Looking for friends for support

Hi, my name is Neomi. I am 30 yr old female, 5'3" and 175 lbs. I've been overweight eversince i was in high school. I did lose some 20 lbs when I went to the gym but the weight came back with a vengeance, now I am more than 60 lbs overweight. i've been yoyo dieting but this time i want to change my lifestyle and mindset. I would like to be motivated and would like to motivate other ppl too. add me -my username is niumee1982