Omggg

Whyyyyyyyyyyy is it so hard to get back on track once you "slip up"? I honestly dont get it. I could eat well everyday and stick to my calorie limit and lost 30 lbs. Now that I managed to get "off track" it feels impossible to get on. I'm probably eating 2000-2500 cals everyday and its not the healthiest food either. I get dessert daily and am in the habit of eating in the middle of the night (like 3am! i wake up and think i need to eat!). im slowly gaining my weight back which would be no problem if i could nip it in the bud now but it literally seems impossible to eat well and limit my portions. Pleaseee help before I gain all this weight back. I've already gained 5-10 lbs in 6 weeks :/
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  • squatsandlipgloss
    squatsandlipgloss Posts: 595 Member
    It helps to reevaluate every now and then. I need to do this every few weeks, else I will slip up and start eating **** also. I never had a problem sticking to my exercise routine, but my biggest challenge was staying away from the unhealthy eating habits. I take a good look at what I am doing, I think about how miserable I felt being 30 lbs heavier, and I think about how great I feel now that my clothes are becoming loose.

    Think about why you are doing this!!
  • tweetyjf
    tweetyjf Posts: 48 Member
    it's a concious choice you make, do you want to lose weight or give in to some sort of stress eating.
    you can choose to take an appel of a macburger...

    you're not forced to eat unheahtly or to not set your alarm clock for excercise....

    throw out the unhealthy stuff what you don't have available to you to eat, you cant eat because
    you have to go out first....

    stop complaining and do something else!!!!
  • katy_trail
    katy_trail Posts: 1,992 Member
    it sounds like your body is feeling like you are over restricting during the day, or you are going through stress in your life.

    try to reevaluate the foods you're eating. try making some ethnic exciting foods.
    stuff that is so good being on plan is really exciting and more fun than eating bland fast food or whatever your temptation is.
    be ready for the midnight munchies with some edy's slow churned ice cream, much less fat/cals than reg. ice cream,
    but to me and many others tastes just as great, I also love frozen yogurt. or make frozen bananas ice cream.
    there's a whole page on chocolate covered katies' blog for making your own healthier ice cream recipes. and other desserts.

    some examples of a more interesting day

    banana bread oatmeal w/ toasted coconut on top
    clementine/mandarin oranges
    . curry fish tacos with a side of jalopeno and peppers with black beans and 1 oz of cheee on top.
    caribbean jerk chicken with sliced kiwi, bananas, and mangos


    that's just a few idea
  • squindles
    squindles Posts: 350 Member
    it's a concious choice you make, do you want to lose weight or give in to some sort of stress eating.
    you can choose to take an appel of a macburger...

    you're not forced to eat unheahtly or to not set your alarm clock for excercise....

    throw out the unhealthy stuff what you don't have available to you to eat, you cant eat because
    you have to go out first....

    stop complaining and do something else!!!!

    Nasty :explode: Couldn't you given sound advice without being so critical? You can be straight forward and to the point without being *****y :angry:
  • Jessicarenelaw
    Jessicarenelaw Posts: 19 Member
    it sounds like your body is feeling like you are over restricting during the day, or you are going through stress in your life.

    try to reevaluate the foods you're eating. try making some ethnic exciting foods.
    stuff that is so good being on plan is really exciting and more fun than eating bland fast food or whatever your temptation is.
    be ready for the midnight munchies with some edy's slow churned ice cream, much less fat/cals than reg. ice cream,
    but to me and many others tastes just as great, I also love frozen yogurt. or make frozen bananas ice cream.
    there's a whole page on chocolate covered katies' blog for making your own healthier ice cream recipes. and other desserts.

    some examples of a more interesting day

    banana bread oatmeal w/ toasted coconut on top
    clementine/mandarin oranges
    . curry fish tacos with a side of jalopeno and peppers with black beans and 1 oz of cheee on top.
    caribbean jerk chicken with sliced kiwi, bananas, and mangos


    that's just a few idea
    Om nom nom nom. This sounds so good.
  • nine2481
    nine2481 Posts: 115 Member
    OMG . I wanna B THIN !!!
  • JesterMFP
    JesterMFP Posts: 3,596 Member
    It is a conscious choice - only you can decide to have that dessert or not (or whatever it is). I know it can be hard, and I often make choices that afterwards I think maybe I shouldn't have had that. What I've learned to do though is to nip it in the bud right then, and get back on track straight away. Don't keep thinking "I need to stop this": just stop it. You say you're "probably" eating 2000-2500 cals... log it; log it all. That should give you a wakeup call. It's much easier to take responsibility for what you're putting into your body when you can see it all there in black and white.

