Fridge regulation for kids?

My mom always hid the foods she wanted just for herself, everything else was shared. Two of my sisters are skinny and I am fat so I think it works pretty well. I think kids should be able to eat what they want when they want it. My parents did not have foods just for themselves very often. They usually had healthy foods but had some snacks too. I plan to give my kids access to food whenever they are hungry. My son has free access to food. He still needs some help getting what he wants. I don't usually have stuff just for me and if I do I will share if he really wants some. I had some chocolate the other day and I gave a portio n to my son and he was quite happy. My son likes healthy food . He loves salad and fruit. He is a healthy weight too at 5 and around 40 lbs.

My husbands family did have regulations on food and he still asks to eat. I always thought that was odd. When I was old enough I was encouraged to make my own meals. I used to make my own breakfast and lunch was usually leftovers. Dinner was usually fresh made by my mom but sometimes was takeout.

I was an only child so i never asked for anything, that spoiled streak I guess. Mine ask for snacks but I dont regulate what snacks they can have. I keep a variety of foods in the house. When I buy things just for me, I just put it out of there reach so its a non issue. Mine are 14 and 3 and both have tapeworms I swear because they eat non-stop. I don't get too picky about it as long as they finish their dinner every night including all veggies or whatever. Since I'm not really dieting just being more aware of what I eat, it's starting to rub off on them too. I still buy sweets and goodies, it's just about moderation for everybody. Cereal for me is the biggest issue, these kids will eat an entire box of cereal in one day straight out of the box lol.

Well I never had to ask as a child, I could help myself. Usually my parents only had healthier things to snack on - and I knew what time supper was. So I would know enough not to eat so much to spoil supper.

When i have children, I don't plan to restrict (unless if it is an ingredient I need for supper).

I have three boys 3, 6 and 12 from birth they have all been taught that unless its water you must ask. I don't want meals to be spoiled and I want to be able to keep a tap on junk food that they eat. I will set out ask free foods for them to have for snacks durring the day (carrot sticks, celery and peanut butter, etc.). But anything other than that is very closely monitored.
As a kid I was allowed what ever I wanted. I was never taught that too much sugar, fats, carbs were a bad thing. I only found that out as I got older and bigger. Over the past two years I have also removed the unhealthy snacks from the house for the most part. (Hubby has to have his Little Debbies) I do keep special treats for them and trust me they enjoy the ice cream a whole lot more when it isn't an option every day.

My girls are grown now but they had food rules when they were kids. Partly for health reasons and partly because money was tight and partly so they wouldn't spoil their dinner.

My kids have to ask
I dont want them eating food just before dinner
I want to know how much is left in the fridge so i know if i need to get more

my daughter is 16 and she asks always. i need to know how much food i have left because she isnt good aobut writing it on the shopping list if she finishes the last of soemthing.

then again, this child asks if she can listen to music in the shower, turn on her computer in the morning for school, go to bed at night, etc. ive never expected her to ask for every little thing but its something she does anyways, annoying somedays

Yes, my 2 boys 11 and 6 have to ask, mainly because I want to know what their intake is everyday, and partly because if they are just bored, I don't want them going to the fridge all the time. So if they say they are hungry and I offer them an apple and they decline then I know they aren't hungry, just eatting for the hell of it.

We had more-or-less free reign of fridges and cupboards, except for the 'treat' stash. The basic rule was: if there's not much of something left, or it's something 'special' or a treat, ask first, otherwise it was essentially open-season on fruit & veg, yoghurt, cheese, crackers, cereal etc. Mind you, with the sort of schedules both my sister and I had, plus two senior management-level parents and a nanny, that was probably the only way life could have worked!

We always had to ask before eating stuff when I was a kid. That had less to do with health/weight issues and more to do with us being pretty poor and the food had to last until payday or we were all screwed.

I'm pretty convinced that strict restricting of food as a child (even though I understand the why of it now as an adult) has led to some of my weight issues. I'm virtually terrified of letting the fridge/freezer/cupboards get low or even remotely empty, which leads to having way more food around at all times than I really need (and spending way more at the store for my two person household than most 5 person families). Now that I'm changing my lifestyle to a healthier approach, I still have that need to keep the house full of food, I just make sure it's healthy options. But the food insecurity, as it's called, will always be there, courtesy of my upbringing.

I'd be careful restricting a child's free access to foods. Even for good reasons, it can have lifelong implications you might not realize.

We have a budget for our groceries so there are absolutely rules around snacking and grazing.

The boys (7 & 10) are allowed to get snacks as needed but within certain rules, like only 1 yogurt per day, no more than 3 pieces of fruit per day, no more than one individual serving bag of chips/pretzels or smartpop per day, only 1 serving of cheese cubes or slices per day, etc. The only thing that they can have with absolutely no restriction on quantity is cut raw veggies: celery sticks, bell pepper strips, cherry tomatos, carrot sticks, or cut broccoli. (If the veggies are uncut - hands off because those are destined for use in a meal.)

The snacking period starts a 1/2 hour after a meal has been consumed and lasts until an 1/2 prior to the time that hubby or I begin preparing the next meal. I also ask them wait for 15 minutes between snacks and have a drink of water before they can get something else...that was previously enforced but has now become habit.

When we do have candy (Halloween, Easter, Christmas) or baked goods in the house (leftover birthday cake, cookies, items purchased at school/sports/church bake sales) - those are a permission only items.

The only beverage they are allowed to get without permission outside of mealtimes is water. At meals the beverage will be milk or juice depending on the meal. Sometimes in the summer I will make up a pitcher of lemonade (real stuff not mix) and leave it in fridge for them to get at will. I do not buy soda and as a result neither of them care for it. (They have had the opportunity to try soda at friends houses or birthday parties and usually ask for water instead. Neither likes the "fizziness" of it.)

The only foods that are "off limits" are my Skinny Cow bars or Frutare bars. We typically have ice cream or frozen treats for hubby and the kids as dessert and since I'm avoiding the stuff they eat - I will buy things that are within my calorie or fat guidelines.

Neither kid is a picky eater. When eating out - we let them decide whether to eat from kids menu or adult menus - so sometimes we are the family where the adults are having prime rib and veggies while the kids have hots dogs and fries, and sometimes its the reverse. But most of the time, I am having to explain to a waitperson that "No, really, he knows what X is and it's okay if he wants it for his dinner." Of course, it's probably due to the fact that my husband and I refused to be "short order cooks" at meal times when they were little and set the expectation very early that you eat what is put before you or you go hungry til the next meal or offered snack. We also insist that they take and swallow at least one bite of anything new. When left to make their own decisions they generally choose the healthier options. Although, there have been times that they choose junk.

This seems to work for us - my kids are both at healthy weights trending towards the leaner end of the weight charts with good muscle tone and development.