when is enough really enough?

This is a question only you can answer.

ENOUGH...there, feel better

I'm not there yet, so you may wish to speak with someone who has achieved their goal, but it sounds to me that you've achieved where you need to be, and you look great! I think you're now at the point where you need to accept that and accept yourself. Your work (other than maintaining) is now mental, rather than the physical.

Confidence comes from within (cheesy, but true). When people lose a lot of weight, it can take a while for their brain to catch up with what they really look like. It's fine to aim for a particular look (if it's reasonably achievable) but if your confidence/self-esteem is tied to being thinner, no matter how small you get, then you're going to have to stop at some point, and accept that you need to draw confidence from somewhere else. You're a healthy weight, and from your picture, you look fit and healthy - you look great. A lot of women would give a lot to have the figure you have now. So. There is no real need to lose more. Any decisions now shouldn't be made on getting that scale number smaller, but how you look and feel.

I do understand where you're coming from, as I've been struggling with the same thoughts. My advice would be - why don't you try to maintain for a few months and see how you get on. Your mind will get used to how you look at this weight, you'll get used to carrying your body as it is now etc. As you become more comfortable with your size/shape now, I think you'll know over time if you want to get a little leaner, and it won't be from a confused or panicky state, but from just looking in the mirror and knowing logically, calmly, that you'd like to be a bit leaner. And then you can work on that. For some people, maintenance can be a scary thing. It can be hard to let go of losing, to let go of seeing progress on the scale, and seeing your body change. I think some people keep losing sometimes just to avoid having to get their head around maintaining.

Also, look at other goals to keep your momentum going, whether they are fitness goals, or even just trying to stay within a certain weight range.

what's your body fat % ?

I know how you feel. I'm 5'4" 111-112lbs. My goal was 108-110, but just recently I decided that I'm comfortable with the number I see on the scale right now. But I'm not yet satisfied with how I look, so I'm going to try to maintain this current weight while strength training so I can hopefully tone up and lower my body fat percentage a little more. Getting past obsessing over the scale wasn't easy and took a lot of self reflection and stepping back to look at the situation logically instead of emotionally. Now I realize that I am at a healthy weight & just need to focus on fitness instead if weight loss. I also know that in the process of shaping my body through strength training, my weight could actually increase while my size decreases, so I'm focusing more on how I look and how my clothes fit rather than the number on the scale.

Congrats on your achievements and best wishes for the next phase of your journey!

Confidence comes from within (cheesy, but true). When people lose a lot of weight, it can take a while for their brain to catch up with what they really look like. It's fine to aim for a particular look (if it's reasonably achievable) but if your confidence/self-esteem is tied to being thinner, no matter how small you get, then you're going to have to stop at some point, and accept that you need to draw confidence from somewhere else. You're a healthy weight, and from your picture, you look fit and healthy - you look great. A lot of women would give a lot to have the figure you have now. So. There is no real need to lose more. Any decisions now shouldn't be made on getting that scale number smaller, but how you look and feel.

I do understand where you're coming from, as I've been struggling with the same thoughts. My advice would be - why don't you try to maintain for a few months and see how you get on. Your mind will get used to how you look at this weight, you'll get used to carrying your body as it is now etc. As you become more comfortable with your size/shape now, I think you'll know over time if you want to get a little leaner, and it won't be from a confused or panicky state, but from just looking in the mirror and knowing logically, calmly, that you'd like to be a bit leaner. And then you can work on that. For some people, maintenance can be a scary thing. It can be hard to let go of losing, to let go of seeing progress on the scale, and seeing your body change. I think some people keep losing sometimes just to avoid having to get their head around maintaining.

Also, look at other goals to keep your momentum going, whether they are fitness goals, or even just trying to stay within a certain weight range.

this ^^^

I slowed down my weight loss because I needed to get used to what I looked like to decide if I wanted to keep going.
The first 30lbs came off very quickly and I was very happy with what I looked like. I could have been happy if I didnt lose any more but I also wasnt sure. I felt like I should keep losing. Since my goal was 35 lbs I switched my weekly goal to lose .5 lbs a week instead of 2 lbs a week. It gave me time to get used to what I looked like. I lost those last 5 lbs over 3 months ( hit a 3 week plateau at one point). Now I can realistically say I feel like I should lose about 6 more lbs then stop with the weight loss. (I want to lose a few more pounds because I am inbetween sizes and the extra few pounds will make a difference and make buying clothes easier). After that, Its not the weight that needs to change anymore to improve my body. I intend to control my weight and body image with exercise to define the areas that need improvement.