MEN! She shouldn't be insecure about <blank> I DON'T CARE!!

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  • trojanbb
    trojanbb Posts: 1,297 Member
    Butt. No, I don't care how it looks in those pants. It doesn't look any bigger, it doesn't look any smaller. And girls with small/lean/skinny butts that get all insecure about it...omg shut up, it looks fine! I like them fit and tight anyways.
  • twanthe1
    twanthe1 Posts: 407
    LOL EDIT
  • Zuragh
    Zuragh Posts: 35 Member
    bump
  • kerrymh
    kerrymh Posts: 912 Member
    Its funny..I might not be so insecure about it all if I actually got hit on/asked out/looked at.....but lack of male interest leads me to think I should be insecure about something lol.
  • kmorg22
    kmorg22 Posts: 180
    *hint* --- some women say things as to how they look to specifically get compliments. :) especially if a man dont seem to notice. lol

    disclaimer: these same women fail to realize a man notices a woman regardless what she looks like..... its first nature. lol
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Anything. I am not with her for her boobs. Or her butt. I am not with her because of her sense of humor, or how intelligent she is. I don't think iabout just her hair, eyes, nose, mouth, arms, or anything. I with all of her.

    My one point, y'all don't really need makeup.
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
    I don't wear makeup for you. I wear makeup because 1) I like the way it makes me look and 2) part of the fun of being a woman is that you are allowed to constantly transform yourself.
  • NicoleisQuantized
    NicoleisQuantized Posts: 344 Member
    Its funny..I might not be so insecure about it all if I actually got hit on/asked out/looked at.....but lack of male interest leads me to think I should be insecure about something lol.

    ^This x 100.
  • rjmudlax13
    rjmudlax13 Posts: 900 Member
    I don't wear makeup for you. I wear makeup because 1) I like the way it makes me look and 2) part of the fun of being a woman is that you are allowed to constantly transform yourself.

    LOL! Don't read about the history of make-up then. It might ruin your rosy view of it.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Let's see.

    Boobs.
    Butt.
    Stretch Marks.
    Cellulite.


    But so help me God if you have a unibrow I might just scream.
  • Iron_Maiden
    Iron_Maiden Posts: 326 Member
    Its funny..I might not be so insecure about it all if I actually got hit on/asked out/looked at.....but lack of male interest leads me to think I should be insecure about something lol.

    DING! DING! DING! DING! DING!
  • ThisGirl2013
    ThisGirl2013 Posts: 220 Member
    Where's the guy version of this thread? Women are WAY more brutal to men.
    Sounds like you should start one...after you answer the question ;)

    Hmm, weight. That's a big one. Sure there are health issues but I see way to many tickers for women that want to lose 10lbs. Gimme a break.

    there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to lose 10 pounds

    There's nothing wrong about it. It's just eye roll inducing to see a girl who wants to go from 123 to 113. I mean what's the end game there? At that point you're just out to get a slightly hotter boyfriend most likely.

    Um, actually maybe there are certain areas we want to target. It also actually DOES affect your health - losing even the less than 10 pounds that I have lost has given me more energy and mentally I feel better. That may not seem possible but it is. I also have the hottest bf ever, so I don't need another/different one. I find your standards silly. So only people who need to lose a certain weight belong here? Anyway, it IS a challenge to lose that 10 pounds! Also, it's not just weight loss - I am interested in getting in to strength training. Not only that, but the nutrional info on here is great as well. I think that the positive people on here are really inspiring and help others attain that healthy lifestyle so, don't be a hater! *lol* I am not offended by the way, I just think you are silly. And wrong. Just sayin'
  • Lucia120382
    Lucia120382 Posts: 427
    The problem is if they say stuff just to be nice or get what they want and after you find out they didnt mean it at all. That is why some women are skeptical about their compliments. And it hurts too.
  • raychulj
    raychulj Posts: 458 Member
    Where's the guy version of this thread? Women are WAY more brutal to men.
    Sounds like you should start one...after you answer the question ;)

    Hmm, weight. That's a big one. Sure there are health issues but I see way to many tickers for women that want to lose 10lbs. Gimme a break.

    there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to lose 10 pounds

    There's nothing wrong about it. It's just eye roll inducing to see a girl who wants to go from 123 to 113. I mean what's the end game there? At that point you're just out to get a slightly hotter boyfriend most likely.

    ooooor you just want to feel more comfortable in your own skin and be more confident. I'm married and trying to lose 10 pounds, obviously not trying to find a hotter boyfriend...
    ^^wss
  • Librariangetsfit
    Librariangetsfit Posts: 71 Member
    Agree with this!
  • actingnurse1
    actingnurse1 Posts: 153 Member
    @ you ladies saying you're insecure from lack of male attention. Maybe you're looks intimidate guys? :) I mean that in a good way.
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    To me insecurity itself is the most significant eyeroll-inducing trait. I like a woman who knows she's awesome but doesn't need to prove it to anyone else.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Let's see.

