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Are you a glass half full or glass half empty person?

ldrosophila
ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
edited January 22 in Chit-Chat
I am a glass half empty person. The contents have spilled and are probably going to ruin the floor is my usual thinking. People say I always think negative, but I think I'm just being realistic. Sometimes I actually find it comfortable to have these "negative" thoughts.

Are you generally a positive or negative person?

If you are a negative Nelly/Ned do you find that it helps you prepare for the worst or are you just looking at the bad side of life never seeing the beauty.

If you are a positive Polly/Paul do you find that you can embrace the unexpected more, or are you an ostrich with your head buried in the sand?

Is there a positive Polly out there who used to be a negative Nelly or vice versa?
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  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
    Depends what's in the glass, if it's alcohol it's always half empty :drinker:
  • onwarddownward
    onwarddownward Posts: 1,683 Member
    I'm not only a glass full, but it's running over. I drive my husband nuts!

    I find it's easier to deal with unexpected happenings if you are seeing the good side of things.
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    I'm a "It doesn't matter. You simply have twice as much glass as you need" kinda girl. Probably because I was raised by an engineer. :tongue:
  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
    Actually I prefer plastic cups over glasses.
  • TheFinalThird
    TheFinalThird Posts: 315 Member
    I'm a be proactive, drink what's left in the glass and that way it's completely empty kind of guy.
  • sheldonsteyn
    sheldonsteyn Posts: 483 Member
    Def half full, I tend to look for the positive in every situation! Just how I am! No point cryin over spilt milk...get up n get more!
  • cazzer69
    cazzer69 Posts: 162 Member
    Always be a pessimist, then yer either proved right or pleasantly surprised but never disappointed.

    Although as a techie I would say that the glass was incorrectly specced in the original design statement. :)
  • VeganSurfer
    VeganSurfer Posts: 383 Member
    A bit of both, I'm paranoid and usually see the worst in things/people but sometimes I can be incredibly positive for others....
  • SerenaFisher
    SerenaFisher Posts: 2,170 Member
    Actually I prefer plastic cups over glasses.
    Red+Solo+Cup.+I+fill+you+up_40ae0f_3299999.jpg
  • KateHill1981
    KateHill1981 Posts: 43 Member
    Even an empty glass is full of air.
  • kgalea
    kgalea Posts: 156 Member
    Actually, the glass is always full - it's just not necessarily full of one thing...
    Water/milk/liquid and air :) That's how the scientist/chemist in me sees it!
  • I couldn't agree more. I believe that what you think is what comes about in your life. For positive things to happen in your life I believe it is important to have a positive outlook and expect the best no matter how it might appear sometimes
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Neither. I take it for what it is. If it's crap it's crap. If it's good, it's good. If it's mediocre, it's mediocre. I'm not negative. I don't live in happy snappy fantasy land. I feel gratitude a lot when "it could have been worse" or when I am genuinely grateful. But, I don't put a positive spin on something that was down right horrendous. That's bs.
  • kgalea
    kgalea Posts: 156 Member
    Even an empty glass is full of air.


    Ha - we basically posted the same thing at the same time...
  • FiftyandGettingBetter
    FiftyandGettingBetter Posts: 611 Member
    I am definitely a half full type of guy. I start everyone out at a 100%. I share a smile, share a find word. I try to motivate, encourage, and uplift people. Just the way I am.
  • wafflemeister14
    wafflemeister14 Posts: 46 Member
    definitely half empty, I see myself as a realist though, not a pessimist.
  • KathyPBiles
    KathyPBiles Posts: 292 Member
    Half full definitely! My mother always told me I wear rose colored glasses!
  • spirit05
    spirit05 Posts: 204 Member
    I am neither. I am a 'thankful that I even HAVE a glass' person! :happy:
  • I am a

    "Ok, so that's how much is in my cup today... Alrighty then!.." kinda person :laugh:
  • gonnamakeanewaccount
    gonnamakeanewaccount Posts: 642 Member
    Definitely half empty. I'm either proven right or pleasantly surprised. Very rarely I am disappointed.
  • clarkeje1
    clarkeje1 Posts: 1,626 Member
    I'm usually optimistic, there are just times when things start to get to me and then I head into a glass is empty omg what am i going to do now? depressed spiral. My boyfriend said i'm incredibly optimistic unless it comes to myself, then i always think the worst. but about life in general i typically look on the bright side.
  • 257_Lag
    257_Lag Posts: 1,249 Member
    I am an opportunist! I will drink it while you guys argue about this :bigsmile:
  • JeanDescole
    JeanDescole Posts: 152
    For me it depends on the glass, as in the situation. I've never met anyone 100% glass half full, and the same goes for 100% glass half empty people. I think as humans we all have ups and downs, and the rough moments in life make the happy moments even more worthwhile. Well that's my opinion anyway.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I am positive.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    But, I thikn that analogy is bad, having a glass half empty or half full. Makes no sense. If I am drinking and enjoying myself I am happy to be emptying it. Then again, I am also happy to be filling it up for another round too.

    Too vague.
  • Melissa22G
    Melissa22G Posts: 847 Member
    Either way I look at it, I still have half a glass.
  • Rhonnie
    Rhonnie Posts: 506 Member
    My glass is always at least half full... You just don't always know what's in it! I am a very positive person, but I'm also very realistic. I don't think you have to be oblivious in order to be happy and look on the bright side of things and always hope for the best. I always hope for the best but prepare for all outcomes.
  • lmelangley
    lmelangley Posts: 1,039 Member
    I'm a scorpio/libra cusp. Which means it's always half full and more is on the way, unless someone messes with me/disappoints me once. Then, their glass is more like 3/4 empty.
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,854 Member
    When I see a half glass, I see an opportunity to make it full rather than a problem that it's not yet full.
  • xxghost
    xxghost Posts: 4,697 Member
    I'm always positive. To the point it bothers some people.
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