New here, mom of 5

That's right, 5! I have had 5 kids in 8 years and lost 4 pregnancies in 3 years on last year (2012) with a still birth at 21 weeks. Needless to say, I have packed on a few extra pounds with each pregnancy that I haven't completely lost. Then since last year I have been very low and just haven't cared. But I know and feel I need to lose this extra weight. Especially since my 4 year old asked me last week why I am fat. I never wanted to be a fat mom. My mom was a fat mom and never did anything with us. My oldest is going on a treck with our church youth group and has to work up to walking 4-6 miles a day so I am working on that with her. I have found it to be easier to walk if it is for her than just me. I am sure most mom's find that. Just looking for some buddies and support. I would like to lose about 85lbs. I know it will take time, but my goal is 35lbs by the end of the school year. I know that is a lot, but I can do it!

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  • Mommydearest06
    Mommydearest06 Posts: 10 Member
    Hi, I'm a mother of 6 and now how it feels. Exhausting but at the same time rewarding. I'm sorry about the lost of your babies, never had a miscarriage or stll birth so I cant relate to that pain but my heart goes out to you. But just to give a word of encouragement, YOU CAN DO IT. I'm a witness to that. I've gotten my nursing degree, early childhood degree and alot of more things with my kids by my side. You have to want it more than anybody else for yourself. That is what motivates me. I want it for me more than anybody else wants it for me. And girl, GOD will make anything possible. And always remember this: your suffering and pain is what makes you a testimony and living apostle.
  • 5hams
    5hams Posts: 2
    Thank you! I know I can do it, I just have to take one day at a time! And WOW! All that with 6 kids, you are amazing. I feel like I accomplish something if I get thru the mound of laundry 3 times a week! Plus homework with the kids and all the other things stay at home moms do.
  • CoachChrisD
    CoachChrisD Posts: 207 Member
    5HAms, you can def do it girl! motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going. Add me if you want help on your journey.