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I've never been in that situation, but I will definitely PRAY PRAY PRAY for you!!!!!!! :]

I'll be praying for you. I agree with terrijayne, you should take the test and know for sure. The doctor knowing your past should be able to help you. I had a friend who went though the same thing...I believe it was her third pregnancy she was pregnant with twins. Her boys are 9 years old now and she also had a daughter after having the twins. Lean on the Lord. He is faithful!

I have been were you were and it is horrible. No words can describe how my heart aches for you. I feel blessed only my first pregnancy ended that way but we were almost five months along and it was totally unexpected. I do not know why some things happen the way they do but I recommend a lot of prayer. My second pregnancy was a nightmare. I was constantly afraid and I did spot with Logan and that terrified me. I wish I had enjoyed it more instead of being terrrified the entire pregnacy but that is easier said than done. Just know that my prayers are with you and that after being told by a doctor that my first child had a gentic disorder and that I may not be able to have a healthy baby. Here is what I did, first of all I refused all the test because they had just the sightest chance of causing miscarriage and I didnt want to take any chances. I also became very adamant especially early on that they not do internal ultrasounds because I dont care what the doctor's say in my first pregnancy they did that a lot and I just didnt want them poking around in there, I know it's silly but it made me feel better. I prayed a lot and I talked to God and told him that I needed him to help me and give me a healthy baby. I am ashamed to say I actually said "Dear Lord please give me a healthy, happy beautiful baby." LOL I don't know why I said it that way, put the beautiful in there but I did and let me tell you he gave me all three parts of my prayer. As to why the first one ever happened I can not say and I still cry from time to time about the little girl I will never know. But I can tell you this when your baby gets here you will be enveloped with more love that even seems humanly possible. I know I would have loved and appriciate my little boy even without the miscarriage but now because of what I have been though, because I know that life is so precious and such and AWESOME miracle, I do not take one second he breathes for granted. He is now two and every single morning when I hear him upstairs laughing, every night when I put him to bed or rock him to sleep I say "thank you God thank you for another day with my angel!!" I hope this is of some help and you will be in my prayers. And one other thing I wanted to say if I ever thought I was pregnant again I would just not even take a test I would just wait and see what happened and when my belly started to grow and I felt the baby then I would go to the doctor. Insane...absolutley!!! Do I know why I would do this? No But that is what I would do. Doctors make me very sad and scared since my miscarriage and it's very hard to go through a pregnancy without having one but you can do it. I will pray for you every day. Let me know if you need anything. Sorry this is so wordy I just had a lot on my heart for you to hear.