Maintenace mode proactively lose pre-holiday?

Anyone else in maintenance considering proactively losing a few pounds before the holidays to prevent needing to lose a few afterward? Last year during the holidays, I was still trying to get into my maintenance groove and was actually 3-4 pounds below my target weight, so I actually needed to gain a few pounds. It was a great feeling to mostly maintain all of the habits that made me successful during weight loss, while enjoying the holiday extras like homemade cookies and hot chocolate without guilt or penalty.

While I've now adjusted successfully into maintenance mode and have been at my target for almost a year by maintaining the habits without necessarily obsessively logging, I'm wondering how to approach the holidays this year?

Do I start logging again to ensure the focus and counter balance every treat with extra exercise?
Do I treat it like last year with focus on portion control and enjoying a few extras knowing I may need to lose a pound or two in January?
Do I cut out/limit a few regular daily treats/afternoon snacks in order to lose a few before the holidays?
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Please share your plan! Especially, if you've been successful with the "everything in moderation/nothing is off limits" mindset as I have.

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  • RunBrew
    RunBrew Posts: 220 Member
    I plan to do all of that.
    I'll keep logging, be as accurate as possible, exercise as much as I can to keep some semblance of calorie balance, and recognize I may have a few lbs to work back off come January. If I can keep it to 3-ish pounds gained, I'll be fine with that. Thanksgiving remains my favorite holiday of the year, and I plan to enjoy it. Forthcoming gluttony is fully acknowledged and embraced. That one day only. I may not even log that day.

    Ironically, I've already unintentionally pre-cut...My goal weight was 148, but somehow I've ended up at more like 144 and maintaining pretty easily with 2000 cal/day.


    I still log religiously, but I'm actually excited for the Holiday season as a chance to test my new portion control and management skills learned over the last year. I fully expect to succeed and be around 145 come Jan 1.
  • drenergy
    drenergy Posts: 112 Member
    It was August when I hit maintenance mode a couple pounds shy of my ultimate goal. My doctor (who is admittedly conservative, but I love her and trust her opinion) told me that I didn't need to keep losing weight. I had lost almost 30 pounds since January 1 and was 131. I arbitrarily wanted to be at 129 just to be in the 120s (I'm about 5'6"), but I was really happy with the weight I was at anyway, so I didn't mind taking her advice to stay put.

    Cut to November and I'm up a few pounds. It turns out that I can lose weight, or I can gain weight, but I am not doing so well with finding balance to maintain! It sucks! With that in mind, I'm going to hit it hard for November and December and see if I can get back down just a couple pounds. And even if I just stay the same as I am now, that's fine too. But I need to do something other than gain!

    As long as it's not unhealthy for where you are now, I don't think it's a prob to preemptively come down a couple pounds in anticipation of splurging some for Tgives and Xmas. ;) Just don't go nuts like I do and eat everything! haha
  • kluvit
    kluvit Posts: 435 Member
    Thanks for the feedback. I'm 5'7"-ish and hover around 122, but anything between 120 and 124 is within my personal tolerance. 119 or 125 are triggers for me to adjust my calorie intake/burn to get back within the range.

    At my height no one except me notices a couple of pounds either way, so it's simply a matter of preference for me, but I think a combination approach is probably best, so I don't obsess about any of it.

    I think I'll start eating a little less for now, then work out more and enjoy the extra treats during the holidays, and re-focus at the start of the new year. With this approach, I should be able to maintain within my "acceptable range," and enjoy the holidays without guilt.


    Thanks for the support!
  • acogg
    acogg Posts: 1,870 Member
    Yes, this is exactly the reason I am back. I hope to lose enough over the next eight weeks to offset the gains I will make while visiting pecan pie and hushpuppy country for two weeks. YUM! Hubby says I should wait to see if I gain any, I laughed out loud.
  • Use MFP to 'look up' the calories and macro-nutrients of the holiday foods that will be the greatest temptations for you.
    "Forewarned is forearmed": you'll see how those foods will affect all the hard work you did to get your new body.
    Another strategy is to remember: "Nothing tastes as good as 'thin' feels.
    Best Wishes!
  • ShannonMpls
    ShannonMpls Posts: 1,936 Member
    How I've been maintaining is logging food at a small deficit most of the time, then eating what I like the rest of the time. I've done this for more than a year and stuck within my goal range almost without exception. It works really well. It also means I'm unlikely to actually gain any weight during the holidays. There really are only 4-5 days total in November-December that I expect to go well over maintenance: Thanksgiving, my work party, Christmas Eve and Day, and maybe New Years Eve. Four days out of 60!

