I have Bikini Anxiety

saukura11
saukura11 Posts: 27 Member
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So my friends and I are going to the waterparks for my birthday this weekend, and this whole week has been one major pig out becuase of my err...ahem "time of month" coming up. My best friend is going to wear a bikini and I want to to. But now I am feeling too huge to look ok and I am afraid to get weird looks. I have got a surgery recently and I am trying to work off the pounds from it. I am just worried to be judged really. I care to much about what people think. Ahh sorry for the rant but here is me.

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  • saukura11
    saukura11 Posts: 27 Member
    http://i1301.photobucket.com/albums/ag114/saukura11/IMG_0444_zps623e8183.jpg
  • coffee_fiend
    coffee_fiend Posts: 49 Member
    Don't care what people think. Love yourself and have a good time! Super cute bikini, btw!! :)
  • HoneySunlight
    HoneySunlight Posts: 25
    i think you look super cutee!!
  • RonnieLodge
    RonnieLodge Posts: 665 Member
    Can't access the photo but just wanted to say the secret to having a bikini body is to put a bikini.

    On your body. I am sure you look awesome in it though.

    I am also confused as to why someone would wear a bikini to a water park. I find that going into the surf in a bikini is generally a pain as they tend to move and that in a water park I would constantly be having to readjust stuff so that I am not scaring the children!
  • missy_girl001
    missy_girl001 Posts: 53 Member
    Wear your bikini if you want to. It's super cute. But if you think you're going to be uncomfortable ... maybe wear something else or bring a cute coverup. There's nothing worse than wearing something that you don't feel comfortable in. Have fun and happy early birthday.
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    My best friend is going to wear a bikini and I want to to.

    I definitely wouldn't wear a to to. That would look silly.

    Wear whatever is going to allow you to have a good time and feel comfortable.

    Just don't be the girl wearing her t shirt in the water park. No one like's that ****.
  • Barbellgirl
    Barbellgirl Posts: 544 Member
    Wear what you want to, if they don't want to look they don't have to. Wear some cute shorts if you want to, but stop worrying so much, you look great.
  • Crazy4Healthy
    Crazy4Healthy Posts: 626 Member
    Wear it with confidence :) Once you get there and see everyone else, you will wonder why you were worried.
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    No, you seriously look adorable! I love that bikini, and you have beautiful smooth creamy skin that would be such a shame to cover up. Rock that two piece b!tch!
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    My best friend is going to wear a bikini and I want to to.



    Just don't be the girl wearing her t shirt in the water park. No one like's that ****.

    but, cros....i burn...i have to wear my t-shirt...i just don't wear my bikini top underneath.
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
    Would not worry about it. You are nowhere close to getting weird looks, and will likely be getting your share of stares from the gents
  • kindasortachewy
    kindasortachewy Posts: 1,084 Member
    I think you look super cute, but I will give you some solid advice

    If you can wear and rock that bikini with confidence you will look great and should wear it
    If you wear that bikini and are going to feel awkward or uncomfortable, if you are gonna hide behind a towel or cover your stomach the whole time with are arms and not wanna be out and about, don't wear it.

    Wear something you FEEL great in and you will LOOK great too
  • Nefetete
    Nefetete Posts: 343 Member
    I think you look cute in that bikini.... but do wear something that you are comfortable in and can have fun.
  • skinnygal05
    skinnygal05 Posts: 68 Member
    have fun and don't stress it. Not a bikini contest girl, live life no stress! you are beautiful btw.
  • jennpaulson
    jennpaulson Posts: 850 Member
    As other people have posted, if you can be comfortable in the bikini then by all means wear the bikini because it's super pretty and you look great!!
  • pattya925
    pattya925 Posts: 398
    I think you look cute :) Wear whatever makes you comfortable.
  • Sparlingo
    Sparlingo Posts: 938 Member
    Bring both a one and a two piece with you, put on whichever makes you feel more fabulous (and comfortable!!). You look great :smile.
  • saukura11
    saukura11 Posts: 27 Member
    Thanks for all the feedback
    Guys it means alot to me ;)
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Oh my god. That daisies bikini is super adorable. damn you look cute in it.

    You know what I really think you should wear SUNSCREEN! that's the only for sure thing...I'm a mom. wear your sunscreen and have a good time. don't forget to drink plenty of water.
  • SpleenThief
    SpleenThief Posts: 293 Member
    A differing opinion from the "where what you want crowd"

    Find something that flatters you. We've all seen people in outfits that they shouldn't be wearing or hairstyles or whatever. Not everybody can pull off every look. Most people would want to be told if what they're wearing doesn't look good. This extends beyond weight. Combovers for example. If you know that guy, let him know it's not a good look.

    With that being said, you can absolutely wear the bikini. You're fine, wear it with confidence.
  • DCruz83
    DCruz83 Posts: 99
    I think you look super cute, but I will give you some solid advice

    If you can wear and rock that bikini with confidence you will look great and should wear it
    If you wear that bikini and are going to feel awkward or uncomfortable, if you are gonna hide behind a towel or cover your stomach the whole time with are arms and not wanna be out and about, don't wear it.

    Wear something you FEEL great in and you will LOOK great too

    This! Plus, that's a super cute bikini :)
  • daniellemm1
    daniellemm1 Posts: 465 Member
    I agree that you shouldn't worry what other people think. But I know that I would probably worry too :) I did look at your pic and you look great. I love the bikini, it looks really good on you. I suggest wearing whatever you will be comfortable in so that you enjoy your time and don't spend it worrying.

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