Maintaining (more or less) while pregnant
brandiewininger
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My goal is to not gain more than 10lbs or less during my pregnancy per my OB due to being overweight when getting pregnant. I'm currently 14weeks and 6 days along and have gain 2 lbs already. I'll be using Fitness Pal to help me maintain a record of what I'm putting into my body to help with making better choices. I've always been thin, under 120lbs until I turned 26 and am now 33 and my weight has been a constant struggle. I had baby#4 15 months ago and was disappointed with my post pardum weight loss and hope this will help me along the way after #5 is here.
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Why don't you worry more about the health of your baby than gaining weight. You can always lose weight later. If your baby ends up sick at birth because you weren't taking care of it correctly no amount of weight loss will make you feel better about it.0
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Making healthy choices for you and your baby is very important. Good for you because most women think being pregnant is a free for all to eat whatever, however much and that has health consequences also.0
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With 4 other kids I am sure that you are active so that is taken care of, but if you want to be MORE active I suggest walking with the kids or going to the park, etc. For food I suggest keeping lots of small healthy snacks around. If you have something good to munch on you are less likely to stray to cravings (mine was Chick Fil A both pregnancies). Make is easy to eat right so you have less excuses to eat junk, my crock pot is one of my best friends, lol. Best of luck and I hope the next months are happy and healthy.0
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Ummm - she said she was trying to not gain more than 10 lbs PER HER OB. If you are overweight it is generally accepted that it's HEALTHIER for you and the baby to gain less weight or even maintain or loose during pregnancy depending on your pre-pregnancy weight.
We are currently attempting to get pregnant and intend to continue using MFP if/when it happens so that I remain aware of what I am putting into my body. It's a great tool to make sure you are eating a balanced diet so that your baby gets everything he or she needs!0 -
I think its smart to use MFP to track while you're pregnant. You can set your goal to 2000 calories and make sure you aren't going over or under. I plan on doing the same thing for my next pregnancy. I don't think the previous poster saw the part about your doctor instructing you to limit your weight gain. At the same time, be realistic with yourself and don't be upset if you gain more than that. Usually 15-25lbs is recommended if you're overweight. But I think fitting nutritious food into a 2000 calorie goal and getting in moderate exercise is an excellent way to help with a healthy pregnancy! Another great feature of MFP is that you can add in breastfeeding calories after you have the baby, to help lose weight while eating enough for a good milk supply!
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Why don't you worry more about the health of your baby than gaining weight. You can always lose weight later. If your baby ends up sick at birth because you weren't taking care of it correctly no amount of weight loss will make you feel better about it.
If you're over weight and pregnant trying to not gain wait is being worried about your baby and your health. Being over weight while being pregnant can cause complications and we should applaud those who try to not gain when in reality, they don't need to because they are already over weight. Plus she talked to her doctor and got her approval.
A good snack that almost feels like cheating is getting a mid size container of daisy light sour cream and a packet of dry ranch mixture and mix them together. Tasty and low calorie dip for any veggie you'd like. Continue to log log log at all times, no matter if you slip up!0 -
I'm 25 weeks along and have gained 20 pounds and my OB is mad. I started out at 205, I had no idea I was only "supposed" to gain 10-15 pounds. She never said anything until after I gained 10 pounds in a month and a half (I was on vacation on Hawaii mind you). I switched my setting to maintenance and it gives me 2200 calories a day. I usually eat around 1700-2000 but I'm constantly hungry. My OB was hurtful and not helpful when talking to me about my weight. I haven't gained anything this week so we will bee what she says at my next app. Best of luck!0
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This is direct advisement from my obstetrician. At almost 32% BMI my baby's health will not suffer. Your body will always take for baby and deplete your stores for your own use.0
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I'm 25 weeks along and have gained 20 pounds and my OB is mad. I started out at 205, I had no idea I was only "supposed" to gain 10-15 pounds. She never said anything until after I gained 10 pounds in a month and a half (I was on vacation on Hawaii mind you). I switched my setting to maintenance and it gives me 2200 calories a day. I usually eat around 1700-2000 but I'm constantly hungry. My OB was hurtful and not helpful when talking to me about my weight. I haven't gained anything this week so we will bee what she says at my next app. Best of luck!