    Also, maybe try to look at the difference between your "on track" and your "off track" and make the difference a little less extreme. The more radical the changes you make to your normal lifestyle, the easier it is to go completely in the opposite direction when you've had enough of it. Make smaller changes that you can maintain. Even if it means, for now, just logging and sticking to your calorie limit.

    You can still have dessert daily, just maybe not such a high calorie one, or such a big portion. For example, I have chocolate nearly every day, but usually only 50-150 calories worth. I also regularly have lots of non "diet" food like buttered toast, ice cream, hot chocolate, cheese, pate, biscuits, etc. I eat what I want, but I know that I can't have all of those things every day, and I can't have them in unlimited quantities, not if I want to stay within my calorie goal and get a good range of nutrients in as well. There has to be some compromise somewhere. You need to find a balance between eating well to achieve your goals, and maintaining a lifestyle that you can enjoy. Or, don't. Your choice.
  • fluffykitsune
    fluffykitsune Posts: 236 Member
    Funny you say that.. Cause its 3am here in WA atm and I just woke up and had a midnight snack of yogurt..
    I woke up cuz my tummy was growling. :embarassed:
  • it's a concious choice you make, do you want to lose weight or give in to some sort of stress eating.
    you can choose to take an appel of a macburger...

    you're not forced to eat unheahtly or to not set your alarm clock for excercise....

    throw out the unhealthy stuff what you don't have available to you to eat, you cant eat because
    you have to go out first....

    stop complaining and do something else!!!!

    If being skinny makes you like this then I'll stick with my macburgers :laugh: :laugh:
  • babydiego87
    babydiego87 Posts: 905 Member
    it's a concious choice you make, do you want to lose weight or give in to some sort of stress eating.
    you can choose to take an appel of a macburger...

    you're not forced to eat unheahtly or to not set your alarm clock for excercise....

    throw out the unhealthy stuff what you don't have available to you to eat, you cant eat because
    you have to go out first....

    stop complaining and do something else!!!!

    Nasty :explode: Couldn't you given sound advice without being so critical? You can be straight forward and to the point without being *****y :angry:
    how was that nasty? we're not 4 years old here, all adults and are able to make rational choices for ourselves.
  • katy_trail
    katy_trail Posts: 1,992 Member
    if it was easy we would all be already healthy and at goal. she was taking a risk exposing her real feelings and issues and
    it doesn't help anyone by being so critical and acting like it's always easy.
    if she's waking up in the middle of the night eating these things she isn't awake enough to analyze her choices.
    it's not always an option to throw out all the food that is less than healthy, although is the best scenario.
  • squatsandlipgloss
    squatsandlipgloss Posts: 595 Member
    it's a concious choice you make, do you want to lose weight or give in to some sort of stress eating.
    you can choose to take an appel of a macburger...

    you're not forced to eat unheahtly or to not set your alarm clock for excercise....

    throw out the unhealthy stuff what you don't have available to you to eat, you cant eat because
    you have to go out first....

    stop complaining and do something else!!!!

    If being skinny makes you like this then I'll stick with my macburgers :laugh: :laugh:

    LOL :laugh: I don't think she meant it that way, though, maybe could have said it a bit differently. I think a lot of people fail to realize that binging is a real eating disorder, so saying "you're not forced to..." kind of bugs me. People with boulimia aren't forced to throw up what they ate? You wouldn't say that either, right? Some people lack the ability to make conscious choices more than others. I think "rational choices" is not applicable in every case.

    Either way, OP, I hope you can find your motivation again!
  • squatsandlipgloss
    squatsandlipgloss Posts: 595 Member
    if it was easy we would all be already healthy and at goal. she was taking a risk exposing her real feelings and issues and
    it doesn't help anyone by being so critical and acting like it's always easy.
    if she's waking up in the middle of the night eating these things she isn't awake enough to analyze her choices.
    it's not always an option to throw out all the food that is less than healthy, although is the best scenario.

    This ^^
  • if it was easy we would all be already healthy and at goal. she was taking a risk exposing her real feelings and issues and
    it doesn't help anyone by being so critical and acting like it's always easy.
    if she's waking up in the middle of the night eating these things she isn't awake enough to analyze her choices.
    it's not always an option to throw out all the food that is less than healthy, although is the best scenario.

    This ^^

    Agreed :bigsmile:
  • geekyjock76
    geekyjock76 Posts: 2,720 Member
    No offense, but I warned you last year about the risks involved when pursuing an aggressive calorie deficit considering your exercise volume and amount of fat you wanted to lose. What were these risks?

    -Disproportionate loss in lean body mass relative to fat mass.
    -Disproportionate reduction in Resting Metabolic Rate relative to weight lost.
    -Significant reduction in serum leptin concentration levels and/or impairment of the receptors that assess leptin levels.

    Judging by your posts, and pictures, it seems all three have resulted from your rapid weight loss.

    You lost a substantial amount of lean body mass because you restricted calories too much. As I explained many months ago, we all have a limit to how much fat can be oxidized in a 24-hour period. Think of this as a maximum deficit. The closer you get to that maximum deficit, the more lean body mass is used for fuel instead of fat mass. If you exceed this deficit, fat is no longer oxidized and any further energy demands are met strictly from lean body mass. Although you may not have reached that max deficit, the degree of restriction led to a ratio that favored a disproportionate amount of lean body mass to be used as fuel.

    This restriction caused serum leptin levels to plummet and/or impairment in the receptors which aid in regulating satiety and energy balance. This means your body was receiving false confirmation that you were meeting energy needs by eating enough when you truly were not.

    Because you were receiving incorrect feedback, and you continued to restrict to the tune of 1300 calories, your total daily energy needs lessened greatly. Thus, you can see the reciprocal relationship leptin has with energy balance. The wacky hunger signals you are getting are a result of this.

    Why is your body presently responding the way it is? Because you decided to lose weight using extreme measures. In turn, your body wants to replace the weight you so rapidly lost. Although you lost a significant amount lean body mass during restriction, you shall only recover a very small amount during this "weight recovery." This, and the above, is why people who quickly lose weight via a VLCD gain a lot of the weight back and end up at a higher body fat percentage than what they had during their original weight. So if you were originally 140 lbs at 28% body fat back then, and you gain all the weight back, you could have a body fat percentage far greater than 30%.

    What should you do?

    -Keep lifting weights so more of the weight you regain is recovered lean body mass.
    -See an endocrinologist or a metabolic testing center and assess your RMR to gauge how low your TDEE has adjusted.
    -Slowly increase calories until your weight stabilizes and maintain eating that amount for several months.
    -Only after that can you attempt to reduce fat mass again, but use a much smaller deficit.
  • I know it is hard but... I found that weighing myself every morning helped because it stopped me from stuffing things into my mouth as I have to "face the scale" in the morning. I get up, weight myself, check-in on MFP, put in my food and exercise for the day and read blogs here to motivate for the day. I don't feel guilty if the scale goes up a few lbs as I know that if I stick to the plan, it works. I have been maintaining for 7 months and slip up about once a month. I get right back on track. I feel like crap for a few days, the number (yes, I get on the scale the next morning) can go up 3-4 lbs!!!

    Saw this and it helps:

    If you're heading somewhere in the car and wanted to get there by 5, but realized you were going to be a few minutes late, would you just give up and swerve into a bridge abutment?
  • mattbk6
    mattbk6 Posts: 1
    Just stick with it make it a game. It's kind of like golf lowest score (calorie intake) wins it's you against MFP. If you don't win today try again tomorrow! good luck
  • squindles
    squindles Posts: 350 Member
    No offense, but I warned you last year about the risks involved when pursuing an aggressive calorie deficit considering your exercise volume and amount of fat you wanted to lose. What were these risks?

    -Disproportionate loss in lean body mass relative to fat mass.
    -Disproportionate reduction in Resting Metabolic Rate relative to weight lost.
    -Significant reduction in serum leptin concentration levels and/or impairment of the receptors that assess leptin levels.

    Judging by your posts, and pictures, it seems all three have resulted from your rapid weight loss.

    You lost a substantial amount of lean body mass because you restricted calories too much. As I explained many months ago, we all have a limit to how much fat can be oxidized in a 24-hour period. Think of this as a maximum deficit. The closer you get to that maximum deficit, the more lean body mass is used for fuel instead of fat mass. If you exceed this deficit, fat is no longer oxidized and any further energy demands are met strictly from lean body mass. Although you may not have reached that max deficit, the degree of restriction led to a ratio that favored a disproportionate amount of lean body mass to be used as fuel.

    This restriction caused serum leptin levels to plummet and/or impairment in the receptors which aid in regulating satiety and energy balance. This means your body was receiving false confirmation that you were meeting energy needs by eating enough when you truly were not.

    Because you were receiving incorrect feedback, and you continued to restrict to the tune of 1300 calories, your total daily energy needs lessened greatly. Thus, you can see the reciprocal relationship leptin has with energy balance. The wacky hunger signals you are getting are a result of this.

    Why is your body presently responding the way it is? Because you decided to lose weight using extreme measures. In turn, your body wants to replace the weight you so rapidly lost. Although you lost a significant amount lean body mass during restriction, you shall only recover a very small amount during this "weight recovery." This, and the above, is why people who quickly lose weight via a VLCD gain a lot of the weight back and end up at a higher body fat percentage than what they had during their original weight. So if you were originally 140 lbs at 28% body fat back then, and you gain all the weight back, you could have a body fat percentage far greater than 30%.

    What should you do?

    -Keep lifting weights so more of the weight you regain is recovered lean body mass.
    -See an endocrinologist or a metabolic testing center and assess your RMR to gauge how low your TDEE has adjusted.
    -Slowly increase calories until your weight stabilizes and maintain eating that amount for several months.
    -Only after that can you attempt to reduce fat mass again, but use a much smaller deficit.

    ^^^^THIS^^^^ Giving constructive critisismn and advice without resorting to nastyness, that the way you help people :smile:
  • JanetRene1
    JanetRene1 Posts: 8 Member
    Whyyyyyyyyyyy is it so hard to get back on track once you "slip up"? I honestly dont get it. I could eat well everyday and stick to my calorie limit and lost 30 lbs. Now that I managed to get "off track" it feels impossible to get on. I'm probably eating 2000-2500 cals everyday and its not the healthiest food either. I get dessert daily and am in the habit of eating in the middle of the night (like 3am! i wake up and think i need to eat!). im slowly gaining my weight back which would be no problem if i could nip it in the bud now but it literally seems impossible to eat well and limit my portions. Pleaseee help before I gain all this weight back. I've already gained 5-10 lbs in 6 weeks :/

    I know that geeky jock was kind of harsh but, he is correct. It is good to make sure that we are doing this in the healthiest manner possible.

    I have made a visit to a nutritionist and am looking at joining my local YMCA so I have access to weight equipment to balance out the cardio exercise I have started with. I also try to make sure that I am including the foods I enjoy so I don't feel deprived, which is the quickest way to lead to those moments of, shall we say "fall of the wagon and rolling under the wheel".

    Finally make sure you have a good support system. Weight loss is hard enough without the positive support of others.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Just stick with it make it a game. It's kind of like golf lowest score (calorie intake) wins it's you against MFP. If you don't win today try again tomorrow! good luck

    This has got to be some of the worst advice I have seen in a while.... Severely restricting calories is NOT a 'game'!!
  • llkilgore
    llkilgore Posts: 1,169 Member
    How much are you eating on the days you're on track? Not enough, I suspect, if you're waking up in the middle of the night needing to eat. And how old are you really? MFP can't calculate an accurate calorie budget for you if the software thinks you're 100 years old.
  • tracieangeletti
    tracieangeletti Posts: 432 Member
    No offense, but I warned you last year about the risks involved when pursuing an aggressive calorie deficit considering your exercise volume and amount of fat you wanted to lose. What were these risks?

