Looking for people to hold me accountable!

I've on and off tried to lose weight basically since I was a young teen. I'm now at my highest and this is it. I'm not gaining anymore weight and i'm getting rid of the extra weight I have. I'm 21, 5 foot tall, and 176lbs. I've been married for two years and my husband is currently deployed. I'm trying to use this time alone to better myself and get into habits I will stick to forever. I'd love some friends on here who have around the same amount of weight to lose, lets say 30 - 60lbs, and who log on everyday and track. Also someone doing it the healthy way, never eating under the 1200 (I aim for 1400, I just can't do 1200 most days). My food dairy is open but I'm not a health nut, so be warned. Right now I'm. just trying to make better choices and stay within my calorie range.