I started at 175 but I am only 5ft 2inches. I had gestational diabetes last pregnancy that lead to issue with my daughter's breathing and it was all very scary. Thankfully, my doctor has been very kind and would never gripe at me for gaining more. Maintenance setting gives me 1820 cals a day which I think is plenty. I know one only needs 300 extra calories a day for a healthy pregnancy. My 15 month old is down to only 3 nursing sessions a day now so my appetite is finally a bit more normal. At the beginning it was ridiculous. I'm sorry your provider was not more tactful or helpful. Good luck with your baby and staying healthy!0 -
This is direct advisement from my obstetrician. At almost 32% BMI my baby's health will not suffer. Your body will always take for baby and deplete your stores for your own use.
I stated this before. I only gained 14 pounds during pregnancy and my start weight was 108. I ate nutritiously and saw my OBGYN regularly. She never expressed concern about the weight gain (or lack thereof). Once my husband asked the OBGYN about my lack of recommended weight gain, and she replied that the baby is doing well, growing perfectly...it will take from my resources, if it isn't getting what it needs.
I had a very healthy diet, and my baby was born perfectly healthy. he is a beautiful toddler now with lots of energy and very smart (okay, all moms say that about their kids). he has been exceeding all milestones. I think I focused on eating so healthily...that my calories were not that dense. I ate lots of fresh vegetables and fruit, yogurt, lean meats, fiber cereal. so i didn't gain a lot of weight.
my point is...if your OBGYN supports your decision, feel confident in that unless your gut tells you otherwise. In which case, start looking for different OBGYNs.0 -
Why don't you worry more about the health of your baby than gaining weight. You can always lose weight later. If your baby ends up sick at birth because you weren't taking care of it correctly no amount of weight loss will make you feel better about it.
Following her OB's advice for weight is worrying about her baby's health. Gaining too much weight during preganancy can be as dangerous for the baby as the mother, perhaps more so.0 -
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Just be careful that your baby is getting proper nutrition. That is much more important then gaining weight!
My mom was told the nineties that she shouldn't gain much weight with her pregnancy and that she should continue her strict exercise program. so she did. I was OK, but my two brothers after me came VERY premature and had to spend weeks in the hospital.
She met a holistic doctor her next pregnancy who told her the premature births and health problems were a simple lack of nourishment. She put my mom on a diet that included two eggs, two cup of spinach, whole grains etc.
Yeah...my mom gained about 20 pounds her following three pregnancies, but none of the births were premature and all the kids were healthy. To me that proves that nutrition should be the focus...not the scale. Plus breast feeding will melt those pounds right off if you go back to eating normally after the pregnancy.0 -
It's frustrating when you are battling weight while pregnant. With my first pregnancy I was obese and gained - I honestly have no idea how much. My Dr never said anything. He was very nice. We pretended my weight didn't exist sometimes. I didn't gain an obscene amount but I did gain more than what I should be at an obese level. I was happy he didn't say anything mean but in retrospect I wish he would have been more forthcoming from the FIRST appointment.
Be mindful of what you put in your body. Don't restrict yourself if you are legitimately hungry and don't "eat for two" as even in the 3rd trimester women of an average weight only need an additional 300 calories per day. Stay active even just walking. If you gain a little bit more than intended and are eating overall a healthy diet you know you are doing OK. I don't mean to gain twice as much as recommended as this can cause serious complications for yourself and your baby. It's much better than not eating enough or only eating junk and gaining the 'appropriate" weight. Just be mindful of your nutrition.
You can probably find an RD who specializes in OB. Meet with them one time for suggestions and a plan.
