Women!!!

Imigen04
Imigen04 Posts: 112 Member
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Have u every noticed how hard it is to have female friends if u are a female. Way to much drama. Unfortunately I go to cosmetology school so I am always around women and the one guy in my class acts like a little child female one too haha. Sometime I think I can't get through this weightloss journey because I want to stress eat all the time. I don't tho! Instead I find myself more scared to eat because I think I will lose control. I need more self control and well I guess I need more faith in myself. Anyone else ever feel this way? Anyone else need to vent?





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  • fungaaron9880
    fungaaron9880 Posts: 111
    friends are friends regardless of race gender sex etc etc :D
  • DotPett
    DotPett Posts: 181 Member
    I work in an office of mostly women and really metrosexual men...I swear we are all hormonal at the same time. Sometimes it drives me insane!
  • veggiehottie
    veggiehottie Posts: 590 Member
    I definitely prefer male friends to girl friends. So much less drama!
  • JusticeGirl25
    JusticeGirl25 Posts: 703 Member
    I work with mostly women at the restaurant I work at. There's a few of them that like to talk gossip and I don't want no part of that crap.
  • ashlibaker
    ashlibaker Posts: 15
    This is why I loved my job in the oilfields so much. I was on an all guy crew as a welders helper. Got laid off in November an back workin at a school though :/
  • Imigen04
    Imigen04 Posts: 112 Member
    It is hard I swear I try to plug in my headphones while I'm working to tune all the drama and gossip out.
  • teepuppylove
    teepuppylove Posts: 48 Member
    friends are friends regardless of race gender sex etc etc :D

    *like*
  • FallingInLoveWithMe
    FallingInLoveWithMe Posts: 92 Member
    girls r too much drama
    always jealous n hatin
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    So glad I'm 37.

    EDIT: Maybe it's just me... I thought that only happened with the young'ns. Where are you ladies hanging out that life is like middle school?!
  • lintino
    lintino Posts: 456 Member
    So glad I'm 37.

    EDIT: Maybe it's just me... I thought that only happened with the young'ns. Where are you ladies hanging out that life is like middle school?!


    I agree. Isn't there any maturity where you are?
  • Imigen04
    Imigen04 Posts: 112 Member
    I have yet to meet ladies my age who don't still act like this. I might have had to mature quicker since I had my first child at 15 but I still don't think that's a reason. At some age they have to grow up right? I'm in New Mexico at a Cosmo school and most are between 18-30. Always have some drama or petty crap going on.
  • srey0701
    srey0701 Posts: 196 Member
    I guess I'm lucky, I work with mostly men!
  • tenajh
    tenajh Posts: 208 Member
    There are very few women I know that are too dramatic, my friend base is about 50/50. I do think it gets easier as I get older, I am more tolerant and expect myself to find the positive in everyone.
  • lilpoindexter
    lilpoindexter Posts: 1,122 Member
    It's funny you would mention that....several women at work asked me what i did to lose weight...what the secret is...when i tell them diet and exercise, they look at me like i had two heads....Like you should be able to lose weight by eating chai rasberry ketone yogurt or some pill or something.
  • atomicwoman50
    atomicwoman50 Posts: 4
    Amen! I so agree.
  • ashlibaker
    ashlibaker Posts: 15
    I'm in Bakersfield, CA. And yes, most girls here are like that!! I also had my child young (18) but even before that I was a bit more mature than most...when I needed ta be haha. But yeah, even my mom an her friends act like little jr high girls with all their drama!!
  • Loulady
    Loulady Posts: 511 Member
    OMG, women! Amirite?
  • Mutant13
    Mutant13 Posts: 2,485 Member
    Although I generally get along better with guys due to shared interests...

    Do you think maybe you might be having trouble getting along with women because you're being a bit of a judgey mcjudgerson?
  • jocruzn1
    jocruzn1 Posts: 1
    That happens everywhere, I'm glad I also work with guys mostly, because the few women who do work in the same building seem to always be getting into it. I stick to my side of the building and don't really deal with drama outside my family.:drinker:
  • CaliforniaJay
    CaliforniaJay Posts: 11
    I don't know, I love my girlfriends, gay friends, straight friends, guy friends. I don't judge based on assumptions and stereotypes though. I judge on character and how they treat others. That's just me though, shrug.
  • theCarlton
    theCarlton Posts: 1,344 Member
    When I grew up, I stopped having problems making friends with women.
  • Ajellyfish77
    Ajellyfish77 Posts: 36 Member
    You know what they say the one thing that men and women have in common is they both hate women :P

    It isn't the gender of the people around you...its the attitude. You are in a room full of people stressed about study and concerned wtih appearnace...no diet profits from this XD

    I love my guy friends gay straight they are all great....until recently I didn't appreciate the beauty of a female friend. Someone who shares all the crazy happy hormonal chicky feelings I go through. We are all AMAZING and we should support each other :) As Jenna Marbles says "girls are freaking magical creatures" LOL

    *sprinkles pixie dust

    Don't let the room rule your mood.
  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,458 Member
    I like drama online. Because it's quiet.

    IRL not so much.


    You're in cosmetology school? That has to be a high level of drama career choice. Oy.
  • Marshmaster
    Marshmaster Posts: 19 Member
    Guess I am opposite of most guys. All my friends are female. Just too much macho crap with most guys and / or they don't talk. I love talking and having an open conversation and my female friends, at least most of them, appreciate me because I like to listen to their vents. Plus my female friends tend to be more focused, good at multitasking, and a great motivators to my journeys.
  • jakidb
    jakidb Posts: 1,010 Member
    My grandmother used to tell me that it's very difficult for WOMEN to get along/live together/etc. I have female friends but we have special times in which we come together because I'm certain if we spent TOO MUCH time together we'd drive each other absolutely NUTTS Lol!!! So in answer to your question, I can relate. My advice to you, BALANCE--do you and do your girls only "sometimes". Show yourself friendly, but that doesn't mean you have to stay up under each other 24/7. Unless you have a special female "confident" (and I mean you KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THAT YOU KNOW THIS PERSON will keep your business quiet), keep your business to yourself and keep it moving. I have 2 adult dtrs and I can't even be up under them all the time LOL

    Love my girls but life has taught me a few things abt "friends" (and actually this is male and female); use wisdom when interacting with them and try not to go "loco" in the process. You'll be just fine.
  • nokanjaijo
    nokanjaijo Posts: 466 Member
    When I grew up, I stopped having problems making friends with women.

    Mmmmmmm Hmmmmmmmm

    Yes

    This
  • 366to266
    366to266 Posts: 473 Member
    I am 54, single and childless and the problem I always have with making friends with women is that most of them have only ONE topic of conversation - their kids and grandkids. It's like they are totally engulfed, enwrapped in their offspring. The few that don't bore me to death with kids/grandkids anecdotes and boasting are obsessed with celebrities, soap operas or their own appearance. Oh I wish I could meet some who were more interested in the outside world, in pursuing hobbies and careers etc.

    As a consequence, I get on better with men.

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