Stay at Home Moms, Please!

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  • Stay at Home Moms, Please!

    I think women should be able to stay at home if they choose to do so. Raising your own child instead of sending it to day care is a great thing but it's rude to tell women to stay at home. Some women don't have the choice of staying home with their children. What if they're a single mother or they need two incomes to live on?

    Stay at home if you can but don't be sexist. This isn't 1950 anymore.


    I don't believe she meant it like you took it!!! She is looking for other STAY AT HOME MOMS!!! to help her in her journey to a better and healhier her!! She was not at all talking about Moms need to stay at home!! I'm sorry that you took it this way, but if you read her post instead of just the title maybe it would have been clear!!! We all need to be supportive of one another and not jump off the edge just because of a title!! God bless and Hope you have a Great day!! :-)
  • mrs_dwr
    mrs_dwr Posts: 189 Member
    Stay at Home Moms, Please!

    I think women should be able to stay at home if they choose to do so. Raising your own child instead of sending it to day care is a great thing but it's rude to tell women to stay at home. Some women don't have the choice of staying home with their children. What if they're a single mother or they need two incomes to live on?

    Stay at home if you can but don't be sexist. This isn't 1950 anymore.

    I see what you did there :laugh: :flowerforyou:
  • So sorry...I meant it as in, "Looking for Stay-at-home-Moms, please." I was looking for other moms who stay home to be friends with on mfp. Sorry for the mix up!
  • Staysee7
    Staysee7 Posts: 15 Member
    I'm a SAHM of 3 kids--2 boys and a girl--12yrs, 7yrs, and 3yrs. Feel free to add me! :)
  • I currently stay home with my daughter who's 8 months. I usually get bored and get tempted to go into the food. I noticed I began to just eat just to eat because of bordom, stress, etc. So, I got healthy snacks, such as greek yogurt, fruit. We get "dinners" on the day of, and that helps too! :) We have chips a hoys and chips, but that stuff gets old. I try not to think about food, but it's ALWAYS ON MY MIND!!!!!!!!

    Drinking tea also helps. For some reason whenever I drink a cup of tea, "food" doesn't really apease me.

    (:
  • MommaTLE
    MommaTLE Posts: 10
    After 14 years of working outside home , I became a stay at home mom (Daughter 14, Son, 12, and Daughter 7). At the time I had lost 25 pounds using my fitness pal. In the year I quit work I have gained 15 pounds back. I am so mad at myself. I think work provided more structure plus dressing up vs wearing sweats and casual clothes my clothes needed to fit. The other issue I try to finish up the leftovers and easier access to snacks. I am back on track now and working hard.
  • Felecia1923
    Felecia1923 Posts: 61 Member
    My three year old daughte, her daddy, and I are all eating healthy together. We got rid of our bad food...lol
  • weberk
    weberk Posts: 34 Member
    Anyone who wants to add me feel free. 28 year old stay at home mom of 3!
  • fit4lifeUcan2
    fit4lifeUcan2 Posts: 1,458 Member
    SAHM to 3 teens and full time college student. It's really hard eating healthy and being on the go constantly and then trying to fit in exercise between classes etc. But I get it done. Take the stairs instead of the elevator, my breaks between classes I walk around campus etc. When the kids are home from school I'm busy with them and do things around the house and yard etc. Keeping busy keeps me from eating mindlessly and just standing in the fridge doors looking for something else to snack on. Hope to go to work full time once I graduate. Won't be much longer. Add me as a friend if you like.
  • Hi! I am right there with you, im also a SAHM and i have a 4 year old little girl and a 18 month old little boy. The temptations are horrible, ive gotten alot better with eating all the time now that ive added ALOT more water to my diet and cut out all sugary drinks so im constantly drinking water which helps keep me full and i try my best to stay out of kitchen unless i have to be in there (to cook or clean). My two are always giong 100 mph but i have finally be able to really get in a routine to get my workouts done. i dont go to the gym i just cant afford it anymore. But I do the Jillian Michaels 30 day shred off of my computer which keeps the tv on for the kids if they want it on and they've learned to give me 30 minutes and ill be done...then i also do the 45 minute zumba workout on my tv but i do that around 2 in the afternoon when i put my son down for his nap, he'll nap for at least an hour if not 2 still so im able to knock the zumba out before he wakes up and my 4 year old either naps some days or she will color or work on her numbers and let me get the workout in. Ive learned i do the 3 meals a day with snacks in between and that really helps out as well. I do the fiber one bars/brownies/cereal and that helps keep me full as well. Add me as a friend if you would like. :)
  • Cynkane
    Cynkane Posts: 55 Member
    I am a work at home mom of 3 (15, 7 and 4). I work almost full-time hours from home, my kids are in three different schools and all play ball. My life is crazy busy so I understand the temptations and the struggle to find time to work out. Feel free to add me
  • AmandaReimer1
    AmandaReimer1 Posts: 235 Member
    I'm currently a stay at home Mom of my almost 2 year old. For myself I figured out what healthy snacks satisfy my sweet tooth, and I added more veggies to our dinner plates and I found alternatives to snacks, like special k cracker chips. I also take the portion out instead of eating it out of the box.

