Is it necessary to have a cheat day?

... but now I have the help of 4 people. I am so pumped to get this weight OFF!

That's GREAT that you have friends to help you!!! Having other people to keep you accountable to your workouts is another great way to keep on the straight and narrow! Good for you!

No. I do not deprive myself of anything. It's about moderation not deprivation.

You'll hear lots of advice on both sides of this, but I think the answer to your question is that no, it isn't necessary to have a cheat day. It really depends on the individual -- you have to figure out what works for you.

I personally don't have a cheat day for two reasons. First, because I have worked very hard to create a sustainable lifestyle change. If I feel the need to take a day off from that lifestyle once a week or once a month or whatever, it's clear to me that I haven't succeeded in making a sustainable change. This is how I plan to live the rest of my life, so if I feel like I have to take regular breaks from it then I need to make some changes so that I no longer feel like I need to find an escape route from how I'm eating. Second, because it is shockingly easy to blow an entire week's deficit on just one day of bad eating. If you run a week's deficit to lose 1lb, that's 3500 calories. You can drink that back (and then some) in some of the Coldstone Creamery milkshakes. Or eat it back on a big meal at a steak house or an Olive Garden. If you eat the chocolate cake at Chili's for dessert, that's over 1000 calories just by itself. Point being that giving myself a license to eat whatever I want without counting could add up extremely fast and ruin all of my progress for the week. It's just not worth it. If I really want chocolate lava cake for dessert, I will make room in my calorie budget without wrecking everything else I've done and I'll be happy twice -- once for the cake and once for not breaking my eating plan.

We use "cheat days" as our date nights so that we can try new places and not freak out if we find it impossible to stay under goal or figure out calorie count in something. That way our 2 nights a month when we set aside work, homework and all other concerns and focus strictly on us as a couple are remain stress free and fun.

That being said the rest of the time and even on those days we eat as healthy and balanced as possible. Lots of fresh fruits and veggies, lean proteins and whole grain carbs.

Looking at your diary, I would suggest something similar. Try eating healthy every day and then make taco bell and a soda a "cheat day". My wife is a huge soda addict so we bought a soda stream which allows us to control the amount of syrup and therefore the calories when she has soda. Now she is down to carbonated water and a squeeze of lemon or lime in it. Making it one of the best investments I have ever made. lol

It depends on your own perception. Everyone seems to approach their own weight loss with a varying amount of willpower, anxiety, self-control, etc. I had a lot of weight to lose - started at 296lbs. I'm still pretty much in a 'bulk weight loss' mentality and have been for the last 7 months or so. I can probably count on one hand the amount of times I've gone over my recommended calories for a day. So for me, a cheat day would have been a bad thing I think. The constant routine of watching my calories no matter what I think helped train my brain better to help keep this weight loss permanent. I don't make excuses as to why I "don't have time" to eat properly or to go to the gym. If I were to define a cheat day, I could see it devolving into a routine of 'this is the day I can be bad so I'm going to make it worth it'...and slowly I can see that turning into "well this week I'll have two cheat days but I'm sure it'll be fine because most days are better"....leading to " well this week is shot - I'll pick it up next week"....and so on. What I don't need to happen to me is a downward spiral, so I'll keep my routine as close to perfect as possible for as long as it takes to get my brain fully trained (though I think I've got it down now).

I joined MFP last month to get my weight back in order, and yesterday just so happens to be the very first day I did NOT go over my calorie intake since I joined. I was just curious on what everyone else thinks whether or not its necessary to have a cheat day. I feel like I've had a "cheat day" everyday for the last 2.5 years.

Not for me. I either go over my calorie count or I don't, and mostly I don't. However, when I started logging on MFP, I did go over a lot. It just takes time to adjust to a new lifestyle.

I also don't believe in cheat days because nothing is off limits, except for foods I am either allergic or intolerant to.

Do what works for you.

We are not ON a diet; all of us HAVE a diet -- like all animals. Now, I had a diet that resulted in me weighing twice what I should. I am adjusting my diet to maintain a better weight. If your diet includes chocolate on Sunday afternoons (or whatever), so be it.

We each need to design a diet which gets us the results we want to have and those results include not only weight and health but a satisfying life as well. You get to decide whether you want to let an extra hot fudge sundae delay your attaining your weight goals. The only "cheating" is if you lie to yourself in the process that overeating won't delay weight loss.

I joined MFP last month to get my weight back in order, and yesterday just so happens to be the very first day I did NOT go over my calorie intake since I joined. I was just curious on what everyone else thinks whether or not its necessary to have a cheat day. I feel like I've had a "cheat day" everyday for the last 2.5 years.

I eat it if it fits my Macros.

Have I hit my carb, protein, fat and fiber goals (or am I VERY close to them)? Do I have some extra calories left over? Yup, I'm going to have that ice cream/cake/drink, etc.

I eat something junky every day. Works better that way for me.

Although, I usually go a little crazy on the weekends. But I still hit my weekly calorie goal despite that.

I joined MFP last month to get my weight back in order, and yesterday just so happens to be the very first day I did NOT go over my calorie intake since I joined. I was just curious on what everyone else thinks whether or not its necessary to have a cheat day. I feel like I've had a "cheat day" everyday for the last 2.5 years.

It's a highly individual thing. Some people swear by them but I never plan a cheat day. The custom began as a "cheat meal" and was expanded by others. I have days where I screw up but they aren't planned. I don't like thinking of this as some kind of test and so I don't see it as a "cheat". But hey, it works for some people.

I need them for my sanity, not so much a whole day, per se, but yes, a eat/drink what I want meal about twice a month is nice!

I cheat everyday, so no.

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No "cheat days" here. I'm maintaining now at a very slight deficit, but when I was losing I didn't do "cheat days" either. If I went over one day, I'd make sure I was under enough on other days that week to balance it out.

That said, my intake includes a great big cup of chocolate frozen yogurt nearly every day, plenty of satisfying protein and fat, and such tasty empty-calorie items as onion rings, chips, or fries once or twice a week. If I were losing, I'd probably pass on the empty-calorie stuff, but the yogurt would stay even if I had to accept a slower weight loss rate. It has calcium and protein and, more importantly, it keeps me from feeling deprived and resentful. I see way too many diaries of ladies who are utterly miserable on their 1200-calorie diets, go on a junk food bender, and hate themselves for a week... and then do it again. Might work for some people, but not sustainable for me.

I don't have "cheat days". If fits into my calories, I eat it. One shouldn't feel as if they are cheating if they have a slice of pizza. For me at least, this isn't a diet, it's a lifestyle. So there's no cheating, there's only moderation.

Totally agree

Hi my name is Kelly I would asked my personal trainer at the gym if I could cheat....and that would be on a holiday depending on what it is like pizza or ice cream not both for example

I have known people that swore by their "cheat days" as the saving grace for their diets. I haven't been as lucky. I have found that I can't have cheat days because I go overboard. I am actively trying to lose weight right now so I figure I will add a random cheat day here and there once I am at my goal weight. :happy: