Quitting smoking - the best motivator in my opinion:
jxspxr
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= getting ill after a relapse. Man, my lungs are really full with mucus. I smoked 2 days ago and I still feel bad, there is nothing in me that even wants to have another smoke now or any moment during the last days. I've had this before and I know that this can last for 2 weeks or so.
So, while I hate feeling this way, I know that this can get me through the hardest time of quitting smoking and I will put a lot of effort into resisting the smoke after this is over - it's been enough.
You got any experience with this? Does it help you?
Or do you think there is something that's even more motivating? Feel free to share!
So, while I hate feeling this way, I know that this can get me through the hardest time of quitting smoking and I will put a lot of effort into resisting the smoke after this is over - it's been enough.
You got any experience with this? Does it help you?
Or do you think there is something that's even more motivating? Feel free to share!
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Just curious what you think. By the way to clarify; I feel really bad - haven't been this ill in years, and I am quite sure it's because of the smoking because the main problem is my lungs and it started the morning after I relapsed from smoking (I smoked like 10 cigarettes).0
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Sorry you're feeling poorly, hope it passes soon for you. For me, I switched to vapor instead of cigarettes and it's made all the difference.0
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I quit smoking a year ago after being a smoker for about 8 years or so. You will likely get a cough for a while afterwards which is from the cilia growing back and filtering all the toxins out but don't be discouraged, it means you are making real progress. When the cough is gone you will feel better than you ever expected. I didn't realise what smoking had done to me, I'd been doing it long enough that I didn't know any different. I can't explain the difference but I just feel more... alive. I can run now without my lungs feeling like they are on fire, I never get ill anymore whereas I was getting tonsiilitis 2-3 times a year before and colds, etc. My skin is better, my hair is better, I feel more alert, my throat doesn't hurt anymore, I sleep better and I feel more awake when I am up, more alert.
It really will change your life, I noticed the changes starting after about 3 months when my cough stopped, though it took me a while to actually notice that the cough had ended. I quit just by going cold turkey when I quit my last job, a change of scene is the easiest way I found. Avoid anything that you associate with smoking, try and find new activities to do which have never involved smoke breaks, etc. I quit because I just felt awful and got ill again and it made me disgusted by them, similar to what you seem to be experiencing. I still have the occasional one if I am drinking or around friends who are smoking a lot, but those are few and far between.
You won't believe how different you feel after, I feel like I can take on the world these days. Really wish you the best of luck!0 -
I quit smoking 12 years ago. What did it for me, I refused to smoke on front on my son who was a baby at the time. I would go inside after a smoke was my hands, face, change my clothes, sometimes take a full shower cause the smell was in my hair. I did all this religiously because I did not want to expose my son to smell or toxins. So the routine got old and tiring, too much to handle, I just quit smoking. My health, and my son were way too important. I also keep in mind how my grandmother died from Lung Cancer when I was ten. I was by her side everyday. I only wish I had never picked up a cigarette to begin with. Good luck on
your journey. You can do this, it is possible. Decide what your cause is and go with it.0 -
You want motivation? Here ya go.............
I smoked for 30 years. Four years ago, I had developed a nasty smoker's cough and was sedentary and tired all the time. I was also gaining weight and completely lacking motivation for anything. Then I was hospitalized for a week with pneumonia, hooked up to an IV antibiotic drip. Not fun. After I got out of the hospital, I realized things had to change, and even then, it still took me a year to quit (I used ecigs and they work like a champ for me!).
Unfortunately, it was shutting the barn door after the horse has escaped. For while I did quit smoking, I found out that I had COPD with emphysema caused by smoking, and it will never go away. I catch a cold, and I end up sick for months with an asthma flare-up. (I never had asthma before - it was caused by smoking.) I'm on three daily inhalers. They help, but only so much. I'm limited in what I can do. I love exercise now, but my lungs give out long before my muscles do, so it holds me back.
Oh, and it's incurable. So I have definitely shortened my life span, no matter how healthy I live now. My doctor says I may make it into my 70s if I'm lucky (I'm 51 now). And I will probably have a slow, painful death, gasping for breath at the end. Yippee.
I'm not looking for sympathy or trying to stir up drama, but I want folks to realize what may happen if they smoke. I never thought it would happen to me. Well, it did. Don't be like me. Quit for good before you do permanent damage. Good luck!0 -
Thank you miller for your post. I did not consider those smoking related health problems - that is the strongest argument to quit asap.
So, thank you for the reminder & encouragement. I will go for it, all the way. I've tried to quit several times and I know quitting is only useful if you don't start again all the time. So the smoking I did 2 days ago was my last, for life. No exceptions.
Miller, I hope that your health gets better - you never know what may happen, perhaps a kind of treatment will work.
Also thanks to the others, it's great to get encouragement like this.0 -
Ok, I said I would not smoke, and I didn't. My lungs, nose and everything in between has more mucus and I sneeze often. I feel better, but it's not over yet. Perhaps in 3 days or so.
