Seeking Motivators and Inspiration

I am a 40 year old Woman who is in dire need of losing weight. I stepped on the scale a few weeks ago at the doctor and was at my highest weight ever. I have tried to lose weight in the past and 6 years ago when I went through my divorce and was single, was able to lose 40 pounds, but then I met my husband and put the weight back on plus an additional 50 pounds. My entire family could use losing weight. My issue is my husband is a VERY picky eater and don't want to change his diet or lack of exercise trend. I am seeking friends that will be motivators to me (and maybe my husband too) and will want to interact with me to keep me going. I know I have to have the motivation, but I can't do it alone. I have tried and failed. Thanks for stopping by and send me a friend invite.