From UK.....new member feeling like a frump!!

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  • michybee86
    michybee86 Posts: 12
    Wow thanks everyone for your kind words and support, i literally just finished a session of 30ds and feeling good but thinking about lunch.....hmmmm what to have. Lol.

    Sarah thanks for the tips and advice and i know your right, especially with the snack a jacks but my one big weakness is crisps and i dont think i can quite live without them....and snack a jacks kind of satisfy that craving without making me totallllly guilty, i still try not to eat them all the time but hey noone is perfect!

    Have accepted most friend requests so thanks all, reallly overwhelmed by this place and still can't believe its free!!

    I took my measurements last friday but was advised not to measure every week, rather every 2 weeks as i might be disappointed if i dont see any difference, what are your thoughts/experience with this?

    The 5:2 diet is going well, the first fast day wasnt quite as hard as i imagined. I have decided my next fast day will be Sunday as i dont have anything on that day and i find it easier to fast when not out or visiting friends/family etc. i kind of just hibernate for the day, do the ironing or something or housework, anything to take my mind off the food, and drink lots of water!!

    Tomorrow is my weigh in day.........i will let you all know if i lost anything, 2 weeks in and nothing so far so fingers crossed!!!

    Xxx
  • kendrafallon
    kendrafallon Posts: 1,030 Member
    Shocking!! So many Brits and no mention of the Team UK group http://www.myfitnesspal.com/groups/home/150-team-uk :tongue:

    From Leicester here.
    Have accepted most friend requests so thanks all, reallly overwhelmed by this place and still can't believe its free!!
    Easily done! Go slow and take your time, there are a load of different ways to lose weight and get fit, it's just a case of finding what works for you.

    Wishing you all the best! :drinker:
  • pyrowill
    pyrowill Posts: 1,163 Member
    Welcome, consider your life changed for the better.
  • joyfuljoy65
    joyfuljoy65 Posts: 317 Member
    Hi - from the UK too - welcome to MFP.

    If you log everything that you eat (whats the point of not putting it down, you know you ate it and you are only kidding yourself!) and keep to the weekly calories allocated (some days you can eat more as most days we all aim to be under!) then you will lose weight. I have found this the easiest weight loss method ever - and I have tried them all!

    Put your lifestyle as sedentary, put in the exercise you do and eat back those calories to keep to a healthy level (ie. above 1200). If you put down that you do 3 x 30 mins of exercise a week in your goals, MFP already builds these calories into your daily amount, so if you eat them back you are eating them twice!!

    I don't do much exercise, due to health issues that losing this weight will hopefully be part of the resolution, and I have lost over 50 lb in total (was 234lb to start with and now am 182lb (5'9")) just by doing all of the above. Ok its taken me 10 months - but its never going on again, and I am never yo yo dieting again. (Yes I know NEVER is a dangerous word, but that is my intention and I am not even going to contemplate anything else).

    Add me as a friend if you wish - I log in every day :D and all the best with your journey to the place where you are happy with your body.
  • MsEmmy
    MsEmmy Posts: 254 Member
    You'll get all different kinds of advice, just pick what you feel works for you. I'm back on here after a few months off and have lost 5lbs in about a month and to be honest I was a bit half assed so could have done better!

    I'm doing 30DS (but not every day) but I do eat all my exercise cals back otherwise I'd be starving (when I do this and don't go over cals it DOES work and I usually lose 1.5-2lbs per week.) I also walk a few dogs each day so I log the exercise for the faster ones and eat that back. The reason I haven't lost more weight is cos I have gone properly over my cals quite a few times! However I've got my eyes on the prize now and am sticking to it..

    Personally, I wouldn't do the fasting thing, especially while you are doing other new stuff - for one thing you will have a lot of variables and won't be able to work out which bit isn't working if you don't lose. The other thing is fasting. I would be a NASTY woman if I had no food:laugh: :laugh:

    I'm currently 184 and hoping to be at least 170 when I go on holiday in two months, and then eventually get to 145/150. Feel free to add me - I do log on every day even if I ate one too many cookies:ohwell:

    Edited to add: I'm from near Liverpool
  • Hia! :smile:

    I know what you mean about following the plan and not seeing results but I guess it took many months to put it on and it will take just as long to take it off. My estimated time for my goal of 143 pounds isn't until next january! :cry:

    I am not seeing many results on the scales and I started healthy eating plan a month ago and started mfp on 29 April. I have lost a few pounds but have not seen anything for days now. I do tend to undereat and wonder if that is the problem. My husband follows it to the letter and has lost a pound.

    Keep going each day at a time. Find a little (non food) treat to reward your hard work - a relaxing bath, good book, or even computer time.

    Pigeon steps means the pigeon still moves :happy:

    Uk member in Cambridge
  • ehbikki
    ehbikki Posts: 4 Member
    Well luckily (or not so luckily) for me I have been suffering from IBS and I had to dramatically reduce red meat, white rice and bread. No more bacon rolls but - I have finally started seeing a weight loss!

    I've been on MFP for a while but only been logging food every day for a couple of weeks - and suprise, surprise - I've only just started to lose weight. Add me as a friend too if you like :)
  • MsEmmy
    MsEmmy Posts: 254 Member
    Oh yeah, and check your macros! I'm doing a lot better energy and weight loss wise since I realised my protein was very low (mfp sets it too low anyway). I started having a protein shake after workouts and feel loads better. I don't even need as much sleep and my nails are growing like mad haha.
  • Diyah13
    Diyah13 Posts: 76 Member
    From America . . .

