People who eat less than 2000 cals...in need of support

My BRM is like 1500 in order to lose weight at safe routine. That also means I need to exercise everyday. It is hard but you can do it if you change your habits and portion. I watch my family full of skinny people eat a lot of foods but I chose not to eat it. Also a lot of times, I don't actually need to eat or a lot but because of craving, I do. A lot of times, there are many choices and I want to eat all of it and ended up eating a lot too.

first, don't worry too much about calorie intake, trust me, you will be struggling because you will be having too little calories XD
so, all you need to keep track of, is: carbs, protein, fat, and calories last.
check out this awesome calculator for the keto diet (the magic bullet for weight loss):http://keto-calculator.ankerl.com/
there are millions of people out there that follow this lifestyle, and it is proven to work, no working out required!!!
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Well, that's all my advice for now, feel free to add me on my fitness pal: toyu7, and ask me any questions if you feel the need.
Wish you the best

OH almost forgot, the secret to get rid of hunger is either green tea, or yerba mate (mate cocido, my favourite).
but then, if it is time for you to have a meal, drink water before and after, that way, you will feel more full and will also eat less!

In case you didn't read the OP's first post, she states that she does not do the grocery shopping her house. It is unlikely that it will be convenient for her to follow a specialized diet. And many people, myself included, will say: track calories first and don't over restrict any of the macros. Furthermore, working out is great for your health and (for someone who enjoys eating), exercise means you can eat more. :happy: . I know lots of people on keto and they count calories religiously and exercise. I have never heard them say that's those things are not neccessary. :huh:

It's possible that the food you're eating is actually making you hungrier, even though it is high in calories. It seems counter-intuitive, but it's not.

Much of what you are eating will spike your blood sugar. I'm not familiar with the type of peanut butter you eat, but check the label for the sugar content. Sugar makes peanut butter taste extra good. The jelly. All the refined carbs. Even the potato chips act like sugar on your system. Your blood sugar goes up suddenly, and when it comes crashing down a few hours later you think you are starving. Eating protein and complex carbs like veggies and brown rice, quinoa, or other grains, keeps you full. And rice shouldn't be eaten in servings larger than half a cup at a time to avoid the same blood sugar spike. You can do some googling about glycemic index and glycemic load to read more about this.

Food like chips are actually engineered to not make you full so it's pretty easy to plow through a family size bag - thousands of calories later, and you're not full. That's just nuts.

I'm super sympathetic with the idea of comfort food. Emotional eating works. That blood sugar hit goes straight to your brain. Presto - a seratonin hit and you feel better. I struggle all the time to live with a little discomfort and aggravation in my life without trying to eat it away. Some days are better than others. But the hit is only temorary, and if you're like me it is combined with a lot of guilt and self loathing.

I've recently made some efforts to keep as much sugar as possible out of my diet. It's a slippery slope, and the first 5 days are full of mind-numbing cravings, but I always feel better for it. And weirdly enough, after I get through to the other side the cravings diminish. I know this isn't for everyone, but it makes me feel better.

Expect to be hungry the first few weeks as your body asdjusts to the lower amount of calories and then trust me it gets much easier. I do between 1200 and 1300 and I dont get hungry anymore like I did in the beginning. If you can last the first week or so you will start to feel much better. Carb and sugar reduction is a big part of it at least it was for me. Lots of salads and protein and maybe some fruit and veggie smoothies are great hunger killers

If you eat a lot of processed foods you will have a hard time feeling full. I used to eat like that and was constantly craving food. I eat between 1200-1550 depending on my workout and it is hard but I'm very short. The only way I am able to eat so little is thanks to eating clean. About 5 servings of fruit/veggies a day, whole grains such as oatmeal and brown rice and quinoa and natural Greek yogurt for protein, natural peanut butter with no added sugar (or almond butter), avocado, olive oil.
The problem you are facing is that what you eat is food that causes you to want more of it. It's so hard to stick to a diet like that. That hunger you feel when trying to stick to 1800 is probably tormenting you. As people suggested, make small steps to eating more wholesome foods. Try to help your mom, maybe try cooking dinner- you'd be surprised it's easier than you might think. If you are willing to step up and take some control over what comes inside the house maybe it'll be easier.
I hope you can find ways to make it easier on yourself. I have been in your shoes and when I was young, I never managed to lose weight, only when I grew up and lived alone was I able to figure out how to eat right. It's really hard and I wish you the best of luck.