Losing the belly

I was going to say youtube too, then I read the second post. Yes he's right just watch youtube and you'll find out how to do the exercises.

As to the belly he's right too, eat at a deficit. Flat bellies sometimes happen only way below target weight when people start to tell you to eat more and only then.

I'm with ya! Just trying to do more muscle workouts is the only way I know. I take a pump class that is solely lifting, but really I think you have to have a pretty low bf % to have a lean stomach. I'm not sure I care that much. My body fat is about 23% and I'm shooting for 20%.

Have you measured your body fat percentage? That's probably the best indication of where you are in regards to attaining the stomach you want looks wise. Mine still feels flabby and I was down to 18% last time I got checked so I've no idea how low one needs it to get...

For your arms, push ups will tone you perfectly. You only need weights if you want to bulk up.

I am in the same position! I got told to get a flatter tummy or middle area I would firstly need to eat healthy and loose some of the fat around this area first!

Check bodybuilding.com; Also download the jefit app on your phone and watch the videos they have for each exercise- go to jefit.com and select different exercises depending on the muscle that you want to exercise and what available tools you have -free weights/machines/bodyweight/balls/dumbbells etc (do not forget to add stretching exercises at the end ) then use the phone app when you are in the gym to remember and track what you have to do. You can either create your own workout or copy one of the suggested ones.
For abs and core:
The past month I started spinning and dedicated abs/core exercises. Incredible change on legs!. Even though inches have been down minimal and weight only 1.lb, I went down more than 1 size and the whole abs/stomach area has been greatly strengthened and tightened. (Gap thighs and thighs went down 1inch, and calf 0.5 inch) The most helpful exercise for abs/core has been different variations of the one that you lie down with arms/legs extended in straight line and then do 20 each of as many variants as you want/can 3 times per week: bring legs to the ceiling but only move down the waist, hold between feet a large ball/pillow/stuffed animal and bring legs to ceiling; hold feet 6inches from floor and do scissors; leave legs extended on floor and bring arms towards leg; hold a weight and bring towards legs; lift your legs to ceiling simultaneously when you do the previous arms crunches so you will meet arms and legs in the middle towards the ceiling; do the arm exercises but having the legs in the v position; do arms exercise but when you come to the seated position bring your body turned towards a side so you will do the obliques. In a month I went from being unable to get up, to now hold a 12lb ball and doing 20 repetition of each exercise with ease and without wobbling like a fish out of the water.