Since when is a size 12 an "XL"?

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  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    What an odd thing to get butthurt about.
  • ThriceBlessed
    ThriceBlessed Posts: 499 Member
    Well, they won't have me shopping at their store, even if I was to get BELOW my ideal weight, I'd still barely squeeze into a 12. I know because one upon a time, many, many years ago... I was 5 pounds below my ideal weight, and I wore size 12 jeans, but I had to lie down and hold my breath to zip them up, AND they hurt my hips. I think my skeleton could fit into a size 12.
  • fougamou
    fougamou Posts: 200 Member
    http://www.asknumbers.com/ClothingWomensConversion.aspx

    This confirms with what I have understood the conversation to be (nice table because it includes US, UK, European and Australian sizes)
  • This irks me too! I find it sooo difficult to find cute, comfortable, PRACTICAL excercise clothes! I'm a 20-22 and its nearly IMPOSSIBLE!! most stores only carry up to an XL which is like you said a max 12-14. Isn't that totally contradictory?? You say America is FAT/OBESE well the only way to get skinny/healthy is to work out, what are we supposed to wear while we do it?????!!! :)
  • UpEarly
    UpEarly Posts: 2,555 Member
    The chart I provided is based on traditional sizing over the past 30 years. Sizes have changed a lot because of vanity sizing.

    Many clothing companies make their own size charts and don't follow guidelines. Clothing companies that want to market to a greater population will vanity size because it makes economic sense to market to people ranging from size 6-16. There are plenty of companies that call a 6 XS because it opens up to a larger target market.

    It doesn't change the traditional sizing. It all depends on brands and shopping perceptions. People who are used to wearing a brand marked L but that are a size 14 will view the size as such. People who wear a different brand who are used to wearing XL but that are a size 12 will view their size as such. Take these 2 women into the opposite woman's store, and they will both complain that sizing is off.

    I agree with you... sizes are very inflated. I am 5'9", 135 lbs with a large frame (wide shoulders, ribcage and hips). I can wear anything from an XS/0 on up to a L/8 depending on the designer/manufacturer. I think the L/8 is probably my "true" size based on traditional sizing charts and anyone who labels me smaller is playing to my vanity. Whenever I shop, I have to try things on in several sizes and when I shop online, I always look at the measurements in the sizing chart - they vary widely from place to place. I try not to get hung up on the number on the label and just wear what fits/looks good on me.
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
    My issue is more taken with the fact that someone selling active wear is making the statement that someone who is larger than a size 12 cannot possibly be active. MFP is a prime example of very active people that do not fit into this peg hole. In the same way that being skinny does not mean you are healthy/ in shape.

    What?

    This makes no sense. It's clothes, not a statement.

    The statement is in your head.

    This is like saying if Lane Bryant sells pretty, formal dresses above a certain sizes, then thin people can't be pretty or formal. Or, if Aerin Rose makes swimsuits for busty women, then flat women cannot possibly swim or go to a beach.

    Why is "activewear" somehow special?
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
    good thing we're not models, because plus size modeling starts at size 6.

    ***

    someone mentioned race shirts--yeah, i definitely have to get XL without a doubt. even then, they're sometimes snug because of my ta-tas!
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    This is why i prefer to be naked.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    This is why i prefer to be naked.

    ^^This.
  • creech6317
    creech6317 Posts: 869 Member
    I wish more pants sizing was done just with inches instead of the 2-12 style size, because I never know, going into a store which size their 6 is going to be, one I can wear or one that is too small on me. But when a pair of jeans says the waist is 29 I know it will fit, it doesn't matter what "size" they want to call it.
  • ThriceBlessed
    ThriceBlessed Posts: 499 Member
    Up Early, according to this chart: http://www.healthdiscovery.net/links/calculators/ideal_bw_women.htm, you are underweight for your height and frame.
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    This irks me too! I find it sooo difficult to find cute, comfortable, PRACTICAL excercise clothes! I'm a 20-22 and its nearly IMPOSSIBLE!! most stores only carry up to an XL which is like you said a max 12-14. Isn't that totally contradictory?? You say America is FAT/OBESE well the only way to get skinny/healthy is to work out, what are we supposed to wear while we do it?????!!! :)

    I hear ya.
    I wore sweat pants and t shirts at the gym, mostly men's at the height of my weight gain of 160#'s on my 5 foot frame.

    I longed for cute things to wear but there were none to be had so I just made do. Now that I'm down to roughly 140, it's easier but I find I still don't wear cute outfits to the gym.

    I'm more comfortable in yoga pants & t shirts. :wink: this surprised me a little :smile:
  • UrbanLotus
    UrbanLotus Posts: 1,163 Member
    My issue is more taken with the fact that someone selling active wear is making the statement that someone who is larger than a size 12 cannot possibly be active. MFP is a prime example of very active people that do not fit into this peg hole. In the same way that being skinny does not mean you are healthy/ in shape.
    Honesty, I think you are reading way too much into it - there is no deeper meaning. When I had ginormous boobs Victoria's Secret didn't carry my size bras, and they are the (crappy) be all end all of lingerie stores - didn't mean I didn't have boobs!
  • Linli_Anne
    Linli_Anne Posts: 1,360 Member
    Just as people do not see my scale weight when I walk around, they also do not see the tags on my clothing. (Unless of course it is one of those times I totally missed the clear sizing sticker on my jeans/shirt and I walk around all day with it on my nipple/thigh).

    There is no need to be hung up on fitting into a size 8 because frankly, everyone can tell when a body is squeezed into the wrong size clothing. Buy it to fit your largest proportion, find a tailor/seamstress and have them alter the rest to fit properly.

    I have clothing in my current wardrobe that runs the whole chain from size 8 jeans upt to a size 14 dress and I feel beautiful and walk confidently in all of them, not because of the tag, but because I am working hard to better my lifestyle, and my body is changing for the better because of that. No sizing guide, brand label or marketing plan can erase how many inches and pounds I have shed.
  • DashDeV
    DashDeV Posts: 545 Member
    I was in Wal-Mart buying sleep undies (no shame) and I heard a young teenager say "Ewe yuck these are large, I will never be this size" when she was looking through the underwear. The difference in size with S, M and L are not very drastic at all.

    I don't see the problem with size 12 being an XL. Large and XL do not equal fat, IMO.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Although, I do kind of sympathize. As a big guy, I can rarely find pants above a 38 in some stores, including my favorite brand American Eagle, and am often forced to go to their website to shop. It sucks, but it is what it is.
  • fougamou
    fougamou Posts: 200 Member
    I wish more pants sizing was done just with inches instead of the 2-12 style size, because I never know, going into a store which size their 6 is going to be, one I can wear or one that is too small on me. But when a pair of jeans says the waist is 29 I know it will fit, it doesn't matter what "size" they want to call it.


    As someone with a small (proportionally) waist, I hate when they go by waist size, because I never know if it will fit in the hips and thighs.
  • salladeve
    salladeve Posts: 1,053 Member
    I have to laugh at this topic right now because I'm dealing with my own size issues! My formally very tight size 16 Plus are so loose right now that they feel like their falling off. I went to Kohl's and tried on a size 14 (reg size), and snug and uncomfortable, but 16 (reg size) fits fine.... so there is also a difference between 16 in a reg size and 16 in Plus sizes. Go figure. I have a dilemma do I buy another 16 even if it is not a plus size or buy the 14, which is still uncomfortable but hopefully will fit soon?

    I'm all about comfort right now, and not wearing tight clothing. I want something that fits and looks good and makes me feel good about the progress I've made, so I don't care what the label says anymore, I care how I look and feel.

    That being said it is frustrating that sizing is not standard, but that is always the way it has been, I don't see it changing.

    BTW I would be so happy to comfortably wear a size 12 XL and look good in it!
  • ThriceBlessed
    ThriceBlessed Posts: 499 Member
    As for stores making a statement, I don't think they are interested in making a statement. They are interested in marketing to their main demographic. If the store you are going into is one that markets largely to extremely fit, thin people, the sizes are going to be stocked accordingly.

    On the other hand, try a store where a large percentage of their customers are middle aged and overweight... say Wal Mart... no problem finding yoga pants and other workout clothes in large sizes (up to 5x I believe).
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    I wish more pants sizing was done just with inches instead of the 2-12 style size, because I never know, going into a store which size their 6 is going to be, one I can wear or one that is too small on me. But when a pair of jeans says the waist is 29 I know it will fit, it doesn't matter what "size" they want to call it.


    As someone with a small (proportionally) waist, I hate when they go by waist size, because I never know if it will fit in the hips and thighs.

    This. I hate the waist gap in pants because my butt and hips are fitting it and my waist isn't.
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    Although, I do kind of sympathize. As a big guy, I can rarely find pants above a 38 in some stores, including my favorite brand American Eagle, and am often forced to go to their website to shop. It sucks, but it is what it is.

    That's what happens when you fall outside the norm...any norm.

    I have a 32" waist and take a 35-36" inseam...never found in stores. Plenty of 32's, all too short.

    Then when I do find 32's that are long enough, the cut is always too thin for my butt and legs.

    I should boycott, no doubt.

    I usually just go up to 34's and call it good.
  • UpEarly
    UpEarly Posts: 2,555 Member
    Up Early, according to this chart: http://www.healthdiscovery.net/links/calculators/ideal_bw_women.htm, you are underweight for your height and frame.

    Thanks for your input! I'm not underweight. Charts are a guideline - charts are not reality. I would also add that is just *one* example chart. There are many other charts with different ranges.

    This is just where my weight naturally settles when I'm eating right and exercising.
  • ThriceBlessed
    ThriceBlessed Posts: 499 Member
    Up Early, according to this chart: http://www.healthdiscovery.net/links/calculators/ideal_bw_women.htm, you are underweight for your height and frame.

    Thanks for your input! I'm not underweight. Charts are a guideline - charts are not reality. I would also add that is just *one* example chart. There are many other charts with different ranges.

    This is just where my weight naturally settles when I'm eating right and exercising.

    Good point, just as sizes are not necessarily inflated, but a guideline determined by each clothing manufacturer. :smile:
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    i wonder if in the history of MFP a man has started a silly thread like this complaining about the sizing of clothes or that some stores dont sell their size?


    women of MFP...stop worrying about this stuff!
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    Although, I do kind of sympathize. As a big guy, I can rarely find pants above a 38 in some stores, including my favorite brand American Eagle, and am often forced to go to their website to shop. It sucks, but it is what it is.

    That's what happens when you fall outside the norm...any norm.

    I have a 32" waist and take a 35-36" inseam...never found in stores. Plenty of 32's, all too short.

    Then when I do find 32's that are long enough, the cut is always too thin for my butt and legs.

    I should boycott, no doubt.

    I usually just go up to 34's and call it good.

    And that is exactly it, I fall outside the norm, which I accept. And finding pants with a 30" inseam is difficult too, but getting them hemmed costs like $7/pair, so I just buy a longer inseam.
  • cherryrobot
    cherryrobot Posts: 64 Member
    I noticed some stores (loft is an example) started carrying size 000 through size 14 but someone like me who is usually an 8 is now a 4 or 6 there. They also are notorious for only have size XXS XS and XXL left over after putting out new merchandise. Then stores like Old Navy where I'm a medium skirt but the XXL tank top doesn't even cover one boob. Speaking of boobs, Vickeys did stop carrying their larger size bras in store - the sales lady told me it was because there was just not a large enough demand in store for those sizes... she said 90% of those sizes were bought online so perhaps there was a real reason for them to do it.
  • Melissa11412
    Melissa11412 Posts: 145 Member
    I don't worry much about numbers, at this point i'm just going by fit

    today's sizing, I wear an 8

    I wear a lot of "retro" clothes from the 70's, and by 70's standards i'm a 12 or 14

    dem big collars, love 'em

    :love:
  • djshari
    djshari Posts: 513 Member
    Companies like that want to make the product as cheaply as possible and market the "brand" rather than the product so that people are willing to overpay for their mediocre duds. You are better off finding a store that carries clothes that work for you regardless of what the tag says.
  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    i don't know, i take more issue with stores like old navy, who sell plus size clothes but ONLY online. love the message of 'sure we'll take your money but we don't want to see you in our stores, fatty.'

    Really? I didn't realize that. So, I guess plus sizes don't need to try on clothes? That's really odd.

    yeah not only that, but they price gouge something fierce. i was looking at their bathing suits--you could get a cute patterned bikini top for $15. go into the plus size section? there's only one bikini top to choose from, it's black, it's ugly, it's boring--it's $40. i think the whole ~it costs more because of the extra fabric~ excuse is bs to begin with, but nothing, NOTHING can justify making that bikini top nearly 3 times as much as the straight size ones.

    If the manufacturer markets mostly to the young and fit crowd, which is what Banana Republic / Gap / Old Navy does, then it won't have many clothes at either end of that group. If Old Navy doesn't sell many plus or minus size clothes, they sit longer on store shelves and cost the company more money. That's why the extra large or extra small sizes are sold mostly online. Also, when they sell less of a product they still have to make the profit, so each piece has to be priced higher. It's called economies of scale.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economies_of_scale

    Basically the more people share your size, the cheaper you can get clothes for (at non-discounted price).
  • heatherloveslifting
    heatherloveslifting Posts: 1,428 Member
    I don't care what size I wear if it fits. What I really get annoyed with is websites that post measurements for sizes, but every single time I have ordered the correct size according to measurements it is too big! I'm totally fine with vanity sizes :drinker: , but vanity measurements?! That just seems wrong. Measurements should be scientific. :tongue: