To meal plan or not to meal plan?

daughter0felectricfire
edited November 2023 in Getting Started
I really am so undecided! I've had a hard time losing weight but when I don't plan meals I find that I am constantly wondering and trying to work out calories in things. When I do plan meals, if I eat something that's not on my plan I go into the "all or nothing" mentality! So I just cannot win! I would love to know what you guys do, do you plan or not, or maybe plan a few items?
Any help would be greatly appreciated :)
Good luck to all on their journeys :)

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  • roxylola
    roxylola Posts: 540 Member
    I plan as much as I can, and then I can have a fiddle with my numbers for lunch or snacks if I know i want a blow out tea or whatever. Also, I find it is cheaper to do that way
  • I try to plan my meals in the morning and record them, then go back in the evening and correct where I need to. And every day is a clean slate. No regrets. No looking backward. At least that's what I aim for.
  • aprilwilliams2729
    aprilwilliams2729 Posts: 107 Member
    I generally plan out my meals, but leave some flexibility (in case my husband gets home early and starts dinner - and it's not what I had planned, or I'm just starving that day and need something else). I try to leave some calories for snacks in there as well.
  • If you want to lose fat, read this article about it:

    http://www.mystylenatural.com/2013/09/332-cutting-how-to-burn-fat.html
  • JenMc14
    JenMc14 Posts: 2,389 Member
    I plan my meals, but I don't always stick rigidly to them. I also try to leave some wiggle room for snacks.
  • lucystacy71
    lucystacy71 Posts: 290 Member
    I like to plan my meals so I can plan little treats for myself now and again. Of course, you still have to be flexible because sometimes things happen.
  • TriClaudia
    TriClaudia Posts: 51 Member
    I agree with everything posted so far. I plan breakfast and lunch pretty closely because I have to pack them for work. Then I keep a variety of veggies and a couple of protein options in the fridge to construct dinner. Like right now, I have some chicken sausage, cooked pinto beans, and a roasted chicken. That way I can have the feeling of eating what I feel like within certain parameters without going off the rails. And like @mforsis says, "No regrets. No looking backward." If I go off the rails, I also never start over "on Monday" or "tomorrow". Every time I eat is another opportunity to take good care of myself. So the next snack or next meal is a clean slate.

    One last thought -- when I don't plan, I can't stop thinking about food and thinking that I'm hungry or feeling munchy. That builds anxiety and leads me to emotional eating (no good decisions are made there). If I've planned ahead, I experience much less anxiety. I think maybe it somehow triggers my brain to know that I've taken care of food for the day, and there's plenty to eat and nothing to get anxious about. In the end you have to find the right balance for you, but hopefully our advice will help.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Agreed. I plan closely but it's not a huge deal if I go off a bit. Wiggle room and all that. And dinner is often up in the air.
  • megan1869
    megan1869 Posts: 166 Member
    To each his/her own.... I go through phases of "rigidly planning"... but than of course life happens and planning tends to go out the window...it makes me crazy!

    So instead of planning I have certain go to meals/snacks that I know are "safe" and generally how many calories are in them. I downloaded the MFP app on my phone and log as I go. its really just toying with everything and seeing what works for you.

    good luck
  • marleniap
    marleniap Posts: 120 Member
    I agree with everything posted so far. I plan breakfast and lunch pretty closely because I have to pack them for work. Then I keep a variety of veggies and a couple of protein options in the fridge to construct dinner. Like right now, I have some chicken sausage, cooked pinto beans, and a roasted chicken. That way I can have the feeling of eating what I feel like within certain parameters without going off the rails. And like @mforsis says, "No regrets. No looking backward." If I go off the rails, I also never start over "on Monday" or "tomorrow". Every time I eat is another opportunity to take good care of myself. So the next snack or next meal is a clean slate.

    One last thought -- when I don't plan, I can't stop thinking about food and thinking that I'm hungry or feeling munchy. That builds anxiety and leads me to emotional eating (no good decisions are made there). If I've planned ahead, I experience much less anxiety. I think maybe it somehow triggers my brain to know that I've taken care of food for the day, and there's plenty to eat and nothing to get anxious about. In the end you have to find the right balance for you, but hopefully our advice will help.

    I agree, I started planning breakfast and lunch because of work. I plan dinner also but leave room for changes. I'm hoping this will keep me on the straight and narrow. Good luck with your decision. :-)
  • ShaSimone
    ShaSimone Posts: 270 Member
    I like to plan loosely so I know where I have wiggle room. But I don't rigidly eat exactly what I've logged and if I don't eat that then I'm a complete failure for the day. I stay flexible with life and it has made me much happier.
  • trogalicious
    trogalicious Posts: 4,584 Member
    If you're having issues hitting macro goals, plan ahead.

    If you're hitting macros and staying at/under goal, why worry?
  • suzyfj8
    suzyfj8 Posts: 257 Member
    I plan all my meals on Saturday for the week, but on Sunday I am more relaxed about my calories so then I don't go totally control crazy :)
  • MrsB123111
    MrsB123111 Posts: 535 Member
    Always say "yes" to meal planning! A failure to plan, is a plan for failure...
  • I agree with this. I know that if I don't plan, then I am 90% sure I'll fail and fail fast for a day. I don't beat myself up for a whole week, only for that meal (or sometimes that day). I take the perspective that if I WANT to succeed and I want to NOT waste my bootcamp efforts with bad eating choices, then I *MUST* plan and execute that plan.

    I work HARD at bootcamp and nothing feels worse than failing to eat right. I have discovered that I really do well sticking to good eating habits when I plan and the opposite occurs when I don't plan. I typically plan on Sundays for Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday and then again on Wednesday nights for Thursdays and Fridays. I allow myself the "wiggle" room on Saturdays to "live a little."

    A failure to plan is a plan for failure. Very true.
  • laursoar
    laursoar Posts: 131 Member
    I think planning at least my meals the night before can be helpful. I know that I tend to want a snack at night after days I have work and class, so I purposefully stick those in there. I also feel that it keeps me more accountable to exercise if I am planning in a specific amount of exercise calories to eat back.
  • MikaMojito
    MikaMojito Posts: 680 Member
    On weekends I don't plan much because I'm always staying with my partner who does the shopping so I don't know what is in the house. I try to keep my breakfast and lunch quite small so I don't have to worry about dinner.

    During the week I shop and cook for myself and I plan a little. Ive only just started using mfp, so I'm not sure about calorie contents just yet. So I think about what I want to dinner, log it the night before if I have time and then fiddle around with breakfast and lunch.

    Eg: This morning, my fridge/freezer contained
    - leek
    - bell peppers
    - cocktail tomatoes
    - carrots
    - sausages
    - some turkey breast
    - bread
    - eggs

    I had quite a lot of meat last week, so I went shopping with the plan to have more fish this week.

    I bought:
    - frozen broccoli
    - frozen spinach
    - prawns
    - salmon
    - milk
    - meat-free meat balls

    During the week I will always have a sandwich for lunch because I need something that I can prepare quickly and eat while I'm supervising children.
    Because I have bread for lunch, I don't want any bread for breakfast, so I'll have weetabix with blueberries and milk.

    That leaves dinner. Tonight's dinner was centred around the meat balls. So I've got prawns for tomorrow, salmon for Wednesday and something from the freezer for Thursday. Since I eat carb-heavy during the day, I just add whatever veg I have to the protein source. I think that's all the planning I really need.

