Frustrated!!!

I am incredibly frustrated today. Because I have reactive hypoglycemia and I am borderline diabetic, my doctor sent me to see a dietician to help lose weight. I saw her the first time three months ago. She suggested I follow the “My Plate” plan (divide your plate into three sections, 1/2 Carbs, 1/5 protein, 4/5 vegetables). I gained 5# that month! She “reprimanded” me for not following the plan and not exercising enough.
The next month, she told me to continue my plate and eat 1800 calories and 80-90gm of protein. Two weeks in, I threw out the “My Plate” and joined MFP. I set my calorie goal at 1800 (which is just about TDEE -20%) and my macros at 40% carbs, 30% fat, 30% protein. I lost 4# the last two weeks of that month. She again scolded me for not losing enough weight, and told me the amount of sodium I was eating was too high.
So, this past month, I also began tracking sodium and fiber. I get 40gm of fiber a day and keep my sodium under 2500mcg all most every day. I lost 8# this month! Her only comment regarding my weight, “That’s good, but your total loss really should be at least twice that.” Ugh!!!
She then continued to critic my food log. (I should note, I stayed within my calories and macros for the month.) One day I had spaghetti with sausage. She said you can’t eat sausage and expect to lose weight. Um, I’m averaging 2# a week!
She then told me my breakfasts were inadequate. She said I needed to eat “real” food to keep me satisfied. I have 1/2 cup plain nonfat Greek yogurt, blended with 1 cup fruit, 1 T chia seeds, and enough water/ice to make a smoothie. I vary the fruit and sometimes add cocoa or PB2 to change it up, this keeps me satisfied until lunch.
Is her job to help me lose weight or frustrate me to the point I want to binge? Grrrrr.......
Thanks for letting me vent!
Shari