    Boobs.
    Butt.
    Stretch Marks.
    Cellulite.


    But so help me God if you have a unibrow I might just scream.

    Awe dont be so scared learn how to tweeze em and you open the door to a whole realm of hairy women.
  • what type of car they drive
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Let's see.

    Boobs.
    Butt.
    Stretch Marks.
    Cellulite.


    But so help me God if you have a unibrow I might just scream.

    Awe dont be so scared learn how to tweeze em and you open the door to a whole realm of hairy women.

    I'm not dating a woman that I have to tweeze.
  • Docmahi
    Docmahi Posts: 1,603 Member
    Boobs or butt... we're men. We'll play with them regardless.

    End thread.
  • justgowithit17
    justgowithit17 Posts: 1,392 Member
    Let's see.

    Boobs.
    Butt.
    Stretch Marks.
    Cellulite.


    But so help me God if you have a unibrow I might just scream.

    way to rub it in whierd. :cry:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Let's see.

    Boobs.
    Butt.
    Stretch Marks.
    Cellulite.


    But so help me God if you have a unibrow I might just scream.

    way to rub it in whierd. :cry:

    You had the choice. You chose wrong!
  • odddrums
    odddrums Posts: 342 Member
    I'd say she shouldn't be insecure about anything. What's sexier than the flattest stomach, roundest butt or perkiest boobs? CONFIDENCE. So long as a girl accepts herself and is able to relax she is plenty sexy.

    Especially don't sweat the small stuff. "Oh my mascara is a bit uneven and this belt doesn't really match this top and I'm growing my hair out so it's not the perfect length right now and..." WHATEVER SHUT UP YOU ARE GORGEOUS.

    And if someone doesn't agree or wants to make you feel bad about about things that don't really matter, they are not worth your time. Drop the dead weight and remember you're GREAT.
  • justgowithit17
    justgowithit17 Posts: 1,392 Member
    Let's see.

    Boobs.
    Butt.
    Stretch Marks.
    Cellulite.


    But so help me God if you have a unibrow I might just scream.

    way to rub it in whierd. :cry:

    You had the choice. You chose wrong!

    but it brings out my mustache hairs!
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    Lol!:drinker:
  • coolraul07
    coolraul07 Posts: 1,606 Member
    I'm sure that men around the world roll their eyes about certain remarks about appearance or insecurities from women. I would love to know what they are....
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  • EponaBlue
    EponaBlue Posts: 96 Member
    I'd say she shouldn't be insecure about anything. What's sexier than the flattest stomach, roundest butt or perkiest boobs? CONFIDENCE. So long as a girl accepts herself and is able to relax she is plenty sexy.

    Especially don't sweat the small stuff. "Oh my mascara is a bit uneven and this belt doesn't really match this top and I'm growing my hair out so it's not the perfect length right now and..." WHATEVER SHUT UP YOU ARE GORGEOUS.

    And if someone doesn't agree or wants to make you feel bad about about things that don't really matter, they are not worth your time. Drop the dead weight and remember you're GREAT.

    Agree!
    Many women I know are off getting things lasered, botoxed, and polished. Embrace aging ladies! It's natural and beautiful.
  • coolraul07
    coolraul07 Posts: 1,606 Member
    *hint* --- some women say things as to how they look to specifically get compliments. :) especially if a man dont seem to notice. lol

    disclaimer: these same women fail to realize a man notices a woman regardless what she looks like..... its first nature. lol

    *hint* If you're "digging" for compliments and get a shiny gold nugget.... TAKE THE DAMN THING AND RUN! Don't stand there, wipe your @$$ with it and wonder why it's harder to find the next one...


    Sincerely yours...


    MEN (or at least a sizable subset therein)
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Let's see.

    Boobs.
    Butt.
    Stretch Marks.
    Cellulite.


    But so help me God if you have a unibrow I might just scream.

    way to rub it in whierd. :cry:

    You had the choice. You chose wrong!

    but it brings out my mustache hairs!

    Your fishing in a dry pond he wont even attempt to learn how to tweeze. Maybe you could talk him into waxing or epilady.