How to begin (exercising)???

Okay, dudes,

I started out 115 lbs. overweight. I've been on MFP since the beginning of 2011. I lost 75 lbs. that year with diet alone. I spent all of 2012 maintaining at 160 then gained about 10 lbs. back in the last 6 months which leaves about 50 lbs. left to lose. I want to start working out. I think it's the key to losing my final 50 and getting the body I want.

I was planning to start a combo of couch-to-5k, riding my bike and intermittent fitness DVDs (I have Insanity and like it). I have to mix it up or I get dreadfully bored.

My question is: how on earth do you manifest the motivation to JUST DO IT already?!

I am an excuse machine and I'm sick of it. I keep saying I'll start "tomorrow" and when tomorrow comes, I seem to "forget" or think of a reason that another day would be better. All the while, slowly gaining weight again and being angry at myself. Any and ALL advice welcome. Thank you!!!

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  • Iron_Lotus
    Iron_Lotus Posts: 2,295 Member
    I walk over to the mirror, that gets my *kitten* moving every time.

    Seriously, find something you LOVE to do. For me it's weight training. I look forward to my training days.
  • Gordo1981
    Gordo1981 Posts: 59 Member
    Good question! I feel like I am in a similar boat about a number of things. I am sure this will get a number of "just get off your butt and do it" responses, I lookforward to reading some of the other thoughts
  • juliec33
    juliec33 Posts: 238 Member
    Exercise is important to health, right? Like a doctor's appointment? Would you keep putting off a dr's appt if the problem you were having seemed to be getting worse? I was told one time to think of a workout like a doctor's appt.....schedule it and make sure you show up. It helped me to think of it like that.......
  • blakerb29
    blakerb29 Posts: 74
    Motivation comes from desire, not until you really truly want something can you achieve it.

    DO YOU REALLY WANT IT?

    If so, JUST DO IT!

    If you don't do it, things won't change and you may regret it.
    Of course you may not regret it, only you can answer these questions.


    -Blake
  • SleeplessinBerlin
    SleeplessinBerlin Posts: 513 Member
    I am, too, the queen of procrastination and one of those people who need some form of an axe above their heads - a deadline, a group... demanding boss or teacher, you name it. I joined a 30 day challenge in the beginning. The group really motivated and encouraged me. After that I slowly got into the habit od exercising. I still don't love it but it's a part of my day now.
  • This is kind of my issue.

    I get bored... really fast. And oh, Medical issues. I know my limits though, but I know I need to up my routines to lose my last 12 pounds. The first 8 pounds came off easy... now I'm kind of gaining and losing from week to week but i'm still determined to lost my last 12. I guess I haven't found what I enjoy yet... I like to walk, but that's not really going to push me that extra little bit. I can only do light weightlifting, and nothing high impact.

    Hopefully you find what you love to do - I haven't found my niche yet either.

    PS - I've heard a lot of the Jillian Michael's DVD's are awesome. I have many friends using them and they do a different one each day - yoga, kick boxing, etc.
  • lcyama
    lcyama Posts: 209 Member
    find a 5k race 9-12 weeks from now. sign up for it. then go out there and start week 1 day 1 of c25k. you'll have to keep doing it so you can be ready for the race. go slowly... and marvel at your progress!
  • suzeya
    suzeya Posts: 12
    don't make exercise this big "thing" that you have to do/accomplish. it's really easy to get tired/discouraged/distracted/etc if it becomes this big looming thing that you have to face every day. i used to love to exercise for hours and these days i hate it. i'd try something for a month, get bored, quit, and then be back to where i was before. i couldn't maintain an exercise routine for more than 4 weeks at a time.

    nowadays i'm trying to incorporate exercise into my life, so that i don't have to carve out time to exercise. i try to walk to and from work (3 miles each way), take a walk during lunch (at least 30 min), walk to the grocery store, etc. basically walk everywhere i can possibly walk. i live in a city so this is pretty easy.

    taking public trans to and from work is about 30 - 40 min of my life. walking to work is 1 hour. so it takes me an extra 20 min each way, but then at the end of the day i'm DONE with my exercise. i can relax at the end of the day and feel like i accomplished something with very little effort.