    -Disproportionate loss in lean body mass relative to fat mass.
    -Disproportionate reduction in Resting Metabolic Rate relative to weight lost.
    -Significant reduction in serum leptin concentration levels and/or impairment of the receptors that assess leptin levels.

    Judging by your posts, and pictures, it seems all three have resulted from your rapid weight loss.

    You lost a substantial amount of lean body mass because you restricted calories too much. As I explained many months ago, we all have a limit to how much fat can be oxidized in a 24-hour period. Think of this as a maximum deficit. The closer you get to that maximum deficit, the more lean body mass is used for fuel instead of fat mass. If you exceed this deficit, fat is no longer oxidized and any further energy demands are met strictly from lean body mass. Although you may not have reached that max deficit, the degree of restriction led to a ratio that favored a disproportionate amount of lean body mass to be used as fuel.

    This restriction caused serum leptin levels to plummet and/or impairment in the receptors which aid in regulating satiety and energy balance. This means your body was receiving false confirmation that you were meeting energy needs by eating enough when you truly were not.

    Because you were receiving incorrect feedback, and you continued to restrict to the tune of 1300 calories, your total daily energy needs lessened greatly. Thus, you can see the reciprocal relationship leptin has with energy balance. The wacky hunger signals you are getting are a result of this.

    Why is your body presently responding the way it is? Because you decided to lose weight using extreme measures. In turn, your body wants to replace the weight you so rapidly lost. Although you lost a significant amount lean body mass during restriction, you shall only recover a very small amount during this "weight recovery." This, and the above, is why people who quickly lose weight via a VLCD gain a lot of the weight back and end up at a higher body fat percentage than what they had during their original weight. So if you were originally 140 lbs at 28% body fat back then, and you gain all the weight back, you could have a body fat percentage far greater than 30%.

    What should you do?

    -Keep lifting weights so more of the weight you regain is recovered lean body mass.
    -See an endocrinologist or a metabolic testing center and assess your RMR to gauge how low your TDEE has adjusted.
    -Slowly increase calories until your weight stabilizes and maintain eating that amount for several months.
    -Only after that can you attempt to reduce fat mass again, but use a much smaller deficit.


    THIS!!!!!! Sticky it, print it, do whatever you need to do to read it everyday so you can use it as a reminder as to why you need to eat and nourish your body so you don't go off the deep end! I worry about every single morsel I put in to my mouth so much so that the worrying itself has become unhealthy. I too have been undereating way too much especially since I workout a lot. It was making me depressed and starving ALL OF THE TIME but I wouldn't eat more because I didn't want to gain. I started reading the threads and kept reading about eating more to lose more. I went to FAT 2 Fit Radio.com and punched in the numbers it asks for and found out just how much I was undereating and read a thread on here called In Place of a Road Map vol. 3 ( go to the search button and look for it) which helps to explain just what not eating enough can do to your body and how it HINDERS weight loss. I go to the Fat 2 Fit site everyday and look at my numbers everyday to help assure myself that I'm SUPPOSED to take in those calories to remain healthy and still LOSE weight. I'm trying to retrain my brain to look at food differently and not like the enemy I have made it in my mind. I really think that the only way that this is going to become a sustainable lifestyle is to do it this way. You can't walk around feeling hungry and deprived all the time. You will fail plain and simple. I know because I have done it over and over again. Another thing I can't stress enough is patience. Losing the weight safely and healthfully takes time. LOTS of time. Rushing and forcing yourself to lose weight quickly just doesn't work, not for the long haul. Love yourself, EAT, workout and be patient. It WILL happen!! Good luck to you!!
  • wllwsmmr
    wllwsmmr Posts: 391 Member
    No offense, but I warned you last year about the risks involved when pursuing an aggressive calorie deficit considering your exercise volume and amount of fat you wanted to lose. What were these risks?