    I workout during naptime or after bedtime. My hubby isn't a big slacker, he only eats it if I bring it in the house, so I don't :)
  • Hi My name is Kim & i am also a stay at home! I love being home with my kids & find it to be the best job ever! I did just start on MFP & looking to see how everything is on this page, & on all of them! This sight was told to me by some friends & i had to come & take a look! lol
  • juliestahle
    juliestahle Posts: 3 Member
    i am a SAHM to three kiddos, 4 , 2 and 9 months, def can relate re the binge eating especially when kids are getting on my nerves.
    lol, anyways, i am finding that our investment in a blendtec has helped us a lot to make smoothies daily for us and the kids,
    would love some support and to support other moms.
    Julie
  • Shawnna_H
    Shawnna_H Posts: 32 Member
    Im also at a stay at home mom of 4 kids (15, 10, 9 and 7) its all about rutine. Add me if you like and you can check out my profile and food diary too :)
  • Hello everyone,
    I'm a 22 year old sahm (10 month old & 4 year old) and I know exactly what you mean about falling off of the wagon repeatedly. I am committing to this completely now and I would love to join others on their journey to get fit! I'm still new to the state i moved to 3 years ago and with me being a sahm it's a little more challenging to meet other women my age or in a similar lifestyle so I am excited to begin and gain support and be able to encourage others as well!
  • melindasuefritz
    melindasuefritz Posts: 3,509 Member
    IM A STAY A T HOME MOM WITH A 6 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER
  • Im also at a stay at home mom of 4 kids (15, 10, 9 and 7) its all about rutine. Add me if you like and you can check out my profile and food diary too :)

    Would you mind if I added you? I myself am struggling to establish a routine and find myself doing things all helter skelter :/
  • sahm of a 20 mth girl who is underweight picky as hell and too busy to eat. I am good at eating her leftover which is the majority of her food. I feel guilty throwing so much away. anyways... ideas and support needed
  • bluegirl10
    bluegirl10 Posts: 695 Member
    I am a SAHM too!... My son is 5.5 months old! Feel free to add me too!
  • Jchambers1130
    Jchambers1130 Posts: 173 Member
    You don't need exercise to lose weight, that is only a bonus. About 70% of what you put in your mouth will determine weight loss. Grab some motivation and willpower and the pounds will come off.
  • Josh_92_
    Josh_92_ Posts: 23
    hey Add me :)
  • MrsCoachP
    MrsCoachP Posts: 5 Member
    I am a SAHM to 3 boys ages 3 yrs, 2 yrs and 2 mos. It can be a struggle to make wise food choices and exercise but when I do I feel better I will be adding you and several of the SAHM from this forum!
  • jelk8881
    jelk8881 Posts: 49 Member
    Hi I am a 24 yr old stay at home mom. With a soon to be 3 year old and an 8 month old. I do find it difficult cause your so busy and you grab a quick snack which is usually something fatty. When I feed them breakfast I get myself some too and eat while they are. And same thing for lunch. I usually eat what my 3 year old is eating so its not an unhealthy breakfast or lunch either. I wish all of you good luck. And feel free to add me.
  • dinomomma
    dinomomma Posts: 264 Member
    31 year old SAHM to a 9 year old and a almost 17 month old :D
    Feel free to add me!
  • missymakayla
    missymakayla Posts: 309 Member
    Try buying good calorie foods only fruits, veg's, low cal snacks. I find if I don't have alot of snacks in house, I don't eat them....
  • Mist1981
    Mist1981 Posts: 145
    I was a SAHM for years before I went back to work almost 4 years ago. I was actually in better shape then than I am now. Mostly due to being busier now and having a hard time now to fit in the gym, and mainly having to just workout at home. Anyway when I stayed at home I had a scheduled and I stuck to it! I got the kids up made everyone breakfast, went to the gym, came home and made everyone lunch, put them down for a nap (when they were younger), and while they were napping I showered, cleaned up lunch, paid bills, etc. I was always too busy to just be sitting and eating or realizing I was hungry. I think the other key as well is to get all the processed junk out so that you aren't tempted by it. I always had fruit and veggies cut up and ready to go so they were easier to grab and go. Again I think the main thing is a schedule and routine, at least for my girls and I it was!
  • Gina91507
    Gina91507 Posts: 51 Member
    I totally understand! I have two boys, 3yrs and 19 months. It gets really stressful sometimes being home alone all day everyday with them. Especially when it rains or is too cold to play outside.

    It really helps me that I have the app on my phone, which is pretty much always in my pocket. If I take a bit of something, I enter it. It also helps a lot that I am doing P90x. I do it at nap/quiet time, and it's way easier for me to get my workout in when I don't have to leave the house.
  • happystars82
    happystars82 Posts: 225 Member
    Hi, i'm the same, I have a 7 year old who is normally at school but I have a very clingy 2 year old, I try and go out walking with her...add me!! Amy from UK
  • melimel9
    melimel9 Posts: 8 Member
    Hi there.. I'm a SAHM too and I completely get it. I have a demanding 18month old. It's hard at times to get my workouts in. I do Zumba and elliptical. I try to dance around my son when I Zumba LOL!! He finds it entertaining. The days I do elliptical, I either put on Mickey Mouse Clubhouse or have him play next to me. I'll add you as a friend and please do the same. I have no friends on here