    Stay with the program. I started at the end of June 2012 and didn't see results right away. I started noticing about three months into the program. I have been seeing slow, steady results as time went on. My doctor and a friend who has just become a personal fitness trainer tell me that slow and steady wins the race. Have patience, and it will happen. Trust me.
    :happy:
  • HappyKite
    HappyKite Posts: 36 Member
    Hi Op, im also from the UK.
    I agree with most of the advice you have had here.
    I think one of the hardest things is learning some patience. We all want to lose our weight overnight. Well, we didn't put it on overnight, so aren't going to lose it overnight either!
    Good luck with the weigh in tomorrow. :flowerforyou:
    Feel free to add me (and anyone else who logs regularly who wants mutual support) I log in every day and have an open diary.
  • Nikoah
    Nikoah Posts: 21 Member
    Hi!

    Up the north east myself :) Feel free to add for help/advice.

    Are you tracking everything? Im sorry but I cant believe you are doing the Jillian Michaels DVD and only consuming 1200kcal a day and not loosing anything at all for 2 weeks? Are you sure your putting in fizzy drinks? Juice? Every single thing that consumes through your lips must be accounted for.

    Lets see if we can help you feel more comfortable for your holiday!

    Thanks Sawjer, i am very thorough with everything that goes into MFP, including ketchup....butter...oil everything, i don't snack too much during the week and i only drink water, don't like fizzy drinks so that can't be it. I only started Jillian Michael about a week ago, maybe i am being impatient?!

    Also, i decided t start the 5:2 fast diet and started with a fast day yesterday.....i haven't done 30DS yesterday as it recommends that you don't exercise on fasting days....... I guess I am just a little lost with all this lol.

    Thanks


    I will be honest, I did not read all the other posts, so this may have already been answered. I have started, and due to illness stopped Jillian Michaels's dvds several times, and for the first 2 weeks after I start them the swelling in my muscles actually puts on about a lb. So that could be it. Also, I agree with the one who wrote about the calories being off. I have mine set at 1416. Check a BMR calculator online and eat 500-1000 cal less than that a day, and log your work outs so that it evens out. I also use a pedometer to log my calories through exercise so that I don't under or over eat. I don't loose if I don't eat my minimum. I am at 500 cal deficit ONLY. Any more and I don't loose. Things to consider. Also, if you need more friends, feel free to add me.

    Nikoah
  • luceegj
    luceegj Posts: 246 Member
    Add me! :) Herts!
  • markdavies120
    markdavies120 Posts: 18 Member
    Best advice i can give from my personal experiences is not to measure every week, rather 2 or even 3 weeks between. If your exercising regular and doing more toning you will see the differences. weighing is ok but in your instance you may be seeing no loss due to the toning? However you will become down and likely to give in if you go off what the scales say alone.

    Aim for smaller potions and eat more often. Do not have too much of anything and try to mix it up.

    I'm like you in that i just love crisps. i will have a bag most days still but only something with few calories like wotsits or quavers. It gets rid of that needed fix and i am starting to gradually move away from wanting them daily.

    dont deprive yourself either. worse thing you can do is not to treat yourself every now and again. Just try not to go stupid. I perform my weight and measurements on a friday morning. This way i then have a couple of days over weekend to relax my intake and if i have had a loss at weigh in or on my measurement i will have a takeaway, by Sunday getting back in to the routine.

    Good luck and keep at it!
  • lcfairbairn74
    lcfairbairn74 Posts: 412 Member
    Hi there!

    I live in Scotland and have been a mfp member since last August. I realise you are now doing the 5:2 plan but previous to that, why were your calories set so low? I have always gone by the calories mfp gives me, and eat back my exercise calories, and it works for me! Different methods work for different people, but in my opinion, you probably didn't lose weight initially because you weren't eating enough. If I eat too far below my target, my weight refuses to budge on the scale and I have a lot more to lose than you!

    Just a suggestion. Hope you find something that works!
  • yksdoris
    yksdoris Posts: 327 Member
    Hi!

    here are some tips for along the way:

    1. keep the same regime (be it amount of calories or type of excercise) for a period of 4-6 weeks before changing it. Sometimes our bodies just need to get over the initial shock.

    2.- particularly for a beginner - get a food scale and weigh EVERYTHING. you'll hate it at first (I know I did), because you'll see that very often the portions on the scale look so very tiny for the amount of calories that are in them... But as time goes on you'll see that you'll have a better grasp of the quantities-for-calories; and you'll be less likely to over-indulge (on salted nuts, for instance) when you're out having fun

    3. tied to #2: log EVERYTHING (I think you're pretty good with this already, logging 6 g of butter, lol) Sometimes we consume calories we don't mean to. Often in drinks, such as sugar or milk in coffee. it's a little bit but it does add up. Make sure to always log the alcohol intake as well. it's way more cals than most people think... (it's called a "beer belly" for a reason, apparently)

    4. because of #2 and #3 you'll probably see that your favourite foods are calorie-rich. This does not mean that you have to give them up. You can substitute something else that you're lukewarm on: for instance, I completely switched out potatoes from my daily intake. Instead I'll have an extra large portion of green beans or broccoli or some other veggie that is just as filling but has a lot less calories. This way I can still enjoy that tiramisu for dessert ;)

    5. trick for crisps, as that's my weakest point as well: measure out your 30g portion before eating it. Put the bag away; so that you'll have to walk to it again if you want more. This helps you to feel like you've had your treat AND you've been responsible about it.
  • slw87
    slw87 Posts: 40 Member
    Hey I'm from the uk too. I've had Mfp a while now but never really taken it seriously.
    So I'm back on it with good intentions and would like some friends for support :)
  • saleh1988
    saleh1988 Posts: 44 Member
    any new memper is welcome to MFP , we need alot of motvaiton guys