    I can easily decline the inevitable christmas cookies on a random day at work, the candy that crops up everywhere, and the leftovers if I know I can eat whatever I want on the actual holiday. Building in a bit of a deficit the rest of the time gives me a nice cushion to work with :)
  • ShannonMpls
    ShannonMpls Posts: 1,936 Member
    "Forewarned is forearmed": you'll see how those foods will affect all the hard work you did to get your new body.
    Another strategy is to remember: "Nothing tastes as good as 'thin' feels.

    First of all, it's totally possible to indulge in amazing foods without undoing hard work. I do it all the time, and my "new" body actually looks better than it did when I hit my goal weight. Moderation for me is key; deprivation of foods I love wouldn't work out.

    Second, I've gotta disagree that nothing tastes as good as thin feels. Some food tastes pretty damn amazing. There's nothing wrong with loving food; it's not shameful to think it tastes wonderful. Sayings like "nothing tastes as good as thin feels" are part of the reason I waited to so long to lose weight; I was not willing to give up one of life's pleasures, good food and drink.

    How happy I was to learn that I didn't have to :)

    If it works for you, that's awesome. But it doesn't work for everyone :)
  • kluvit
    kluvit Posts: 435 Member
    "Forewarned is forearmed": you'll see how those foods will affect all the hard work you did to get your new body.
    Another strategy is to remember: "Nothing tastes as good as 'thin' feels.

    First of all, it's totally possible to indulge in amazing foods without undoing hard work. I do it all the time, and my "new" body actually looks better than it did when I hit my goal weight. Moderation for me is key; deprivation of foods I love wouldn't work out.

    Second, I've gotta disagree that nothing tastes as good as thin feels. Some food tastes pretty damn amazing. There's nothing wrong with loving food; it's not shameful to think it tastes wonderful. Sayings like "nothing tastes as good as thin feels" are part of the reason I waited to so long to lose weight; I was not willing to give up one of life's pleasures, good food and drink.

    How happy I was to learn that I didn't have to :)

    If it works for you, that's awesome. But it doesn't work for everyone :)

    Totally agree! "Forewarned is forearmed" is a good idea, so that I can make informed choices based on what I'll enjoy the most, but depriving myself does not work long term. I enjoy delicious food on a daily basis and look forward to my ice cream cone after dinner every night. I've managed to maintain thin for about 18 months BECAUSE I enjoy both being thin and the foods I love, but I am willing to work for them if neecessary. Nothing motivates me to get up at 4am to run 4-5 miles like a lunch date at my favorite Mexican Food restaurant.

    I just need to remind myself that passing on random food at the office will allow me to have my favorites later.

    One of my favorite quotes from a friend, "I'll never eat a bad french fry again." :smile: She realized that enjoying the foods she loved was well worth it to her, but she stopped eating the cold, soggy, greasy not so enjoyable ones that were just empty calories.
  • ShannonMpls
    ShannonMpls Posts: 1,936 Member
    One of my favorite quotes from a friend, "I'll never eat a bad french fry again." :smile: She realized that enjoying the foods she loved was well worth it to her, but she stopped eating the cold, soggy, greasy not so enjoyable ones that were just empty calories.

    YES!!! That was such an important lesson for me to learn.

    Some foods are worth it. When a coworker brings in a heavenly homemade dessert or donuts from the best bakery in town? Absolutely worth the splurge.

    Supermarket cake with frosting made from shortening? Donuts from the gas station? Absolutely not worth it.

    I used to eat crap because it was there. Now I hold off until something that's absolutely worth the calories comes along :)

    I swear, a prix fixe multi-course meal from a chef-driven, four-star restaurant paired with microbrews (which I love far more than wine)? The pleasure that brings is about comparable to the pleasure I get from running a longer distance, fitting into smaller clothes, weighing in at a healthy weight for my doctor's appointment for the first time in more than a decade.

