Elderly drivers, what age should you stop?

twinketta
twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
I have a relative that that is 78yo. Last year he drove his automatic car into a van in a supermarket car park (mistaking the accelerator pedal for the brake) the poor guy was sitting eating his sammies in his van.

The same relative wanted to reverse his car off his driveway so the window cleaner could get to do his cleaning, and he drove into the bin and luckily it cushioned the impact of him driving into the front of the house!

If going on a long journey he only drives maybe 2 miles to get a bus, or he drives to the doctors, but I am seriously worried about him causing a major accident.

The relative has recently been passed by his doctor to carry on driving :noway:

I see many old people trudging along in cars, people overtaking because they are stuck behind them.

In your opinion, should there be an age limit on when your licence should finish, pretty much the same as the one when you are allowed to drive?
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  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.
  • Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.
    Agreed. It's gender.
  • jollyjoe321
    jollyjoe321 Posts: 529 Member
    They should be allowed to drive until you are getting indications that they're becoming dangerous.
  • bcf7683
    bcf7683 Posts: 1,653 Member
    UGHHH I've been saying this for years.

    I wouldn't necessarily make a cut-off age, but they should be re-tested every couple of years once they get into the gray years. And even before that if they develop issues with walking/sitting/seeing/living in general.

    It scares the *kitten* out of me sometimes seeing someone in WalMart who can't even push a buggy in a straight line (or not run into shelves) walk out to a car and drive away. :huh:
  • CollegiateGrief
    CollegiateGrief Posts: 552 Member
    I think a test every few years might be a good idea, rather than age. Some people in their '70s should probably stop driving, and some people in their '90s are still good drivers.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.

    Whilst I agree there are a lot of incompetent drivers, surely old age can play a big part?
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.
    Agreed. It's gender.

    totally wreckless young male drivers are the worst. Just ask the bean counters of insurance companies.

    PS-OP it really depends on many conditions, and we can all pray that when we get that age we dont lose our mobility.

    Oh and to add to this, this is the reason elderly people pay the lowest in insurance premiums. They are generally safe drivers and have the lowest rate of claims.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.
    Agreed. It's gender.

    I don`t think `agender` people are any less likely to be able to drive? :tongue:
  • Popsing
    Popsing Posts: 23 Member
    While I agree that there are plenty of younger drivers on the road who are not fit to drive, not to mention impaired drivers leaving bars and clubs in the middle of the night, I believe there is an age at which drivers need to consider giving up the keys. My dad is 84 and my brothers who live closer to him told me of their fears for him a few years ago when he had had a couple of "minor" accidents close together. At that time he was unwilling to stop driving. However, partially because he has Parkinson's Disease, this summer he sold his car to my sister and became a non-driver. He's clear-headed and has a better memory than I do, but his driving skills had deteriorated, and he no longer felt safe to drive.
    I will give up my keys some day, but I know that my husband will NEVER willingly part with his independence. He's a stubborn man, and thinks he's always right, so some day in the future one of our kids will have to pry the car keys from his cold, dead fingers.
  • stephanieross1
    stephanieross1 Posts: 388 Member
    I think they are fine, they make them do test yearly after a certain age (in my area at least..)
    So if you can still pass then you're safe to drive

    lol it is a gender issue, young men drive wreckless
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    UGHHH I've been saying this for years.

    I wouldn't necessarily make a cut-off age, but they should be re-tested every couple of years once they get into the gray years. And even before that if they develop issues with walking/sitting/seeing/living in general.

    It scares the *kitten* out of me sometimes seeing someone in WalMart who can't even push a buggy in a straight line (or not run into shelves) walk out to a car and drive away. :huh:
    This. And a real test. If you have something like this, it should be an automatic removal. My mom had to get my grandma to give up her car because she was beyond being able to drive safely. At least she didn't fight it.
  • Popsing
    Popsing Posts: 23 Member
    Gender, My *kitten*! What a crass, sexist thing to say. I know you meant to agree with the myth that women are inferior drivers. If you checked your facts, you would know that young men are more likely to kill themselves and their friends in a motor vehicle accident. Also, most of the elderly drivers who get into trouble are men as well. You are an idiot.
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.

    wrong. eyesight, reflexes etc...all play a part.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Gender, My *kitten*! What a crass, sexist thing to say. I know you meant to agree with the myth that women are inferior drivers. If you checked your facts, you would know that young men are more likely to kill themselves and their friends in a motor vehicle accident. Also, most of the elderly drivers who get into trouble are men as well. You are an idiot.

    shhhh it's ok he's just jealous because women, in general, enjoy paying 10% less in insurance premiums

    per carsdirect.com
  • stephanieross1
    stephanieross1 Posts: 388 Member
    Gender, My *kitten*! What a crass, sexist thing to say. I know you meant to agree with the myth that women are inferior drivers. If you checked your facts, you would know that young men are more likely to kill themselves and their friends in a motor vehicle accident. Also, most of the elderly drivers who get into trouble are men as well. You are an idiot.

    shhhh it's ok he's just jealous because women, in general, enjoy paying 10% less in insurance premiums


    What I pay in a year, my brother pays in a month. Pays to be a woman.
  • Laces_0ut
    Laces_0ut Posts: 3,750 Member
    Gender, My *kitten*! What a crass, sexist thing to say. I know you meant to agree with the myth that women are inferior drivers. If you checked your facts, you would know that young men are more likely to kill themselves and their friends in a motor vehicle accident. Also, most of the elderly drivers who get into trouble are men as well. You are an idiot.

    shhhh it's ok he's just jealous because women, in general, enjoy paying 10% less in insurance premiums


    What I pay in a year, my brother pays in a month. Pays to be a woman.

    but then you factor in that men make more money and they come out way ahead. :)
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    agree with most. I know plenty of drivers who are completely fine to drive and they are in their 80s. I know others in their 60s who shouldn't be allowed to drive.

    Age just isn't a factor. Health, reflexes, eye sight....many things play a role in whether a driver is road worthy. Hell, I know 30 year olds who shouldn't be behind a wheel.

    I do think at some point, there needs to be tests retaken on a annual/bi-annual basis or something like that, but to cut someone off just on age alone isn't realistic.
  • myprana
    myprana Posts: 66
    My husband and I get the feeling that his mother (she's nearly 90) should give up driving. She's showing signs of senility. But at her last driver's license renewal, she failed the eye exam and they still renewed her license. Just told her she should probably make an eye appointment. Since the state isn't concerned, I can't really say anything to her though.
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.
    Agreed. It's gender.

    totally wreckless young male drivers are the worst. Just ask the bean counters of insurance companies.

    PS-OP it really depends on many conditions, and we can all pray that when we get that age we dont lose our mobility.

    Oh and to add to this, this is the reason elderly people pay the lowest in insurance premiums. They are generally safe drivers and have the lowest rate of claims.

    This relative pays 700 a year more that I pay because of his age and his `near misses`
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.
    Agreed. It's gender.

    I think your obvious joke struck a nerve with some.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Gender, My *kitten*! What a crass, sexist thing to say. I know you meant to agree with the myth that women are inferior drivers. If you checked your facts, you would know that young men are more likely to kill themselves and their friends in a motor vehicle accident. Also, most of the elderly drivers who get into trouble are men as well. You are an idiot.

    shhhh it's ok he's just jealous because women, in general, enjoy paying 10% less in insurance premiums


    What I pay in a year, my brother pays in a month. Pays to be a woman.

    but then you factor in that men make more money and they come out way ahead. :)

    ooo got me there .78/1? I think it is now
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    So would you report the relative and feel bad for doing so, or would you just think that if the licence was still in place then let them carry on?
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member
    I think a test every few years might be a good idea, rather than age. Some people in their '70s should probably stop driving, and some people in their '90s are still good drivers.

    Also there are some 20 year olds that should NEVER be behind the wheel EVER.

    Seriously age doesn't matter.

    My grandmother is 84 and still has her license and has no problems. Although she doesn't do any highway driving anymore (she lives in a small town) and only drives the car when it is REALLY cold out. She told me it is safer for her and everyone else if she just walks, so every weekend I make a 40 minute drive so she can get her groceries, without having to stress.
  • apedeb09
    apedeb09 Posts: 805 Member
    I agree about testing drivers every few years... My grandpa used to be an excellent driver and he drove everywhere. Then a couple years ago he started getting increasingly worse while driving, until he just completely stopped altogether. That is, until he went with my grandma an hour away for an appointment and my grandma had him drive. He ended up getting in an accident and hitting 6 cars. He passed away 2 or 3 days later in March of this year :-/ I'm not blaming it completely on the accident but it definitely didn't help him. I wish he would've had his license taken away or something.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    So would you report the relative and feel bad for doing so, or would you just think that if the licence was still in place then let them carry on?

    i would report if you feel it's that risky, and paying that much in insurance is ridiculous poor guy
  • stillnot2late
    stillnot2late Posts: 385 Member
    UGHHH I've been saying this for years.

    I wouldn't necessarily make a cut-off age, but they should be re-tested every couple of years once they get into the gray years. And even before that if they develop issues with walking/sitting/seeing/living in general.

    It scares the *kitten* out of me sometimes seeing someone in WalMart who can't even push a buggy in a straight line (or not run into shelves) walk out to a car and drive away. :huh:

    yes, test them
  • renatewolfe
    renatewolfe Posts: 91 Member
    Age has nothing to do with it. Much younger people get into far more serious accidents. I think that if the person is mentally competent, then his family can certainly suggest giving up the license, but they can't force it. I have a lot of sympathy for older people. I work with them, and they get so much independence taken away. Young people think that they will live forever and never be in a position where the freedom to go where you want, when you want will be taken away. That doesn't mean that I think people should be able to drive no matter what. My father stopped driving about 6 months before he died. My aunt stopped about 5 years before she passed. My mother in law still drives, and has an excellent record, but only to her kids houses or the restaurant she frequents in our small town.
  • salladeve
    salladeve Posts: 1,053 Member
    After 70 they should be required to take a driving and written test before renewing their license EVERY YEAR! I know of an elderly person that is in a nursing home and can not even feed herself, but she has a valid drivers license! She renewed by mail a few years ago, so she basically will have a license for 8 years after actually visiting the SOS office. She is 88.
  • dbanks80
    dbanks80 Posts: 3,685 Member
    When elders start running into Sh$t then yes take the license away before they become a danger to themselves and others. Or if they start showing signs of forgetfulness or mental instability like my mother-in-law who has Alzheimers but refused to get tested for it.
  • Serah87
    Serah87 Posts: 5,481 Member
    Age has nothing to do with whether a person is competent to drive or not.

    Whilst I agree there are a lot of incompetent drivers, surely old age can play a big part?

    There is a lot of incompetent drivers at ALL ages!!!!