    try to find something that is enjoyable and doesn't feel like exercise. i recently did an 18 mile bike ride (after not riding a bike in 20 years) and discovered how much i loved it. slow and steady wins the race. u gotta do something that you can maintain for the rest of ur life, not just something u do to lose weight for 6 months and then stop doing because you hate it and you've reached your goal.
  • Cockney365
    Cockney365 Posts: 52 Member
    My first tip is find something you like doing. It may take a while and you might have to try a few things first but there's no point in flogging yourself to death on a stationary bike for 800 hours a day if you really can't stand it. I started off playing netball in a local team, and was inspired to start running by watching a few friends doing half- and full marathons, eventually started running 5km and last year did London Marathon. I wouldn't say I enjoy running at all, and I'm not very good at it either, but I enjoy the challenge and entering races gives me a goal to work towards, meaning I have to actually do some training!

    Secondly, if you can afford it, a gym is pretty useful. I know you can do gym routines at home, buying weights and benches etc but I find it easier to go to a gym because I don't want to have to buy heavier weights every 4 weeks or whatever. I am lucky, my gym is open 24 hours and costs £10.99 a month, so I can fit in my gym time whenever I like. I tend to go around 5:30am before uni as it means I have done my exercise for the day and then I don't have to worry about being too tired to do it later on (and therefore find excuses NOT to do it). It's hard getting out of bed when it's cold outside and my bed is all snuggly, and yeah sometimes I do give myself the day off and do it another day instead, but I find it helps if you make an appointment with a friend who you don't want to let down. I also make sure my bag is packed the night before so I just have to jump out of bed, brush my teeth, get dressed and go, no time for faffing and falling back to sleep!

    Thirdly, don't stress too much about doing it all. Start small and progress steadily. Don't think you have to be a heavy lifting, cardio crazy iron woman right this minute in order to get fit/lose weight. When I started running, it was more like a slow plod from one lampost to the next, followed by about 2 minutes of walking. I built up slowly from there to a point where I did the whole 26.2miles last year, which seemed like a miracle to me. Don't set yourself up for failure, aim for small successes and work at achieving them. Your own personal targets are really important so even if it's just to do 30 minutes twice this week, write it down, be accountable, tell someone, tell yourself, and stick to it. The sense of pride and achievement at having stuck to your guns, dragged yourself out of bed, walked home instead of driving etc makes it worthwhile (even if it doesn't feel like it sometimes!)

    Last (although I am sure I will think of something later on), think about the benefits of you doing whatever you are putting off. I know, cake tastes great, and sleep is lovely, and I really want a glass (bottle) of wine and most importantly, I really can't be bothered tonight.All completely valid. BUT, I also want to fall in love and get married and it's not going to happen until I am happy with me, and I am not going to be happy with me until I sort out how I feel and look. I want to be able to wear nice clothes. I want to be a better, faster, fitter netball player. I want to do London Marathon in a much faster time. I want to have my cake and eat it. I want to live a long and healthy life and not end up with all the weight related issues my Mum has (a list as long as your arm). So, if I want all that, I have to do the work (boring, I know). It all boils down to exercise, none of those things is going to be true for me unless I do it, so I have to do it. It's not always easy but, the things in life you want very rarely are.

    So, not really a 'just get on with it' post, they aren't always that helpful. But, have faith in your ability and give it your best shot. Even if you can't think of the benefits, remember Dr Pepper and think, what's the worst that could happen? When you start seeing results you'll be glad you did it!
  • kathyhull
    kathyhull Posts: 327 Member
    Baby steps! and ask a friend to join you - hold each other accountable. sometimes just saying it outloud to someone else that I'm going to do it makes me want to stick to the plan. I've found that joining the running/training group really helped me. They make the plans so I don't have to think about what I'm going to do or when - they tell me to be here at a certain time, run here, go there. And, I've met several people to whom I feel accountable - I know that Lysa might not have someone to run with if I don't show up and that motivates me to be where they say, when they say.

    So, right now, just go for a 20 minute walk. don't worry about what you'll do tomorrow or the next day - just go take a walk right now!!!!!
  • drinknderive
    drinknderive Posts: 28 Member
    I started the group training class offered at my work gym. I workout with coworkers/friends, and we all notice when someone doesn't make it. It is socially and physically fulfilling, and the peer pressure is the only thing that has ever kept me exercising.
  • I really feel like you have to find something that you just LOVE to do. I was the exact same way. I am probably about twice your size and I had every excuse in the book not to exercise.... and then one day I was just like, ok, enough of this. I went to my local YMCA and signed up. I always knew that I loved the water so I started taking water aerobics classes and just fell in love with them and now I also do some zumba classes too. If I thought I had to do the Elliptical or the treadmill or even just walk every day... there is no way I'd get up and do it every day because I find that stuff SO boring......So just find what you love and stick with it!
  • Isakizza
    Isakizza Posts: 754 Member
    JUST DO IT ALREADY!!!

    This is what I say to myself every time, lol. It helps get my butt out the door and just get moving. It really doesn't matter what you do. Just do something and do it often.

    Have fun & good luck!
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  • I can only share what worked for me:

    What worked for me was to start small and work my way up. I walked vigorously for half an hour a day for a week, then made it 40 minutes, etc. But even starting with five minutes and working your way up would be something. I also started looking for opportunities to walk. My supermarket is about 15 minutes walk from me so I walked there each day, with my children, to pick up vegetables for the dinner. I went swimming in a very deep pool (that will get you moving if you can't touch the bottom). I did that just for fun twice a week. That helped with toning a lot. That was something else that I could do with children along.

    You need to find what you can do and will do and start small then work your way up. Or start with even just ten minutes and when you're into it you might decide you can keep going for another five.

    And, of course, if you haven't exercised for a while it is probably a good idea to check with your doctor first before doing anything new.
  • Adc7225
    Adc7225 Posts: 1,318 Member
    I think an honest realistic approach is just pick one or two exercises, start slow maybe say I am going to do 20 minutes today and see how that feels. Sometimes we see ourselves doing things that are not realistic.

    I joined the gym with no real idea of what I was going to do, but I have discovered I love working out and while I should do more weights . . . it really does come down to a just do it moment. But more important, do not beat yourself up if you don't do it - it may just not be your time.

    At some point, I expect I will love working with weights!
  • EricMurano
    EricMurano Posts: 825 Member
    JUST DO IT ALREADY!!!

    This is what I say to myself every time, lol. It helps get my butt out the door and just get moving. It really doesn't matter what you do. Just do something and do it often.

    Have fun & good luck!
    :happy:

    +1

    This thread is yet another way to delay getting started.

    Do c25k
    Do Stronglifts 5x5

    Google "beginner exercise programmes" and pick one.

    Just Do It (tm)
  • Tishrei
    Tishrei Posts: 86 Member
    I find a pal and we both commit to exercising and report back to each other. I am embarrassed to admit that I didnt so that forces me to exercise.
    once you get into a groove and see results, that is motivating too.
    you can do it!
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Let me ask you this...why do you want to do C25K? Why do you want to do intermittent DVD workouts? Why do you want to ride your bike?

    Here's my point...if you don't know why you want to do any of these things (other than burning calories which you know is unnecessary because you did it with diet alone before) then it means you have not identified any specific fitness goals. I find that when people actually set fitness goals independent of calorie burn...that's when their routines really start to come together and start looking intelligent and mapped out, with every exercise pursued being in support of that fitness goal.

    Also consider that with MFP you're supposed to eat back exercise calories...so if you're training like an athlete (which you would be with that kind of volume) then you have to eat like one too...if you can't fathom eating back 1000+ calories per day, don't plan on burning them through exercise. There is such a thing as too much. If you're doing C25K then sign up for a 5K and train for that race...anything else you do should support your race goals. I don't see random cardio DVDs accomplishing that.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    just turn off your computer, stop thinking about it and just start exercising. just start.. even if its just for 30 seconds. 30 seconds may lead to 30 minutes.
  • I would definitely recommend a workout buddy! it gives you the push in the beginning to get out of the house. I also enjoy taking classes at my gym, spin is particularly addicting. Eventually exercise will become reason enough to get out and go :)
    Good Luck!!
  • AmandaReimer1
    AmandaReimer1 Posts: 235 Member
    As some have said, fit it into your life. Do you need to workout 5-6 days a week? No. I workout 3 times a week Mon, Wed, and Friday afternoons during my toddlers nap time. It's an appointment. I find for me if sometimes I can switch the days up, sometimes I can't because I get lazy. I'm a bit of a routine person.