Anyways, I have an exam on Friday and I study all week - this gives me a bit of stress and some boredom from studying so much (though it is interesting, but the days are just a bit long) - which are strong triggers that get me smoking again.
Yesterday I really felt I needed to smoke. Now I feel the same. But..I..will.. NOT..buy&smoke..cigarettes! I am quitting now and I should resist. I am thinking "aw I can do it now and quit after this when there is no stress". But that's a LIE, I foresee other things that give me some stress that will also require me to smoke if I allow it now. So, I will keep going and I will not convince myself to smoke.
Instead I will go do some exercise again every day. They say that helps to build discipline and to get some dopamine into your system. Perhaps running will also help to clean up my lungs. Not sure about that.
So: no smoking this week, no smoking later. It's enough.0 -
I know exactly what you mean about the exam - STAY STRONG!! I quit smoking April 2012 and have had 1.5 cigarettes since then. Honestly, all the serious health issues never motivated me that much because I'd read the articles and see just how little smoking actually increased the actual risk of serious lung/throat disease. So much of it has to do with genetics. What really motivates me to stay away from the cigarettes is the quality of life. Seriously, everything is better. My mood is more stable since I'm not in a constant state of withdrawal, I don't react to stress at work/school/commuting as much, I feel SO much better during and after exercise, I have a much better attention span at work and while studying since I'm not thinking about my next cigarette. It all comes together for a better life overall. I actually quit when I first got on MyFitnessPal and started losing weight; I guess I felt like I was wasting all the possible health benefits of the better diet and exercise and basically flushing it away with every cigarette I had. I had tried to quit 2-3 times before, and like you described, either work was too stressful, or I was between jobs and bored at home, or school was stressful, or I was meeting in-laws. And between all those situations, I actually found it much easier to quit when I had work and school to keep my mind occupied and off the cigarettes. (The attempt while I didn't have a job lasted about 2-3 days. The shortest by far.) I think it really helps if you're exercising regularly and proud of the progress you're making, so you want to protect what you've done and build on it to improve. The other major motivator is the stress that smoking placed on my marriage - even if you're not married, it affects all your relationships with friends/family/partners. When I was smoking, we were mostly fine, but even the smallest stressors put me on edge and I couldn't smoke enough to compensate for it. Every time I quit smoking, I got so ridiculously upset ALL the time that I thought it was going to end my marriage. Now that I've stabilized, even when something does trigger a craving it doesn't necessarily send me over the edge emotionally. And that's my final and biggest motivation for staying an ex-smoker. I can't possibly throw away all the support my friends, family and husband gave me and put them through the stress of my smoking and quitting again. Even just for myself, I can't throw away all the hard days I came through to get where I am and face the prospect of going through that again. Hope you make it through this!! It is SO worth it!!!!!
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Thanks a lot! You wrote your first post for me? Wow!
Welcome on this forum!
I feel more motivated now, you mention some excellent points; I recognise what you describe about your mood swings/attention spell being affected by smoking, and your social life. Those are very good reasons, I agree that they are convincing enough already to quit.
Cheers,
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My quit date is August 25th, 2013. This was the PERFECT post - thank you so much. In order to gear up for this...I did make a list of the reasons I want to quit. It worked out to $4,704.00 per year by the way...so in 10 years, that's $47,000 that I have to spend on me - travelling, exercise, classes, ANYTHING I want. I can't believe it's that much. I'm going to put all that money back into myself, just in super healthy, amazingly fun ways. #1) Going to compete in a Spartan race somewhere super fun next year.
This is worth it! :happy:0 -
i went on vacation over two weeks ago. haven't had a craving since.0
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i went on vacation over two weeks ago. haven't had a craving since.
Excellent! Good to hear, I hope to take some days off after the 3 weeks. I hope to go on vacation for some days and also come back without any cravings!
Remember never to smoke again - it may get harder occasionally, but I think you've had the worst!0 -
My quit date is August 25th, 2013. This was the PERFECT post - thank you so much. In order to gear up for this...I did make a list of the reasons I want to quit. It worked out to $4,704.00 per year by the way...so in 10 years, that's $47,000 that I have to spend on me - travelling, exercise, classes, ANYTHING I want. I can't believe it's that much. I'm going to put all that money back into myself, just in super healthy, amazingly fun ways. #1) Going to compete in a Spartan race somewhere super fun next year.
This is worth it! :happy:
You're welcome! It sounds to me like you have very good and rational reasons to quit. Go for it! Use everything that you can to help you! I don't have any money, but I think that for changing such strong patterns in life therapy is also good. If you save so much, that may be a good investment. I think your chances of success will be much larger if you do this.
Therapy is a bit uncomfortable to think about, but it could be really good and no one has to know about it (though I don't think it's shameful to ask for help - I believe literally everybody could use therapy for something).0
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