    -Disproportionate loss in lean body mass relative to fat mass.
    -Disproportionate reduction in Resting Metabolic Rate relative to weight lost.
    -Significant reduction in serum leptin concentration levels and/or impairment of the receptors that assess leptin levels.

    Judging by your posts, and pictures, it seems all three have resulted from your rapid weight loss.

    You lost a substantial amount of lean body mass because you restricted calories too much. As I explained many months ago, we all have a limit to how much fat can be oxidized in a 24-hour period. Think of this as a maximum deficit. The closer you get to that maximum deficit, the more lean body mass is used for fuel instead of fat mass. If you exceed this deficit, fat is no longer oxidized and any further energy demands are met strictly from lean body mass. Although you may not have reached that max deficit, the degree of restriction led to a ratio that favored a disproportionate amount of lean body mass to be used as fuel.

    This restriction caused serum leptin levels to plummet and/or impairment in the receptors which aid in regulating satiety and energy balance. This means your body was receiving false confirmation that you were meeting energy needs by eating enough when you truly were not.

    Because you were receiving incorrect feedback, and you continued to restrict to the tune of 1300 calories, your total daily energy needs lessened greatly. Thus, you can see the reciprocal relationship leptin has with energy balance. The wacky hunger signals you are getting are a result of this.

    Why is your body presently responding the way it is? Because you decided to lose weight using extreme measures. In turn, your body wants to replace the weight you so rapidly lost. Although you lost a significant amount lean body mass during restriction, you shall only recover a very small amount during this "weight recovery." This, and the above, is why people who quickly lose weight via a VLCD gain a lot of the weight back and end up at a higher body fat percentage than what they had during their original weight. So if you were originally 140 lbs at 28% body fat back then, and you gain all the weight back, you could have a body fat percentage far greater than 30%.

    What should you do?

    -Keep lifting weights so more of the weight you regain is recovered lean body mass.
    -See an endocrinologist or a metabolic testing center and assess your RMR to gauge how low your TDEE has adjusted.
    -Slowly increase calories until your weight stabilizes and maintain eating that amount for several months.
    -Only after that can you attempt to reduce fat mass again, but use a much smaller deficit.

    You might find this harsh or not something you'd subscribe to because 'you will never lose weight by eating xxxx cals' but let me say that I second his advice based on PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. I have restricted A LOT, and at that time I felt so in control, and then came the uncontrollable binging, because your body eventually WILL respond and retaliate. You binge and binge and no longer feel full. You feel sad and mope and binge more and then it is just a vicious binge streak with no end.. TIll you gain back all your weight AND EVEN MORE. I'm not saying that might happen to you, but that was what happened to me. SO MANY TIMES. I keep doing it the unhealthy way, and yo-yo weighted COUNTLESS OF TIMES. And I am only 19 years old. I have now picked up the habit of binging and overeating and being utterly OBSESSED with calories. I also emotionally eat because since I was depriving myself (be it calories or the types of foods), eating became comforting, and sad to say certain unfortunate events happened and that led to so many binge streaks that led me to more and more misery. I screwed up my metabolism and my health, and spent way too much money on binging too.

    This time I am finally putting my feel down and doing it the healthy way. I am sad to say that binging is now going to be with me for life, after years of doing it. And the obsession with calories and food? I sure hope it dissipates. BUT I am not going to rush it. It is all a result of my refusal to stop the severe restricting, the crazy exercising etc. It was all very tiring and draining mentally too. Whatever changes you make to your eating/exercise, to maintain your weight you'll have to keep those changes and habits FOR LIFE. That is why people advocate patience! Slower weight loss is more sustainable and less overwhelming.

    My worst binge streak of at least 10000cals of junk per day for about a month after severe restriction led to a rapid weight gain of 10kg, and I felt like I'd never get out because I was never full, and even when I felt sick from all the food I couldn't stop eating. I dreamt of going back to being able to eat 500cals a day with 1hour of intense exercise and feeling lean and skinny. But then I felt like I 'failed' because I couldn't get back to that amount of restriction. And that only led to 'screw it i'll just binge my life away since I failed' and was pointless. I then tried to stay positive and take things slow... 6000cals a day? Heck it IS an improvement from 10000cals aint it?! Then I aim to do even better the next. EVERY EFFORT COUNTS.

