Men and muscle, what's your opinion on it?

This is directed at men and women. Do you like the look of a man with muscle? I mean toned is ok on a man, but all that flexing and oiling and checking themselves out in the mirror, I find kind of feminine. And I don't want my man to be more feminine than me.

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  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    thank goodness i'm still a little bit fat
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    I like bones. My dream guy has a thigh gap.

    Maybe it is the secret dominant rager that lies deep within.

    I mean, I like my husband, but his huge, bulky muscles are just so hard and bulky. :flowerforyou:
  • mmddwechanged
    mmddwechanged Posts: 1,687 Member
    thank goodness i'm still a little bit fat

    ^^^you are lovely:)
  • RhineDHP
    RhineDHP Posts: 1,025 Member
    Honestly? Yes, I like muscly men.

    Then again I grew up watching Dragonball Z and WWE, so yeah.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    Do these pants make my azz look big?
  • denezy
    denezy Posts: 573 Member
    As long as he's not all bulky and masculine looking. Because that would be gross.
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    I like men with meat on their bones. The body builder type turns me OFF, big time.
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  • UseItForFuel
    UseItForFuel Posts: 29 Member
    I like lean and toned as well as a little "meat on the bones." Actually, I find the ones smack dab in the middle most attractive. So they can cuddle like a teddy bear but are still strong! Haha!

    I tend not to think of professional body builders as attractive.
  • laurynwithawhy
    laurynwithawhy Posts: 385 Member
    OOOO the more muscle the better. My ideal man looks like Gaston from beauty and the beast :)
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    I like men.
  • Otterluv
    Otterluv Posts: 9,083 Member
    I like men.

    ^^^ This is what I came here to say. Crankstr's got it right.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    I'm going for the long, lean look of the dancers in my head. That's why I do only pilates and yoga.
  • bellesouth18
    bellesouth18 Posts: 1,071 Member
    Bulging muscles and huge veins turn me off. I prefer a more natural look. Wide shoulders with a nice chest in between is what I prefer.
  • AnabolicKyle
    AnabolicKyle Posts: 489 Member
    Honestly? Yes, I like muscly men.

    Then again I grew up watching Dragonball Z and WWE, so yeah.

    DBZ!!!!!
  • RhineDHP
    RhineDHP Posts: 1,025 Member
    Edited cuz the other pic was too big.

    Something like this = turn off:

    ccse2mn


    Something like this = better:


    Randy-Orton-workout-routine-diet.jpg
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
    :laugh:

    I like him fairly in shape and have a weakness for defined chest and arms. I can hug my husband and just my hands overlap so he's perfect for me. Or I have T-Rex arms.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    Edited cuz the other pic was too big.

    Something like this = turn off:

    ccse2mn


    Something like this = better:


    Randy-Orton-workout-routine-diet.jpg

    whatever makes him happy.

    but you DO realize the first guy is in a competition, right? he isnt that lean year round...you cut down for the contest.
  • mjrkearney
    mjrkearney Posts: 408 Member
    If I can break out a magic marker and trace all of the veins in your body, you will be a grand work of art that will never see the inside of my bedroom. Ditto if your biceps are bigger than your head. I like a man with definition, or without, as long as I don't have to be worried about breaking him, or him, me.

    Basically, if you've got the cuddle and the stamina, bring it on. Hypothetically, of course.
  • mmddwechanged
    mmddwechanged Posts: 1,687 Member
    TBH they're all sexy! Skinny, plump, tall, short, bulking, leaning, bulging muscles, lean muscles ... Men are just sexy. And the older I get, the more I appreciate them all! ;)
  • RhineDHP
    RhineDHP Posts: 1,025 Member
    whatever makes him happy.

    but you DO realize the first guy is in a competition, right? he isnt that lean year round...you cut down for the contest.

    Yes maam, I realize this. This is my personal opinion of what I find attractive in terms of muscle, and while I do like muscly men, I am turned off by the bodybuilder type.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    I like them all. Some people say I like them too much, but they don't know me or my life!