Need friends that are willing to provide feedback

siriuslestrange1
siriuslestrange1 Posts: 74 Member
in Motivation and Support
Hey guys. So I've been on MFP for almost a year now. In that time, I've figured out what it is about the site that helps me succeed. One of the biggest things is the people. My diary is completely public and I try to be as transparent as possible because I know that for me, if I know that others can see what I'm doing, I'm less likely to mess up/give up. It really helps me to have people around to hold me accountable. I've made a few friends in the past (almost) year, but not many of the comment much :( . I'm looking for people that like to give feedback. It doesn't always have to be "great job!" or "woohoo!" it can be "you should work on lowering your carb intake", etc. I don't mind constructive criticism as long as it's not blatantly rude/mean. Also, I tend to pose questions to my friends when I'm having an internal battle/can't make up my mind. Unfortunately, with the amount of friends that I have now, I don't often get responses and when I do, they are hours too late (example: "should I exercise tonight even though my back is bothering me?" and I don't get a response until I'm checking stuff right before bed).


It'd also be great to have some friends that are similar to me in some ways (though it's not necessary, so don't let any of this keep you from adding me if you'd like to): I'm at 322lbs right now, looking to get down to 220, possibly 200. I'm trying to get healthy, not skinny. I'm proud of being a larger girl, I just want to be a larger healthy girl!

Here are some basics about me for those who'd like to know:

26yo
I live in Syracuse, NY (any local buds would be great!!!! Always looking for people to work out with!)
SW: 385
CW: 322
GW1: 220
GW2: 200

Geeky, bookish, homebody most of the time. Right now I'm playing the role of House Wife since I was taken out of work for medical issues.


I hope to see some new friends soon! All I ask is that you either post on here or write in your friend add why you added me.

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  • siriuslestrange1
    siriuslestrange1 Posts: 74 Member
    really? No one? At all? I'm totally feeling the love...
  • krystle1001
    krystle1001 Posts: 25
    I joined MFP earlier this year. I read a lot of the success stories and forums but rarely do I respond, and have never posted a topic myself. After booking a cruise (sailing on Nov 18th, 2013!) back in Feb of this year, the excitement quickly faded into horror and embarrassment when I realized that I will be spending 5 whole days on a boat/islands, where the dress code is normally bathing suits 99% of the time. I live in Florida, about 10 mins away from a beautiful beach that I have not stepped foot onto in over two years, because I refuse to be seen in a swimsuit. I decided right then and there, I was not going to let my embarrassed over my body ruin my well deserved vacation, and started the "diet" soon after. Ive lost about 26lbs since the beginning of March using MFP and watching the calories and VERY limited exercise. I'd like to drop another 30-40lbs before the cruise ( and hopefully 100lbs all together), but I know this will never be possible unless I make exercise a regular part of the routine, along with eating healthier. Honestly, I kinda hate exercising, and this is the part of the "diet" that I struggle with. I have little motivation to work out, and I have very few friends who are into eating healthy and being active. I'd love to find people, who like myself, need extra motivation and constructive criticism to help stick with it. And after reading your post, I felt like we have some similar goals and support systems (or lack of support)! Looking forward to following your progress and cheering you on when the going gets tough. And by the way, congrats on you major loss so far! 63lb loss is a huge accomplishment!
    I am:
    28 years old
    5'2"
    SW: 241
    CW: 216ish
    GW: 135

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