    If I KNOW I'll be going out I just don't eat much at all during the day and have all my calories in one meal.
  • ChangingAmanda
    ChangingAmanda Posts: 486 Member
    I do better when I can plan. Because of my work and gym schedule, I don't feel like cooking from scratch when I get home from the gym at 8pm. I found that having already prepared meals that I just pop in the microwave takes away the anxiety and worry about what I'd eat when I get home. Since it's just me and I don't mind eating the same meals, I usually crock pot 2 recipes on the weekend, divide the up and freeze them for later. I also pre-log my food during the day. Breakfast and lunch are nearly the same every day as is pre-workout snack. Dinner is usually one of three options. What's left over is used for AM and afternoon snacks and I eat back my HRM exercise calories for my evening snack. This all works wonderfully Monday - Friday but I've started to struggle on the weekends recently - it's probably a bit of "I've been doing this for over 9 months, I need a break" so I'm ok with eating more/worse on the weekend and losing less for now. As with most things in my life, I have to get pretty fed up with something before I'll change it.
  • teamAmelia
    teamAmelia Posts: 1,247 Member
    Plan. You've even noticed that if you don't plan, you're always wondering about food. When you plan, your problem is giving up just bc you have something that wasn't in your plan. The good thing about this site is that you can easily see how substituting different foods will affect your cals/limits. Don't give up. Just revise your meals for the rest of the day.
  • QuilterInVA
    QuilterInVA Posts: 672 Member
    Those who are successful the longest, plan their meals. When the day is planned you don't have to spend the day thinking about what you'll eat next. Stick to the plan and don't go off. When I don't have the day planned is when the foods that don't support my weight loss creep in. I plan my meals for the upcoming week on Friday night so I can purchase groceries on Saturday. Sunday I cook as much ahead as I can so I have everything ready.
  • Laura3BB
    Laura3BB Posts: 250 Member
    I also plan:
    - log my meals for the next day in the evening, that's when I work out my breakfast and lunch (which I prepare and take with me to work)
    - and have made up a dinner plan over 3 weeks to get varied nutritious and good meals (my 3 kids aren't on a diet so it needs to taste nice too!)

    good luck!
  • emjean76
    emjean76 Posts: 116 Member
    Every evening I pack my lunch and snacks for the next day of work. I include a morning and afternoon snack and lunch. I drink Shakeology for breakfast along with my coffee. Then my evening meal is generally a piece of lean meat that I have prepared over the weekend, paired with a salad, veggie, mashed cauliflower, brown rice, or something along those lines. I vary what I have for my evening meal based on how many calories, carbs, etc. I consumed during the day. First thing in the morning I go ahead and log in all my food for breakfast through my afternoon snack and see how many calories I have left. Then I base my evening meal on that. So yes, planning is best for me. Good luck!
  • burlingtongrl
    burlingtongrl Posts: 327 Member
    I try to plan a little for dinner. I know I'll make chicken on one day and then wrap or taco's with the left over chicken, baked fish one night, soup another, and one pasta night a week. I just throw whatever veggies I have as a side and usually add a salad. I don't plan out my lunches, but I eat a lot of the same things so it's either a protein shake with frozen fruit, cereal, hard boiled eggs, salad, pb and j sandwich. Lunches I add raw veggies and breakfasts add a fruit as a side. Hope this helps.
  • lewcompton
    lewcompton Posts: 881 Member
    I plan out the day and then make an occasional exchange of a different protein, veggie, or carb for dinner or I make changes to the snacks I have during the day... It does keep me from going over and I also plan my exercise and try to get it all in. Basketball is on the plan for this evening... It may not happen but I suspect it will because I have planned to do it... Planned to do stairs and walk and I have... It just works better for me. I'm Lew. Married, dad of two soon to be three... Down 185 in 14 months... Anyone is welcome to add me!
  • LB2812
    LB2812 Posts: 158 Member
    I try my best to meal plan. On the days I don't plan or pack enough food - those are the days I end up buying & eating crap and going over and regretting it! Esecially if I don't have my usual breakfast ready! It's bad for my wallet and my waits :( I try to spend one day (preferably sunday) and make a bunch of food to last me through at least most of the week. Any prep I can do the better. I like to make big batches of things - chilis, pastas, rice & veggies, etc. - and break them into tupperwares right then and there.

    I may not plan out each exact meal though, like once I have all that food made, then each day I'll choose an item for lunch, snack, dinner... (i have the same breakfast everyday preferably!).
  • NK1112
    NK1112 Posts: 781 Member
    If you want to lose fat, read this article about it:

    http://www.mystylenatural.com/2013/09/332-cutting-how-to-burn-fat.html

    Very interesting article. Reinforces a lot of stuff the last trainer I worked with said, except I didn't know why he was saying it ... now I do. Thanks
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