dating

how about a confident guy that is not obsessed with how he look and has a great sens of humor and responsibility ? but i like my man to have a bit more meat on his bones not necessary muscular but just fit with a belly .

One with a sense of humor who can make me laugh.

The inside is more important than the out..

though if I must choose from your list, I would say fit (healthy).

As long as he can pay my bills, he can look however the hell he wants.

I'll date any of them if they treat me right.

Just a nice, happy, confident man. There are some physical attributes that may catch my eye: taller than me, not hairy, lean hands, nice shoulders. But a man can have all that and if he is a ****, won't impress me.

I've got a guy who is happy with the way he looks. And he can make me laugh. Doesn't get any better than that.

I've dated men at all fitness levels. I go for personality over looks. I do like a man with confidence though! The main things I like physically in a man is a nice smile and someone taller than myself.

not skinny. hate to hug a broom stick.
Real bulky is a no go for me either, just normal, or a few extra pounds its ok to me. Even chubby, as long as he has a nice personality and is sweet to me.

Tall. With a muscles that fit their body type. I prefer men with a medium to large frame though because they make me feel smaller. Naturally personality is a factor, but that's a given. My SO is 6'2 200lbs (I thought he was 190, but he corrected me) he looks good. He also looked nice at 190, and looks OK at 210.

Who cares. As long as he is respectful, considerate, honest and funny. Beauty is on da inside ya knohhh.



I do not have a problem with said men having abs though :flowerforyou:

Of course all the personality stuff is more important (kind, smart, fun, reliable etc.).

That being said, I have noticed a difference between my current somewhat-fit boyfriend in comparison to one of my older out-of-shape boyfriends. Since being active is important to me and brings me joy, its fun to be with a guy who will go on a bike ride or hike or run with me. It's a type of fun I wasn't having with other guys and which is cool. Also, my first boyfriend was my height and pretty skinny, and while sure it made me feel bigger which is whatever, what I really didn't like was that when it came to, say, carrying a heavy suitcase up stairs I would be the one doing it for both of us. My current boyfriend also likes that he doesn't have to do stuff like that for me too like he has had to with past weaker girlfriends. Yay equality!

Pure looks-- I like medium frame, tall, and fit (muscles are okay if they come a sport or whatever, but pure aesthetic muscle that have no purpose other than being big is ugly to me)

Doesn't matter what a woman wants. Be yourself, that's all that matters.

Stop having the beta attitude of "what does a woman want in a man" and starting thinking about what YOU want in a woman (thin, curvy, blonde, brunette, etc etc). That's infinitely times more important.

When you see a good looking guy at a bar, do you think he gives a chit about what a woman wants? No, he approaches what he wants and goes for it.

I have mostly dated tall chubby men.....my "teddybears"
My current boyfriend is 6"2" and 240 lbs. Not muscular and that's quite okay with me.

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This is who I like to date. A good time that I can laugh at, errrr, with.

this will haunt my dreams for years to come.

I'm glad I could assist