So..... this is my story.....

I've been lurking the posts for months now, and thought I would tell my story....and thought it may motivate one person

I'm a widow (now in a relationship) and have the most beautiful child who is my life. Like most mom's we do everything for our children, but what I wasn't doing was looking after me....

Upon my arrival back home from a trip, something clicked... I had to become a priority in my life, I had to take time for me. If I did this I knew I would be even a better mom, and a better partner.

I had to get back in shape, so my daughter would have her mom for a long time to come.

So, I put on my yoga pants and went for a walk (damn near killed me) I took the car and clocked it - turned out to be 2 miles even. I started to walk every day sometimes twice a day and cut out the crap. (It started out taking me 45 minutes to walk - now in about 30-31) About three weeks ago I started the 30DS to go along with my walks, it's never easy, but it's a quick workout, and one that fits my schedule.

One day I was looking for the calorie content of something, and stumbled upon this site. I joined instantly. Since April 26 I am now down 36.2 lbs. I have a long way to go another 39.8 but I am doing it....I even got my brother on MFP and he's down 41. My biggest supporter and friend

Now I'm rambling - but what really wanted to say - is the success stories, the motivation i get from lurking these boards is second to none. The one who wrote I ate 3500 calories and it's ok - i cut it and carry it with me everyday. I don't beat myself up for a bad day - I just try to do better the next.

Like most, this isn't a diet it's a lifestyle, I fit what I want into my daily intake.

My wish to my daughter from the day she was born was to be the best she could be, to have self esteem, self confidence and self respect - if she has those things everything in her life will fall into place. So I end it with this To everyone out there who has posted words of encouragement I thank you, and wish you much success, much happiness..... and may you be the best you can be!