    Now that the weather is better I do purposely get out more for walks, but that's more to benefit my toddler than me.
  • henriettevanittersum
    henriettevanittersum Posts: 179 Member
    Anything is better than nothing, I told myself. So I started on the elliptical resistance 2 and went 30 min at a speed of 55... Fast forward 3 months later, I am looking forward to my session of resistance 8, speed 65 for 50 minutes. And I started doing strength training and intervals. The moment you start noticing changes in the mirror, motivation is limitless! I LOVE endorphins! Sometimes I have to force myself to have a rest day, lol. Who knew?
  • GiddyNZ
    GiddyNZ Posts: 136 Member
    You need to form a habit.. I started two days a week for a few weeks once I got used to that, then added another day each few weeks, it is easier to introduce a bit at a time.. going from nothing to all out in one giant leap is just asking for you to fail.. you will hurt and it will be hard to jump back in the next day, your body will need more recovery time to begin with.

    Definitely important to do something you enjoy doing, and once your body gets used to doing it the motivation creates itself.. it gets easier so you WANT to push harder.. I get sad on days when I have to miss pump class.. Yes you will still have the odd off day, so turn up and go through the motions and that will keep the habit in tact.. you will still burn a few calories even if you aren't putting in your usual 100% effort.

    One last thing.. perhaps find something to do where people will notice if you don't show up.. guilt works wonders :)

    All the best :)
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    don't make exercise this big "thing" that you have to do/accomplish.

    This. I put exercise in the same mental category as brushing my teeth and shaving my legs and balancing my checkbook and all those other things you don't really WANT to do, but have to. It's not a punishment or something to dread. It's just part of my life.
  • tcraw15
    tcraw15 Posts: 223 Member
    Well, starting is always the hardest part. But once you get going, it's hard to stop! At least, that's how it is for me.

    I'm easily motivated, so seeing success stories and how others have been making progress on here, has been really inspiring. Not to mention, I spend my free time surfing amongst the internets trying to find more things to motivate and inspire me. I tend to focus on the end result, and I would like to be one of those people that people look at for inspiration. Just imagine yourself fit, full of energy, and strong. Imagine what you could achieve! I want to be stronger, and I am getting there. And boy is all the hard work WORTH IT!
  • aloranger7708
    aloranger7708 Posts: 422 Member
    I find that doing something I ENJOY makes me WANT to exercise! I used to think exercising just meant going to the gym; lifting weights and running on the treadmill. False. I ride my bicycle, stand up paddleboard, walk, surf, kneeboard, ski, snowshoe, etc. I love doing all those things and look forward to doing them every single day. I used to DREAD going to the gym or even running in my neighborhood. Now I'm like, "Yes! Exercise!"
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Make it fun.
    After awhile I began to dread working out.
    My time on the treadmill and elliptical became mind-numbing.
    Now I take classes and love them.
    The instructor is motivating and helps us to get the most out of our work outs, use proper form etc.
    The music is fun and I've met a lot of new people.
  • WhitneyT586
    WhitneyT586 Posts: 279 Member
    I walk - and run - outside 3-4 days a week. Strength train on my off days. But I find that if I go outside and I promise myself 1 mile (or 2...) then I find that after that 1 mile I have to go back home too. So I get two miles anyway. I know that seems stupid and just common sense, but if I "trick" myself into that first bit of effort, I get more out of it. That, and I pay myself $1 for every workout and at $100 I get a treat - this treat is going to be a Fitbit Flex I think!
  • binkyb00
    binkyb00 Posts: 81 Member
    Think about what you're doing and why. My main reason is because I want to do it for myself, and no one else. And do the exercise that you love.