Tired of "not losing" threads with no info.

When people post threads asking for help because they aren't losing weight, they should open their diary and also be sure to mention any relevant things such as medical conditions that might affect their energy needs.

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  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member
    Well that's just crazy talk. We of course should all just get out our crystal balls and help! :happy:
  • ThickMcRunFast
    ThickMcRunFast Posts: 22,511 Member
    But how do I get the joy of clicking through to find out they are 5'5, eating 1200 a day, doing an hour on the eliptical, not eating back exercise calories and consuming 10g of protein a day?
  • MaryLaura83
    MaryLaura83 Posts: 66 Member
    Well that's just crazy talk. We of course should all just get out our crystal balls and help! :happy:

    LOL!
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    But how do I get the joy of clicking through to find out they are 5'5, eating 1200 a day, doing an hour on the eliptical, not eating back exercise calories and consuming 10g of protein a day?

    Indeed. The greatest joy in helping is not the helping, but the sifting through pages and pages of responses in hopes that the OP gave more info besides "I'm not losing weight HALP."

    I mean, surely the burden isn't on the OP to give all the information, no! It's on those who take the time to help to put together pieces of the puzzle, least they offend the OP with their suggestions. Or something.
  • Well these people are clearly posting these because they need help.. therefor many people may not know what information is important to add because they are just new to this.

    We should all be here willing to help one another, and not get exasperated every time someone doesn't know what they're doing.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    When people post threads asking for help because they aren't losing weight, they should open their diary and also be sure to mention any relevant things such as medical conditions that might affect their energy needs.

    But where is the fun in NOT waiting until page 8 to figure out there are underlying medical conditions? I mean, it's like a soap opera! Then you have 5 more pages of people still arguing the same point then arguing about the condition then on page 13, find out that there are even more necessary details that totally changes the story and argument! [/sarcasm]
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    Well that's just crazy talk. We of course should all just get out our crystal balls and help! :happy:
    But my crystal ball is in the shop. The replacement chronocapacitor got backordered and then they found out it was discontinued so they have to find a new manufacturer with compatible specs.
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    Aww snap, I was supposed to wait till page 8 to reveal that!
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    Aww snap, I was supposed to wait till page 8 to reveal that!

    Do you even MFP, bro?
  • jaecamp1
    jaecamp1 Posts: 120 Member
    They may not always want help so much as to be told they're doing everything right and must just be that one exception that is fat because they are different. Instant excuse for the rest of their life.
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    Well that's just crazy talk. We of course should all just get out our crystal balls and help! :happy:
    balls are the answer to all problems obv.
  • herblackwings39
    herblackwings39 Posts: 3,930 Member
    Well that's just crazy talk. We of course should all just get out our crystal balls and help! :happy:
    balls are the answer to all problems obv.

    Balls!
  • nomeejerome
    nomeejerome Posts: 2,616 Member
    Well these people are clearly posting these because they need help.. therefor many people may not know what information is important to add because they are just new to this.

    We should all be here willing to help one another, and not get exasperated every time someone doesn't know what they're doing.

    People are willing to help, but it is difficult to help others without having any information. For example, a thread title will be "PLEASE HELP I AM NOT LOSING ANY WEIGHT" and the OP will say "I eat right and exercise everyday, what gives?"

    and then...when people ask for additional information, they are ignored after the OP has received numerous responses that confirms his or her approach is the correct way.

    but anyway.......

    back to crystal balls......
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    Well these people are clearly posting these because they need help.. therefor many people may not know what information is important to add because they are just new to this.

    We should all be here willing to help one another, and not get exasperated every time someone doesn't know what they're doing.

    :drinker:
    clearly not a popular notion, but admirable nonetheless. :wink:
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    Well these people are clearly posting these because they need help.. therefor many people may not know what information is important to add because they are just new to this.

    We should all be here willing to help one another, and not get exasperated every time someone doesn't know what they're doing.

    People are willing to help, but it is difficult to help others without having any information. For example, a thread title will be "PLEASE HELP I AM NOT LOSING ANY WEIGHT" and the OP will say "I eat right and exercise everyday, what gives?"

    and then...when people ask for additional information, they are ignored after the OP has received numerous responses that confirms his or her approach is the correct way.

    but anyway.......

    back to crystal balls......

    Here's a thought...if it bothers you so much, why not skip it altogether?
    I get that people can be hardheaded but the way some folks come at them it's no wonder they get defensive & dig their heels in.

    It's just advice, don't really get why people are so insistent that other people take it or get offended that folks don't quite understand. Maybe they just need some time to mull it over. Maybe they're just stupid. :ohwell:

    ETA: my original point was that if it bothers you so much let other people answer the thread and keep it moving.
    I dunno. That's what I do.
  • herblackwings39
    herblackwings39 Posts: 3,930 Member
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    The Goblin King has the best balls.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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    The Goblin King has the best balls.

    QFT! :drinker:
  • nomeejerome
    nomeejerome Posts: 2,616 Member
    Well these people are clearly posting these because they need help.. therefor many people may not know what information is important to add because they are just new to this.

    We should all be here willing to help one another, and not get exasperated every time someone doesn't know what they're doing.

    People are willing to help, but it is difficult to help others without having any information. For example, a thread title will be "PLEASE HELP I AM NOT LOSING ANY WEIGHT" and the OP will say "I eat right and exercise everyday, what gives?"

    and then...when people ask for additional information, they are ignored after the OP has received numerous responses that confirms his or her approach is the correct way.

    but anyway.......

    back to crystal balls......

    Here's a thought...if it bothers you so much, why not skip it altogether?
    I get that people can be hardheaded but the way some folks come at them it's no wonder they get defensive & dig their heels in.

    It's just advice, don't really get why people are so insistent that other people take it or get offended that folks don't quite understand. Maybe they just need some time to mull it over. Maybe they're just stupid. :ohwell:

    ETA: my original point was that if it bothers you so much let other people answer the thread and keep it moving.
    I dunno. That's what I do.

    Eh. I was simply pointing out what happens on occasion to a person who is new to the forums. That is all.

    Edited to fix quotes
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    In...

    ...because truth.
  • magerum
    magerum Posts: 12,589 Member
    In for white knighting.