i seem to be stuck.

for the last 2 and a half weeks i've been stuck at 197 then it'll goto 198, then back to 197.
i was 197.2 yesterday morning. this morning i'm 197.7.

i've been at this for about 2 months now.

i was eating 1750 calories, and that worked for like a month or so for a pound loss a week. but i seem to be stuck.
i recalculated my TDEE without exercise because someone suggested i'm over estimating how much i burn. so for the last week it's been at 1500 cals a day and still no change.

any suggestions? please be nice.

i'm 5'6 btw if that helps any. i would rather not show my diary because people are too judgemental.

Replies

  • kristen6022
    kristen6022 Posts: 1,923 Member
    1st: How many times are you weighing yourself? If the numbers on the scale make you crazy - lessen the amount. If you do once a week, do every 2...

    2nd: How long have you been eating 1500 calories/daily? It takes at least 3-4 weeks to see a difference. Keep at it and be patient.

    3rd: I know you don't want to share what you are eating, but that may be the cause - keep your water up, your sodium down, get plenty of protein, veggies and "slow carbs".

    My best advice is, just be patient. You'll get to your goal if you just keep going. Inside, everyone one of us knows how to do this, stop obessing and wondering if you can do something "better"...it's a long road, stick to it and you'll get results!
  • Leeann1979
    Leeann1979 Posts: 1,090 Member
    Some can be judgemental, however, there are some people that could give good advice. A lot of people will probably think you aren't eating what you say you are eating if you won't show your diary. Its hard to get advice if people can't see what you are doing/eating.

    If you are stuck, you need to change something up. Whether you adjust your calories, change up your exercise....you are stuck because you need to change something!!!
  • nikifm24
    nikifm24 Posts: 6
    1st: How many times are you weighing yourself? If the numbers on the scale make you crazy - lessen the amount. If you do once a week, do every 2...

    2nd: How long have you been eating 1500 calories/daily? It takes at least 3-4 weeks to see a difference. Keep at it and be patient.

    3rd: I know you don't want to share what you are eating, but that may be the cause - keep your water up, your sodium down, get plenty of protein, veggies and "slow carbs".

    My best advice is, just be patient. You'll get to your goal if you just keep going. Inside, everyone one of us knows how to do this, stop obessing and wondering if you can do something "better"...it's a long road, stick to it and you'll get results!
    i weigh every day, just to see my fluctuations. it doesn't bother me too much, but i would like to see a number change on the scale. considering i'm only 22 and 197lbs. i would think that for the first 2-3 months, the weightloss would be more consistent. i'm pretty patient, but at the rate i'm going, it's gonna take me like 2 years to lose it when i see others losing my goal in like 6 months. :/ i've lost about 9lbs in 2 months, which isn't bad. but i've already stalled and i feel like it's too early to stall.
    i guess my problem is i feel like i don't know what i'm doing, or that i'm doing it wrong! lol
    i don't know, i'm pretty determined, and i wont give up.

    but thank you so much for your reply :)
  • CristinaL1983
    CristinaL1983 Posts: 1,119 Member
    Are you weighing pretty much everything you eat?

    Things like bacon say the serving size is 3 slices but by weight, it's really only 2. A lot of crackers, chips, rice cakes say the serving size is 13 but by weight, it's 9 or so. Peanut butters and oatmeal are often not a full tablespoon or cup by weight. Apparently I've never even seen a medium sweet potato because all the ones I buy weigh in as larger than a large (that's in the database).

    Also are you double checking the database when you input things? I ate some meatballs the other day and out of 7 entries of the same brand, same type, only one was right. The others were about half the calories or double the serving size. I don't know why people input things wrong but they do.

    Are you accounting for all your cooking oils/ sauces?

    I think those are the most common sources of error. If you are doing all those things, have you had a doctor check your thyroid/hormones?

    I'm 5'7'' and I have been losing weight consistently. But, sometimes, I get stuck at the same weight for a couple weeks (usually due to water retention from TOM). Then I lose a ton of weight on the following weeks. Other than that, maybe wait another week or so at 1500 calories and see what happens. Sometimes, when you change your diet, your body will retain extra water (as it's releasing glycogen stores) for a short period of time. You could always bump your calories back up to 1750 if you were doing better there. I'm not sure how active you are but 1500 sounds like it is probably a deficit of 500-750 calories per day which would be 1-1.5 pounds per week so it wouldn't be unusual to retain a little bit of water a couple weeks which would mask that weight loss.

    I guess, if it were me, I would wait a couple more weeks and see what happens. If nothing happens, I would bump the calories back to where I knew I was losing weight.
  • kristen6022
    kristen6022 Posts: 1,923 Member
    1st: How many times are you weighing yourself? If the numbers on the scale make you crazy - lessen the amount. If you do once a week, do every 2...

