Being Fat and Doing Yoga
wknmom
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I am really considering finding a yoga class for beginners, but I am very self conscious about my body in that type of session. I know that as I age the flexibility will be a huge bonus, but I am absolutely terrified of being mocked in a class. Is there anyone out there that is still overweight and doing yoga classes? Advice?
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I started doing yoga when I was overweight and I have to say that was the first time I truly felt comfortable working out with people. No one is paying attention to you or your weight, they are all focusing on their practice.0
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I'm not really overweight, but I just wanted to chime in and let you know that I suck at yoga. Like embarrass myself because I am falling over due to my horrible balance and lack of coordination. I try it to get in more stretching. That being said, no one has ever mocked me. I just set up a mat in the back of the room and follow as best as I can. Sometimes I make eye contact with people and just smile; they smile back because they know it's difficult for some. Go and have fun.0
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You'll enjoy this guy's amazing transformation with yoga. He lost 140 lbs in 6 months. Crazy!
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=338024656316604
Let me know if it doesn't work.0 -
My mom is a yoga teacher so I go to class a lot. There are women and men there of all shapes and sizes. No one is there to mock you, judge you, or make fun of you. No one will even be paying attention to you, because yoga is all about looking inward and finding balance. Just go do it, you won't be sorry.0
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I have never gone to a class but I am overweight and I do yoga at home. I like the body wisdom DVDs and also Tara Stiles on youtube! I think though if you found a yoga class people would be very nice and supportive because thats the mentality that yoga teaches. It teaches you to do what you are capable of doing today at this time & going at YOUR pace and getting to know your body!0
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I did yoga at home for months with DVDs and books before I got up the nerve to try a class. It turns out, there was NOTHING to be nervous about! Like someone else said, no one is paying attention. And, I bet you will not be the only overweight person in the class! Give it a try!0
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as a teacher I've seen women who are obese do yoga as often as the seasoned yogis and get just as much out of it mentally and physically. most yoga students are focused on themselves during a practice so you can really focus on what you are there for.0
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I did yoga...and loved it! the first class i was the largest person in there so i did feel uncomfortable but because i liked it i decided to go back and since then i have noticed there are lots of overwieght people joining the class0
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I've done yoga while overweight. You may want to talk to the teacher so s/he can give you modifications if you need them. I had an instructor who was very good about offering suggestions if your belly or boobs got in the way, and showing ways for more experienced/flexible/strong people to challenge themselves while still allowing newbies to get a good workout, too.
Basically, it all comes down the the teacher. If you're not comfortable with the first one, don't give up on yoga completely.0 -
OMG...if you're being mocked in a yoga class for not being fit, you're in the wrong class. I've *never* been a skinny girl and yoga, for a long time, was the only exercise I could do. I'm still not small, but I adore yoga. It's actually pretty ideal for curvy girls as you can alter the poses to suit your needs.
Something to keep in mind when you start is that you need to adapt--just because my teeny-tiny yoga instructor can hold a perfect warrior pose for 14 breaths, doesn't mean I have to hold it to the same depth. You want to work to where it's comfortable, and maybe just a tiny bit beyond. You'll notice, over time, that you're able to work and stretch deeper. It's an amazing feeling!
I would suggest looking into classes in your area--are there any where you can pay per class? That way you can check into it and see if it's right for you before signing up for a whole session. Make sure you're comfortable with the teacher and the pace. Oh, and start with a beginner's class--don't try to jump into hot yoga, aerial yoga, or other super difficult kinds--it's too discouraging to begin with.
Best of luck--I'm sure you'll really enjoy yourself!0 -
I'm overweight and do yoga once a week and BodyFlow once a week. I started them all just over a year ago. When I started I weighed more than I do now and I have bad knees. These two classes are *hard* for me. I wasn't flexible when I was young and I'm sure as hell not flexible now. I have improved since I started (still not flexible) but I can hold some of the poses longer. My breathing isn't quite as raggedy as it was then. I'm able to hold back the grunts and groans... mostly. And I only cry in child's pose so no one can see me. (Sadly, I'm not really joking about that... there are times when I tear up, but I try to keep my face hidden from the others). When we're sitting on the floor, my belly rolls are there for anybody to see. I have to give up on some things and just sit in child's pose until I can catch up with the rest of the class. All that being said, I've never been mocked. At least not that I know of. The majority of my classmates have been nothing but encouraging. The instructors have been willing to help with alternative poses for me (and others) when needed - think Yoga-Lite. Yoga and BodyFlow aren't my favorite methods of exercise, but I know the stretching and flexibility will be nothing but an asset as I get older. Go for it!!!!!
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You WILL NOT be mocked in class. Yoga is not about who is stronger, who is better. It is not a 'No pain, No gain' sport. Everyone practices at their own level. That is why Yoga provides modifications.
On another note, there is no "size" requirement for Yoga. I have been to classes and have instructor friends that are in the "plus size" category that are outstanding Yoga teachers.
Go! You will not regret it!0 -
Go for it! I started Bikram (hot) yoga over a year ago. I am 5'3" and then weighed 220. I loved it. Very relaxing and will help your weight loss efforts, flexability, and your mental state! I've lost weight and it's definitely easier now, but I'm glad I didn't wait. As others have said, those doing yoga aren't typically the mocking type! Quite the opposite - I found EVERYONE very encouraging and supportive. Namaste!0
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I love yoga and pilates. I took a pilates class when I was 280 pounds, and it was part of my plan. I lost 30 pounds in three months thanks in part to it.
Nobody is going to mock or judge, and more than likely everyone will encourage and help you out!0 -
Believe me! Yoga is too darn hard for anyone to be worrying about what you are doing. They are all just worrying about what they are doing! I LOVE yoga and I NEVER notice what anyone else is doing in class. We have all shapes, sizes, ages, genders...0
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I did yoga at 291 -- I doubt you'll get mocked at all; I've never seen a more laidback group of people than my yoga classes! I'm fairly flexible - the only thing that seems to get in my way is my own bulk. Heh. I learned early on to not berate myself or worry about it -- just adapt and go as far as you can. Some things just won't work because of being fat, inflexible, uncoordinated, or all of the above! A good teacher will also quietly explain some good modifications you can do based on abilities. The best one at the Y I go to walks around a lot offering help to everyone and always makes me feel great even if I can't do something. It was nice because it was easier that way for me to open up and explain the one thing that actually hurt to do so she could help me with some ideas to work around it. So go for it. Do yoga! I miss it - I just tend to be on the road so much that I don't make classes. I've dropped 40 pounds at least since the last class I was in, and my pain issue is way better (lying on my back and doing some of the movements hurt significantly on my lower back area that I dubbed my 'shelf' -- too much fat and such on a delicate area. Even massages hurt if not done right. Just had a full body massage last weekend and only a few twinges sometimes versus 65 pounds ago when it hurt to touch!).
tl;dr -- doing yoga while fat is a-okay!0 -
I was super excited to receive a FB announcement from our local wellness center that they have started up a beginner "plus size" yoga class. I think we all have the same fears. Can't wait to try it out.0
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I started doing yoga at 300lbs. I have never felt self conscious about my body while doing it. Its usually kind of dim and relaxing in the studio anyway. Yoga is supposed to be a internal practice, they encourage you not to pay attention or compare yourself to others in the class.
The instructors I have were always super supportive. Along the way, I learned modifications that helped me in certain poses. Let's face it, its harder to touch your toes when your belly is in the way.
I think the key is to find a good yoga studio. I didn't care for the yoga classes at the gym, I felt the instructor was just going through a routine with no thought about who could keep up or not and no help for anyone struggling with positions. A yoga studio should have instructors trained on how to help all body types. I had an instructor that taught throughout her pregnancy and some of the modifications she used to accommodate the baby were ones I used to accommodate my larger body.
That being said, I do find that yoga positions are easier to do now that I've lost some weight. I have better balance and stability, I'm stronger and more flexible. I truly enjoy it and find it helps me relax and unwind, in addition to helping me stretch and become more flexible.
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I started attending yoga classes when I was obese. I had trouble holding certain positions for very long because I was not strong enough to hold my own weight, but instructors always urge you to rest in child's pose if you need a break and there is no shame in doing that. People of all shapes and sizes attend the classes, and sometimes you will see an overweight person with more skill than a seemingly very in shape person. Just focus on your own body, rest when you need to, and enjoy.0
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You need to ignore the little voice in your head that is trying to make you fail. No one will ever mock a beginner for being big in a yoga class. From my experience I have only met like minded, happy, positive people that will want to see you succeed. Yoga is a lifestyle with its own set of values. It would be a rare sight to see someone mocking another at a yoga class.
And if it does happen they are weak willed, pathetic bullies with self esteem issues.
Yoga is for all body types. You work as hard as you want and you will notice a difference quickly if you maintain yoga. It helps the body, mind and soul.
I hope you ignore that little voice in your head and go to a yoga class because you will be surprised at all the different types of people that go; from oap's to teenagers, overweight or anorexic. People go for their own reasons. Go join a class and see your life change for the better.
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I'm not really overweight, but I just wanted to chime in and let you know that I suck at yoga. Like embarrass myself because I am falling over due to my horrible balance and lack of coordination. I try it to get in more stretching. That being said, no one has ever mocked me. I just set up a mat in the back of the room and follow as best as I can. Sometimes I make eye contact with people and just smile; they smile back because they know it's difficult for some. Go and have fun.
same! haha I am terrible at some of the poses! only one way to get better though, to keep going!0 -
What I've learned about yoga is there are a million different types of classes. I agree with most others that you will likely be surprised at how comfortable you feel and how you will see people moving at their own pace. If you don't feel comfortable, try another class.
The one piece of advice I have is to avoid is a class with a teacher who 'pushes' you into position. A good yoga teacher will be able to demonstrate and discuss with you what your body can and cant do in different poses. Bad yoga instructors will just push your hips or arms into what they think is the right place (without your agreement).0 -
Go to a beginners class and you will find ALL body types, I promise.
I have only gone to a couple of classes back in 2001-2002, so I am sure things have changed a lot but I know not that much. An online friend of mine is well over 250 lb and she's even on the poster for her yoga classes and she looks beautiful.
Anyone can do yoga! There may be some poses that are difficult depending on size and flexibility but that's true for any body not just overweight bodies!!0 -
Oh, no, no, no. No mocking in yoga class. I've never seen that, never heard of it, never want to (although I'm sure there are some horrible teachers and classes out there, but honestly, just meet the teacher first -- if s/he immediately makes you feel warm and relaxed and reliant on yourself, then you'll have a good class).
Yoga is really good for you and it can be as difficult as you want it to be. My belly and boobs get in the way in yoga a lot, but the instructor is always urging us to listen to our bodies, work to our level, and treat ourselves well. Sometimes that means pushing myself; other days, like today, it means being gentle with myself. It's a very "Be where you are" practice.
And yes, it's called a "practice" for a reason. The further you get, the humbler you feel! There's never perfection; there's only trying.
I look to other students for inspiration because, you're right, it can be really scary putting on stretchy clothes and bending over in front of people! The way I see it, if they were scared the first day and did it anyway, they inspire me; if they weren't scared the first day, they REALLY inspire me.
Tl;dr. You'll do fine. Better than fine.0 -
Good luck ! As many others have said, shop around and find the right class for you. Classes, and the people who take them, differ a lot. Even "beginner" classes vary a lot.
I have never seen a class, though, where someone wasn't welcome if they wanted to give it a try. And, I have never really looked up and around at others when I am doing yoga.0 -
I think the pushing of hips and arms is called "adjustments". They are totally freakin awesome but the instructor is supposed to ask if they can touch you before doing it. And as another poster said, most of my classes have been in the dark (dim, just little Christmas lights at the front of class). I believe it does help the self consciousness issue for _everyone_.0
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Thank you everyone for such positive feedback. I signed up for a class this morning, and I start on Tuesday. Do I need to go buy a 'mat' before the class?0
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Just wanted to chip in and say DO IT, but I've seen that you absolutely are going to! I've done a little bit of yoga in the past and went to a beginners' refresher course last week, and I don't know why I ever stopped. LOVE IT and everyone is so accepting of you and your limitations.
In my experience, most classes have had mats you can borrow - as part of my course I was given one but probably a good idea to ring and ask0 -
you should rent a mat for your first try if your studio has the option, most studios will for $1-2. the website you're going to should tell you if they have mat rental.
and if you don't hate it (I suspect you won't), you can buy a mat for $6-15 usually. if you think you'll be doing yoga often, you might want to put some thought into whether you want your mat to be thicker or longer than usual or if you're fine with just a typical mat. when I was 30 lbs heavier, I needed a thicker mat or my hands would ache. you can always overlap two cheap mats together in lieu of buying a thicker mat, I see people do it all of the time.0 -
Thanks for the advice. I contacted the gym, and I need to bring my own mat. I will buy one this weekend. It sounds like everyone here loves yoga and doesn't worry too much about being embarrassed. If that is the case, I really believe I will benefit from increasing my flexibility, so I will keep up with the class. It is a new class offered free to people with gym memberships, so my only investment will be the mat.you should rent a mat for your first try if your studio has the option, most studios will for $1-2. the website you're going to should tell you if they have mat rental.
and if you don't hate it (I suspect you won't), you can buy a mat for $6-15 usually. if you think you'll be doing yoga often, you might want to put some thought into whether you want your mat to be thicker or longer than usual or if you're fine with just a typical mat. when I was 30 lbs heavier, I needed a thicker mat or my hands would ache. you can always overlap two cheap mats together in lieu of buying a thicker mat, I see people do it all of the time.0
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