Presenting a problem to men with no intent for him to solve

Some questions don't have answers

Make note. Sympathize. Carry on.

Practice saying "I understand how you feel..." With sincerity.......(Sincerity is not hard if you learn to fake it!)

Practice saying "I understand how you feel..." With sincerity.......(Sincerity is not hard if you learn to fake it!)

I love you santa

women like talking about problems it makes them feel closer to the person.. im taking a communications class and we watched a video about the different patterns between men and women and it amazed me.. everything came clear after watching that video.. women and men are very different in the ways they communicate..

I get this, I do. But at the same time, I do it to my man all the time.

As the go-to friend who will listen and can think clearly, I see the solution staring me in the face but many times I know they see the answer as well and really just need to vent/rant/b****.


1. ZIP LIP
2. LISTEN
3. Ask follow up-questions, nod head, and make eye contact
4. repeat as necessary.

don't forget the "trap questions".

- What are you thinking?
- Do I look fat?
- Do you think she's prettier than me?
- What would you do if I died?

Answers:

Banging that chick over there
Only when you breathe
Yeah. Duh.
Clean the blood off my hands and come up with a plan.

Smile, say really honey...I love you, with eye contact...golden. Just make sure she thinks you are truly listening, which in my case is I really have to listen. Nothing wrong with asking have you figured out how you want to handle it? What is your solution? Once you have listened to her solution feedback is more accepted....unless she is just venting...let her vent. My sweety just needs a huge when she is done venting.

Practice saying "I understand how you feel..." With sincerity.......(Sincerity is not hard if you learn to fake it!)

I want to be friends with Santa!! But we like you with a belly that shakes like a bowlfull of jelly

don't forget the "trap questions".

- What are you thinking?
- Do I look fat?
- Do you think she's prettier than me?
- What would you do if I died?

Answers:

Banging that chick over there
Only when you breathe
Yeah. Duh.
Clean the blood off my hands and come up with a plan.

My brother from another mother right here!!! Still working on that plan though! LOL

Make note. Sympathize. Carry on.

yeah, my willingness to listen is usually directly correlated with my inferred ods of getting laid...not gonna lie here.

As women get older (some are fortunate to learn earlier) we become wise to this. Thus, make it a goal to keep your attention on us OR buy lots of batteries. The latter is easier.

Totally agree or a back up generator in case the power fails. Men! :noway:

Some questions don't have answers

Some answers don't have questions - hmmmm

Or many kinds of geek - but it's just cruel!

So don't be surprised when they DO solve it.

It's how we're wired.

I seem to be in the minority, but when I have a problem, I WANT a solution-why else would I bring it up? Most women do NOT like this-I'm as lost as the guys are on this:/