    2nd: How long have you been eating 1500 calories/daily? It takes at least 3-4 weeks to see a difference. Keep at it and be patient.

    3rd: I know you don't want to share what you are eating, but that may be the cause - keep your water up, your sodium down, get plenty of protein, veggies and "slow carbs".

    My best advice is, just be patient. You'll get to your goal if you just keep going. Inside, everyone one of us knows how to do this, stop obessing and wondering if you can do something "better"...it's a long road, stick to it and you'll get results!
    i weigh every day, just to see my fluctuations. it doesn't bother me too much, but i would like to see a number change on the scale. considering i'm only 22 and 197lbs. i would think that for the first 2-3 months, the weightloss would be more consistent. i'm pretty patient, but at the rate i'm going, it's gonna take me like 2 years to lose it when i see others losing my goal in like 6 months. :/ i've lost about 9lbs in 2 months, which isn't bad. but i've already stalled and i feel like it's too early to stall.
    i guess my problem is i feel like i don't know what i'm doing, or that i'm doing it wrong! lol
    i don't know, i'm pretty determined, and i wont give up.

    but thank you so much for your reply :)

    You can't compare yourself to others. Ever. The fluctuations are bothering you or you wouldn't be on here asking for help. Weight once a week - doing it more won't make the pounds come off faster. So what if it takes 2 years to drop the weight? You are young and obviously adopting good habits that will stay with you for the rest of your life. Stick with the 1500 calories - it's a really good range for most people - eat back some of your exercise calories so you aren't getting to much of a deficient. Make mindful decisions on what to eat and how much to exercise - too much of anything is never a good thing! Keep going, and know we've been there - it's hard but it's worth it!
  • nikifm24
    nikifm24 Posts: 6
    i accidentally posted this on my sister mfp (we share her laptop) and not my account (whoops!)

    but thank you so much everyone. i'm gonna keep trying this for another week or so and see how it goes. if no success, i'll make some other changes.
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    At 22 years old, 5'6" and 197 lbs you burn 2000 calories daily just being sedentary. If you're a student or work a job that has you standing you're more than sedentary already and probably burn more like 2200 daily. Add in exercise and you're burning closer to 2500-3000 calories daily depending on how much.

    You need to eat more than 1500 calories or you will be burning through lean mass. I did that when I was 27/28... I lost 60 lbs. But of that, 13.5 lbs was lean mass. NOT the right way to go about it.

    You need a moderate deficit, plenty of protein and some strength training to maintain lean mass.

    Aim to exercise for 3-5 hours a week at a moderate intensity. If you do, your est. TDEE will be 2592. Eat 2000 calories daily and you'll have a deficit that has you losing over a pound a week with minimal muscle loss.

    1500 is too low for you.
  • I know what you're feeling. While my user name says I'm new, I'm not really. I had to step away from my fitness pal after nearly two years because the demons in my mind were making things harder than they were. So after trying to tame my demons I've come back and ready to continue.

    1st rule of weight loss club: don't obsess over the scale. People say this all the time. Believe them when they say it. Why is it not good to obsess? Because you'll start to develop an unhealthy relationship with yourself. If you feel better for eating real and proper food and getting out into the world for exercise that's fantastic! Keep it up.

    For a number of months I didn't lose a single pound. The scale went up, the scale went down. However, when I went to the dr for my yearly health checks, my numbers went down significantly. I contribute that to eating regular foods that also include regular healthy servings of fat and carbs (with the occasional splurge meal). I wasn't drastically unhealthy with food before, but a few tweaks here and there helped. I'm not sure what your diary looks like, but one thing that has helped is to eat real and whole food. I'm not talking about all the fancy powders and mixes you get from a health food store. I'm talking food from the meat section, the dairy section (cheese, cream, etc. Nothing reduced fat), and the fruit and vegetable sections. I actually found I was fuller and happier when I ate regular full fat foods as opposed to going for the 'diet' version.

    To you and others, it takes time to figure out what foods work for you and in what combinations. For me, 2 slices of bread, a serving of rice, a serving of potatoes, a serving of oatmeal or a serving of pasta needed to be limited to once per day. The rest of the carbs came from a combination of fruits, vegetables and dairy products. Lots of dietary advice says to fill up on x amount of servings per day. Have a look at your diary and see where you can tighten up or anything that doesn't seem right or makes you feel guilty. You don't have tons top eating what you love, just find an alternative or more healthy version.
  • P/S: its okay to take a sanity break too! Long term changes take a long time to become regular habits. :)