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you've had 4 what is your typical gain?0
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Using MFP while pregnant and try not to overeat while pregnant is a good idea in any case. I joined MFP 10 months prior pregnancy and I was successfully losing weight based on the calorie recommendation, but the whole calorie in and calorie out theory went out on the window while was pregnant.
Just as before ,I was consistently recording everything on MFP during my entire pregnancy with baby #2 and still gained 65 lb. I wasn't obese prior to pregnancy, but I was overweight (BMI=27) and really wanted to gain only minimal amount. I set my calorie limit to maintenance for the first 5 months , and gained 40 lb during those months. I set my calorie limit to the recommended maintenance +250 calorie a day(=0.5 lb gain per week) in the last 3 months and I gained another 25 lb. I wanted to cry every time I step on a scale.
My Dr was very supportive though. She never said anything about my weight gain. When I asked she said that all my results are normal, there are no gestation diabetes, no blood pressure issues, the baby was perfectly normal. Hence the weight gain is only an aesthetic issue that I have to deal with after the baby.0 -
I have my gestational diabetes test coming up. My blood pressure was up last visit because I was stressed about my weight. My OB had made comments on my previous visit. The thing is, she never asked about what I eat or anything like that. She didn't say "you are over weight to begin with so we want to keep you in a range of X to X pounds". I'm constantly hungry but I feel like I have a complex about eating now. My next appointment is with a different Dr, hopefully I can talk to her more about it.0
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I am using this site to shed weight before TTC. Thank you for posting this. I am not there yet but it is a question I may have in the future. Congrats on your pregnancy! I wish you the best of luck. :flowerforyou:0
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you've had 4 what is your typical gain?
There really hasn't been a typical for me. I had twins the first time. I started slightly underweight at around 95 lbs. I spent from 23wks to 34 in the hospital on medication for contraction, a constant I.V, strict bed rest and had to do steroid injections. I weighed 189 the day I was released and delivered my twins the next day. My 2nd pregnancy I started at 116lb and got up to 168. I lost most of it and dropped down to about 125 and stayed there for several years until I started putting on weight around age 26. My last pregnancy I started around 170lbs and weighed 189 the day I gave birth. I dropped to 168 within 11 days but put 7lbs back on in about 2 weeks and it's stayed there.0 -
I have my gestational diabetes test coming up. My blood pressure was up last visit because I was stressed about my weight. My OB had made comments on my previous visit. The thing is, she never asked about what I eat or anything like that. She didn't say "you are over weight to begin with so we want to keep you in a range of X to X pounds". I'm constantly hungry but I feel like I have a complex about eating now. My next appointment is with a different Dr, hopefully I can talk to her more about it.
That's terrible! I was sent to a registered dietician last pregnancy once I was diagnosed with GD. I didn't gain very much last pregnancy in comparison to my others. Try not to stress too much about what your OB thinks as far as how she personally feels about your gain and any judgment. Just focus on your health and the health of your baby. I don't feel constantly hungry but do have "bored" eating habit that I've been trying to kick. Ask for a referral. They didn't have me count calories but mainly watch my carb intake. I was told to limit carbs to 30-45g per meal and 15g for snacks. I should have stuck with it once I delivered but breast feeding made me so very hungry and I wasn't mindful of what I was eating. I think I binged after delivery because I couldn't have so many things during the pregnancy due to the diabetes. Good luck and I hope the next Dr you see is more understanding.0 -
Good luck! This baby was conceived while I had a Paragard IUD. My last we actively tried for and even though I was overweight I was in better shape overall.0
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you've had 4 what is your typical gain?
There really hasn't been a typical for me. I had twins the first time. I started slightly underweight at around 95 lbs. I spent from 23wks to 34 in the hospital on medication for contraction, a constant I.V, strict bed rest and had to do steroid injections. I weighed 189 the day I was released and delivered my twins the next day. My 2nd pregnancy I started at 116lb and got up to 168. I lost most of it and dropped down to about 125 and stayed there for several years until I started putting on weight around age 26. My last pregnancy I started around 170lbs and weighed 189 the day I gave birth. I dropped to 168 within 11 days but put 7lbs back on in about 2 weeks and it's stayed there.
Might be difficult, but you did say that your OB only wants you to gain 10lbs. I know you dont have it, but look into the diet for Gestational Diabetes. Not so much the carbohydrate control, but the portion control you need to follow. Wont hurt to avoid any caloric drink either like juice or soda (besides milk). It might help slow the gain. And if your doctor wants you to be in such a strict weight gain then I think he/she should give your a referral to see a dietitian.0 -
I wish there was a like button for people's responses. Thanks for the encouragement ladies.0
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you've had 4 what is your typical gain?
There really hasn't been a typical for me. I had twins the first time. I started slightly underweight at around 95 lbs. I spent from 23wks to 34 in the hospital on medication for contraction, a constant I.V, strict bed rest and had to do steroid injections. I weighed 189 the day I was released and delivered my twins the next day. My 2nd pregnancy I started at 116lb and got up to 168. I lost most of it and dropped down to about 125 and stayed there for several years until I started putting on weight around age 26. My last pregnancy I started around 170lbs and weighed 189 the day I gave birth. I dropped to 168 within 11 days but put 7lbs back on in about 2 weeks and it's stayed there.
Might be difficult, but you did say that your OB only wants you to gain 10lbs. I know you dont have it, but look into the diet for Gestational Diabetes. Not so much the carbohydrate control, but the portion control you need to follow. Wont hurt to avoid any caloric drink either like juice or soda (besides milk). It might help slow the gain. And if your doctor wants you to be in such a strict weight gain then I think he/she should give your a referral to see a dietitian.
Actually, I seen an RD last pregnancy and still have my information for the GD diet as I had it last time. I've only put on 2lbs so far and I will be 15wk tomorrow. My last pregnancy I didn't gain anything in the last trimester. Most of my gain last time was 2nd trimester. She put in a referral this time because I'm still nursing my 15 month old but I've not heard from the RD. I'm seen at a clinic on a military post so sometimes things take a while.0 -
you've had 4 what is your typical gain?
There really hasn't been a typical for me. I had twins the first time. I started slightly underweight at around 95 lbs. I spent from 23wks to 34 in the hospital on medication for contraction, a constant I.V, strict bed rest and had to do steroid injections. I weighed 189 the day I was released and delivered my twins the next day. My 2nd pregnancy I started at 116lb and got up to 168. I lost most of it and dropped down to about 125 and stayed there for several years until I started putting on weight around age 26. My last pregnancy I started around 170lbs and weighed 189 the day I gave birth. I dropped to 168 within 11 days but put 7lbs back on in about 2 weeks and it's stayed there.
Might be difficult, but you did say that your OB only wants you to gain 10lbs. I know you dont have it, but look into the diet for Gestational Diabetes. Not so much the carbohydrate control, but the portion control you need to follow. Wont hurt to avoid any caloric drink either like juice or soda (besides milk). It might help slow the gain. And if your doctor wants you to be in such a strict weight gain then I think he/she should give your a referral to see a dietitian.
Actually, I seen an RD last pregnancy and still have my information for the GD diet as I had it last time. I've only put on 2lbs so far and I will be 15wk tomorrow. My last pregnancy I didn't gain anything in the last trimester. Most of my gain last time was 2nd trimester. She put in a referral this time because I'm still nursing my 15 month old but I've not heard from the RD. I'm seen at a clinic on a military post so sometimes things take a while.
My gain seems to have all been 2nd trimester too. Besides now, although not officially diagnosed, I think I have GD and I've got damn sugar brain. One soda and it'll set me off on a sugar binge. I've gained 20 so far hoping to hold here.
Oh good, well hopefully you can get in to see her soon. In the mean time, I would think it wouldnt hurt to follow and just make sure youre getting adequate calcium, fluid, and protein to support the growing baby, your nursing baby, and yourself.
Wow, your body has got to do a pretty big job between the 3 of you!0 -
My suggestion to you is to set your calories at maintenance and to try to be as active as possible. There are many prenatal exercise DVDs and workouts that you can do. If you are interested in a good prenatal circuit training DVD i highly recommend ''Body by Trimester''' by Joy southworth. There are many types of exercise you can do, find what works for you. Wishing u a happy healthy pregnancy.0
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I only gained 8 lbs my whole last pregnancy, which was fine with my Dr. They told me that if you are eating healthy and taking your vitamins, the baby takes what he/she needs. I also walked a LOT - up to 4 miles at a time, 3-5 days per week until the day before I went in to give birth. Exercise really does help - you feel better and you sleep better!0
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My suggestion to you is to set your calories at maintenance and to try to be as active as possible. There are many prenatal exercise DVDs and workouts that you can do. If you are interested in a good prenatal circuit training DVD i highly recommend ''Body by Trimester''' by Joy southworth. There are many types of exercise you can do, find what works for you. Wishing u a happy healthy pregnancy.
Thanks for the video recommendation! I'll hit up the post library and see what they have in the way of DVD's as well. I walked quite a bit last pregnancy but since my other 3 were older it was a bit easier to get to the gym to walk in inclement weather. I live in Colorado and the winter time can be quite unpleasant for walking sometimes so an exercise video would be great. I currently have it set to maintenance and it says that would put me at eating a little over 1800 cals a day which gives me lots of room.0 -
I only gained 8 lbs my whole last pregnancy, which was fine with my Dr. They told me that if you are eating healthy and taking your vitamins, the baby takes what he/she needs. I also walked a LOT - up to 4 miles at a time, 3-5 days per week until the day before I went in to give birth. Exercise really does help - you feel better and you sleep better!
I walked a lot last time but I'm a bit more limited this time around with a toddler and the CO winter upon us. I think I'll take a previous poster's suggestion about a prenatal workout DVD. May I ask if you were overweight when you got pregnant or were you within a "healthy" range?0 -
My suggestion to you is to set your calories at maintenance and to try to be as active as possible. There are many prenatal exercise DVDs and workouts that you can do. If you are interested in a good prenatal circuit training DVD i highly recommend ''Body by Trimester''' by Joy southworth. There are many types of exercise you can do, find what works for you. Wishing u a happy healthy pregnancy.
Thanks for the video recommendation! I'll hit up the post library and see what they have in the way of DVD's as well. I walked quite a bit last pregnancy but since my other 3 were older it was a bit easier to get to the gym to walk in inclement weather. I live in Colorado and the winter time can be quite unpleasant for walking sometimes so an exercise video would be great. I currently have it set to maintenance and it says that would put me at eating a little over 1800 cals a day which gives me lots of room.
you're welcome! as a busy mom of 2 toddlers and a full time student i only have about 30 minutes to spare for a workout. I also walk a lot with my kids in the double stroller since i dont own a car. I can give u a link to the DVD on amazon. If u dont want to spend money, lindsay brin from momsintofitness.com has a few workout videos on youtube. And here is one from heidi powell (chris powell from TV show Extreme Weight loss, wife)
http://heidipowell.net/4276/pregnancy-workout-the-nasty-9s/
here is the link to the DVD i recommended
http://www.amazon.com/Pregnancy-Fitness-Dvd-Trimester-February/dp/B0079QDAFK/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1383704120&sr=8-1&keywords=body+by+trimester0 -
With my last pregnancy I only gained 7lbs and my doctor was fine with it, my daughter was born perfectly fine. I went to a nutritionist who mapped out a meal plan for me to follow during the pregnancy and I still follow it minus a few hundred calories. I left the hospital 20lbs lighter than when I first got pregnant. You can ask your doctor to a referral for a nutritionist it helped me a lot. During my 1st pregnancy I never gained a pound and left the hospital 11lbs lighter than when I first got pregnant with him and he is a healthy kid. He is 10 now and is 5'3 he didn't lack anything.0
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