    What I found helped to reduce my calories is to NOT EAT JUNK AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE initially. I bought A LOT OF HEALTHY STUFF, and ate all of that first and made myself exercise EVERYDAY, without overdoing it regardless of how much I intake, because I want to control my eating and not let overexercising make me even hungrier! Yes the first few days were HELL and I felt like I NEEDED junk. Just force yourself to go cold turkey. And yes I still slip ups but it certainly made transition easier and also lowered the calorie intake by a mile.

    I used to be the most negative person ever and never believed in 'positive reinforcement' and found it silly and stupid. This time I tried. I reminded myself that I was worth it, and I want my life back. That I was going to fake it til I make it. Smile and laugh a lot. Face everything in life with a calm and happy heart. Yes I get tired and sad at times but I try to not let the moping drag on. One day and that's it. Pick myself back up, and stay positive. A happy day or a sad day is still a day passed. You choose how you want to feel. And the more days I am positive, the more positive I have become. Yes I MYSELF am in disbelief how it actually worked!

    While I'm still struggling with binging, I am going to continue to stay positive because positivity doesn't cost a thing. And it spurs me on. I try to celebrate every little thing in life.

    Read this in a forum and it really spoke to me, "Whether you think you can or think you can't - you're right". - Henry Ford
  • Melo1966
    Melo1966 Posts: 881 Member
    Sometimes a "Diet Break" is what you need. You need to remember why you want and need to lose the weight and make a new game plane. Do not cut your calories too low so you can fit in yummy food. Weigh, measure and log everything and be completely honest in your diary. Log things BEFORE you eat them. Fitting in yummies will help with binges. Like yesterday I had 140 extra calories and had hit my my protein and fiber macro goals so I could eat anything. I could have 2 Girl Scout cookies or weigh out chocolate covered almonds. Measure out ALL snacks and put in individual bags. I chose the almonds.
    Good Luck on the Next Chapter of Your Journey. :flowerforyou:
  • elisa123gal
    elisa123gal Posts: 4,333 Member
    You don't have to eat at a deficit or count calories to be a good person. It is okay to take a break from "dieting." Just try not to regain. How about maintain where you are until you feel your dedication coming back. This isn't a race.. You know what to do to lose and you will when you're ready.
  • geekyjock76
    geekyjock76 Posts: 2,720 Member
    I actually forgot to list what I feel is the most damaging result of adhering to a VLCD - an irrational fear of increasing calories closer to or back to true maintenance. If not addressed, it can lead to disordered eating and even an eating disorder. Before you began restricting, you engaged in an eating disorder - binge eating. Thus, it was unwise to engage in rigid restriction since you'd be adding another unhealthy behavior which would negatively affect your mental state.

    You can recover the lean body mass you lost and reduce the extra fat mass you gained. You can increase RMR and leptin values back to optimal levels. Your leptin receptors may once again be capable of accurately assessing leptin values. However, recovering from the psychological damage incurred by adhering to an overly aggressive fat loss strategy is far more difficult and problematic. I've seen so many posts from people following VLCDs who are scared to increase calories even slightly - this fear is not healthy and can evolve into paranoia if not countered quickly.
  • khall86790
    khall86790 Posts: 1,100 Member
    Stop posting and complaining about it and do something about it.
    You know how, you've already lost weight.
    Just stop eating ****ty foods and get back to being healthy again.
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    Like most things, getting back on track gets easier with practice.
  • snoopydee
    snoopydee Posts: 1 Member
    I know the feeling! I said that I wanted to just "maintain" during the winter. And I was doing really good until about a month ago and I just seemed to lose all of my motivation! I hiked my weight off and I the weather hasn't permitted me to get back into the woods yet. At this rate, I will gain all of my weight back before the weather breaks. I had lost 36 lbs, but have gained 6 lbs back in the last 5 weeks. NOT GOOD!!! The thought of having to struggle with my weight, day in and day out, for the rest of my life is overwhelming! :(