Annoying people..

ChristieeSmith_x
ChristieeSmith_x Posts: 15
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Is it just be that wants to do a flying kick to the face of people who say:
"you don't need to lose weight"
"you aren't exactly fat are you"
"why you dieting"

-_-

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  • Amy62575
    Amy62575 Posts: 422 Member
    Annoying people are annoying.
  • mmddwechanged
    mmddwechanged Posts: 1,687 Member
    In my RL I don not talk about my diet. And people do not talk to me either. A few people have asked and whatnot but even in that moment I ignore ( in my mind ) their message unless it is helpful. I am so easy to manipulate, this is the only way this works for me.
  • QuincyBella
    QuincyBella Posts: 6 Member
    I don't tell anyone, I can't bear the scrutiny! For years I never weighed myself as I am so sensitive about my weight, so starting this is a big move forward for me. I don't think I could bear other people looking at me and working out whether I need to lose weight

    :-o
  • lcchrt
    lcchrt Posts: 234 Member
    Same here. I mean, how do you respond. "Ok?"

    I mean seriously, do I need your approval and seriously it isn't about that at all, just shut up.
  • gibbymac
    gibbymac Posts: 7
    I just joined. Where is the best place to begin on this site?
  • QuincyBella
    QuincyBella Posts: 6 Member
    Whilst we're talking about annoying people I do work with someone who talks about dieting virtually non-stop, has a really unhealthy, faddy diet (zero carbs but bakes cakes virtually every day) and is generally a nuisance. She saw my sport's bag and started asking questions. I'm saying nothing!
  • khall86790
    khall86790 Posts: 1,100 Member
    I've had the same thing before I lost any weight and after I lost 20lbs and said I wanted to lose 10lbs more. Eh, each to their own opinion I guess.
  • Maidofmer
    Maidofmer Posts: 908 Member
    i'd love to do a flying kick. but I gotta settle of a high five to the face with a steel chair. the one that gets me the most is "you carry your weight well"
  • TreySully1
    TreySully1 Posts: 10 Member
    Head noise=useless words, thoughts, or actions that do not positively contribute to a worthy goal. Head noise is the antagonist to happiness and can come from within, from friends, well-meaning loved ones, and yes, evil-doers. Whatever the source, head noise must be eradicated!!!!!
  • drvvork
    drvvork Posts: 1,162
    There are those that you know the individual is attempting to sabotage but then again there are those that appear to be annoying but looking for inspiration and maybe some guidance. It might be they don't know how else to strike up the conversation.
  • cgolden1701
    cgolden1701 Posts: 31 Member
    I would say that I have had a pretty good following with my friends and family since I started. Everyone knows that I am over weight, so they are helping me stay on track. Even the one friend that I have, that caused me to start due to his annoyingness to always put me down. Every time I see him he still makes a fat joke and it just helps me keep going.
    I enjoy making someone else feel stupid, and I enjoy being right. So when I hit my goal and my friend the annoying one is less healthy than me, then I will have the last laugh. Even when I hit my goal, I’m not stopping there. I want to make sure I am always healthy, so I will live a longer and healthier life.
  • TheDarlingOne
    TheDarlingOne Posts: 255 Member
    Is it just be that wants to do a flying kick to the face of people who say:
    "you don't need to lose weight"
    "you aren't exactly fat are you"
    "why you dieting"

    -_-

    Ah - how I wish I had this issue. for me it's more like:
    "why don't you lose some weight?"
    "you aren't exactly thin are you?"
    "why aren't you dieting?"
    etc lol

    Maybe think of it as flattering. They think you're thin enough where they are complimenting you by saying "Ah you don't need to do all that, you're perfect already!"

    Now - if someone told ME that at 385lbs - I'd KNOW they're lying lol. But from your profile picture - sounds like maybe they're complimenting you? :)

    Cute lil' fella by the way :)

    Anyways, have a nice day.
  • Gwen_B
    Gwen_B Posts: 1,018 Member
    Really? No one tells me that, I guess I made a good selection of friends.
  • Gwen_B
    Gwen_B Posts: 1,018 Member
    Head noise=useless words, thoughts, or actions that do not positively contribute to a worthy goal. Head noise is the antagonist to happiness and can come from within, from friends, well-meaning loved ones, and yes, evil-doers. Whatever the source, head noise must be eradicated!!!!!


    Well put!

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