New and seeking cheerleader friends :)

My name's Lanie, and I'd like to lose about 40 lbs. Unfortunately, I am getting not support from my boyfriend (he likes plus sized women) despite being my goal weight when I met him. He tells me he'll "dig me at any size" but make negative comments about any dieting I might do. He calls them "anti-[hisname] diets" and thinks I go on them to spite him. The truth is, I don't feel good and my clothes are too tight. So I'm ignoring him and what will be will be. The truth is, I have a full on disorder of eating - a total food addiction! I hope to find some support here for obvious reasons.

Thanks and good luck to you all, too!

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  • hi,
    I know how it can feel to not get the support you need from someone you care about.
    I am back on here now to get back in shape for dance and me.
    Feel free to add me as a friend on here if you would like and good luck. Just do it for you and never stop going for what you want.
  • sealevels
    sealevels Posts: 123
    I'd like to think I'm a really supportive friend. I try to comment as much as I can on people's progress. Add me if you'd like. :)