A question about swearing for the men of MFP...

abrandnewme18
abrandnewme18 Posts: 305
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Guys, is it a turn off when girls swear? Do it bother you at all or do you not really care?

And ladies, since I know you'll read/answer this anyway :wink:, is it a turn off when guys swear?

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  • jmc0806
    jmc0806 Posts: 1,444 Member
    It's not a turn off unless it's every other word. Otherwise it doesn't bother me
  • cme135
    cme135 Posts: 3 Member
    I find it ammusing and have always thought of swear words just as enhancing words to other words.
    So know I don't care.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    I think it depends on the man.
    But as far as most of the men I've run across there is a time and a place.

    If you are all out with friends in a casual environment, not a big deal.
    If you are meeting with his co-workers. Don't. you. dare.
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    That's the same as asking "does it turn you on when girls wear pants?" There are many different types of pants and ways and fits to wear them. Some are attractively worn, others...not so much.
  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
    I love it when women say the word "puss-y" but not in reference to their cat.
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    I only date amish chicks so yes that would be a turn off
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    People who swear constantly grate on my nerves. I might have a lower definition of "constantly" than most people, simply because I attempt to limit my own profanity. Excessive swearing comes across as juvenile. Using moderation allows the words to maintain their intended impact.
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
    As in nutrition, context and dosage are important here
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Ya it really depends.

    But in general I don't mind and almost kind of like it.
  • xvxCelticWandererxvx
    xvxCelticWandererxvx Posts: 2,890 Member
    No, guys swearing does not bother me, however, there is a time and place for it. Never is it sexy when it's used abusively towards someone. In a fun or a playful and/or in a sexy way? Ohhh helllz ya!! I loves the f-word :blushing:
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    I f'ing love when mother f'ers swear.
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    I f'ing love when mother f'ers swear.

    Well of course you raised by sailors and a pack f'n wolves
  • paradisochick
    paradisochick Posts: 83
    I think it depends on the man.
    But as far as most of the men I've run across there is a time and a place.

    This.
  • paradisochick
    paradisochick Posts: 83
    People who swear constantly grate on my nerves. I might have a lower definition of "constantly" than most people, simply because I attempt to limit my own profanity. Excessive swearing comes across as juvenile. Using moderation allows the words to maintain their intended impact.

    This too.
  • RodSuarez
    RodSuarez Posts: 6,309 Member
    “Cute guys always have potty mouths. They think it makes them cuter.”
    — The Shape of Things

    I played Adam in the Shape of things, and decided to make the change for myself [he was fat and turns into a hottie by the end of the play]. At the end of the play he tells his "girlfriend" to go #@#^$^&%HYG$###$%$%^&*% herself because she is a @$#%^$%#^##&%$&% and she replies with that phrase.

    Fun fact, I didn't use to say any curse words, but the sexier I get the more often I use some, specially the F word lol
  • RedHeadMoo
    RedHeadMoo Posts: 11
    This.
  • GrammyWhammy
    GrammyWhammy Posts: 484 Member
    :noway:
  • suv_hater
    suv_hater Posts: 374 Member
    Can she swear like this? http://splicd.com/VzcBDXyJO_w/79/121
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    Can she swear like this? http://splicd.com/VzcBDXyJO_w/79/121
    I swear like this everyday. haha
  • amandapye78
    amandapye78 Posts: 820 Member
    I dont have a problem with swearing as long as they aren't one of those people that feel the need to swear about everything or when its used abusively.
  • RodSuarez
    RodSuarez Posts: 6,309 Member
    and no I don't really like when girls swear, but don't mind if it is occasionally and "not too obsene"

    I was told once by a girl to suck her D*c*, but I didn't find it. So please if you are going to be obsene at least use something "real"
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    That's the same as asking "does it turn you on when girls wear pants?" There are many different types of pants and ways and fits to wear them. Some are attractively worn, others...not so much.

    ^^ this.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    and no I don't really like when girls swear, but don't mind if it is occasionally and "not too obsene"

    I was told once by a girl to suck her D*c*, but I didn't find it. So please if you are going to be obsene at least use something "real"
    we get excited. Accidents happen.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I don't like a lot of it. But, everybody needs to use the f-word now and then. It all depends on context and not overuse.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    and no I don't really like when girls swear, but don't mind if it is occasionally and "not too obsene"

    I was told once by a girl to suck her D*c*, but I didn't find it. So please if you are going to be obsene at least use something "real"
    we get excited. Accidents happen.

    :laugh:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Doesn't bother me at all.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    What I like even more is that you said swear.

    I swear every time I hear "cuss" I picture The Trailer Park Boys or something similar.
  • onedayatatime12
    onedayatatime12 Posts: 577 Member
    Well if a guy swears all the time, it's not attractive. But if he's doing it when he's angry at something in general, or he's passionate about something, or worried, etc., yeah, that's kinda hot...

    I'm weird aren't I xD
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    I'm an eagles fan--of course I swear.
  • sbbhbm
    sbbhbm Posts: 1,312 Member
    I don't curse when I speak. It's an odd thing. I'll let it fly when I'm writing or if it's during naughty time :wink: , but in every day life I don't curse at all. I say things like "crap monkey" if I'm ticked off. It doesn't bother me when guys curse, as long as it's not the bulk of their vocabulary.

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