGiBeans
    GiGiBeans Posts: 1,062 Member
    Hmm my mother died at 51 and my grandmother died at 50. Guess I am in big trouble :-(
  • raychulj
    raychulj Posts: 458 Member
    I guess I'm doomed then. Pass the cookies!
  • CharityGC
    CharityGC Posts: 499 Member
    My mom had six kids and was still 110 pounds into her 70s with not even one stretch mark. I can't even remember seeing cellulite on her. I should be so lucky.
  • LaurySch
    LaurySch Posts: 277 Member
    Well I don't think I look like my mom or my dad, but I do have my older sister as a guide to what 10 years will bring me if I don't keep up with the healthier lifestyle! I love her to bits, but I will NOT let myself go down that road!
  • ShaniWulffe
    ShaniWulffe Posts: 458 Member
    I look exactly like my dad. I'd be okay with getting his muscular structure :P I would rather not have my mom's body shape, though... As mean as that sounds
  • Mutant13
    Mutant13 Posts: 2,485 Member
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    My mum

    Works for me!
  • Abbdul
    Abbdul Posts: 103 Member
    i am already old
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    And here I was hoping for the URL of some fun website that does age progressions, not "When you are your parents' age, you're going to look something like them, maybe."
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