    I am so glad I learned that these can all co-exist :)

    PS: sorry for derailing your thread!
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I'm not too worried...I just started training last week for a 1/2 marathon coming up in 20 weeks and I also lift like a boss. I might possibly put on a couple pounds over the holidays but it will be very little considering my training and will come right off post holidays as that when my runs start getting much longer. Also, that's one of the awesome things about lifting...if I end up at a small surplus over the holidays, it's not that big of a deal...good for my muscles. I'm just going to enjoy myself.
  • WinoGelato
    WinoGelato Posts: 13,454 Member
    I have been trying to figure out a similar plan for the next couple of months. I have been setting smaller intermediate goals since beginning in February last year, 10 lbs at a time, and I am at my second goal weight now of 130, having lost 20 lbs. I'm within normal range, and could probably stop here but I wanted to lose another 5 or so lbs just to give myself a buffer.

    I also (somewhat unintentionally) switched to maintenance mode in September/October because there was a lot going on and I was a little less active, thus I gained and re-lost the same couple of pounds. What that did help me with though was figuring out really what my TDEE is and where my mainenance calories are. So now I feel pretty well informed going into the next 8 weeks of where I need to be on average to either minimize gains, stay flat, or lose a couple of pounds before all the holiday nonsense begins.

    I also agree that as far as overeating goes, the days where this will happen really are limited to just a few days with parties and family gatherings. For me though, the challenge will be that life in general is busier, it is harder to fit in exercise, it is colder which makes getting in some walks during lunch breaks at work more difficult - so paying attention to the calories consumed on the regular days is going to be more important since there may be less exercise to offset the excess.

    What I decided to do was drop my daily goal by 100 calories (not much at all) to 1600 in order to keep the day to day calories down and afford a few hundred extra on the special occasions on the weekends.
  • ganzelly
    ganzelly Posts: 302 Member
    Last year I took off thanksgiving weekend, then went away for work for a week and didn't log, The day after New Years I was up 8 lbs (some of that was the single New years eve and day splurge) but still, I wasn't happy with that! This year I plan to log everything and there will definitely be days that I am over, and even way over. Last year I also went up to maintainence calories right before the holidays because I was ready to stop losing weight. That was a mistake. For the past year (after the holidays) I am actually down about 250 cals from maintaince, eat most of my exercise calories back but I am still maintaining. This is because I tend to fall off the wagon enough weekends that it all evens out. I don't plan to fall off the wagon but I do. Maybe not the healthiest strategy but it seems to work for me!
  • Seesawboomerang
    Seesawboomerang Posts: 296 Member
    I don't intend to overdo it throughout the holiday season, but I am watching my weight/measurements as winter approaches. It's not so much that I feel I'm likely to gorge on empty calories, more that I tend to crave more fuel in colder weather.

    I'm not intending to lose any in anticipation of predictable gains. Hopefully I'll just avoid any gains in the first instance.
  • JulieAnn72
    JulieAnn72 Posts: 795 Member
    I've been considering losing a few pounds before the holidays hit. On the other hand, I only see myself overindulging on Thanksgiving day, Christmas eve and day, my book club dinner in December, and New Year's Eve. So I am thinking that overindulging on five days over the next two months isn't going to have a huge effect on me. So maybe it's not worth it to lose more weight ahead of time.
  • CJ_Holmes
    CJ_Holmes Posts: 759 Member
    My goal was to maintain from October-January before going for the last few pounds. I overshot my maintenance calories big time and bounced back up to my "red alert" weight and am now back in deficit to get to the bottom of my maintenance window before the holidays.

    I'm planing to log everything, except Thanksgiving. My brother and I traditionally cook, eat, and drink wine for two days straight and there's no way I'm going to keep track. I will probably just "quick add" 4000 calories each day so I can have a realistic view of my weekly averages.
  • pkw58
    pkw58 Posts: 2,038 Member
    Yup, staying at the low end of my weight range and upping activity as much as possible... I get an early warning on the holidays because my birthday is in early October.

    I am also asking my family to do fun things that are more movement and less sitting/eating. pray for us!
  • slfordstthomas
    slfordstthomas Posts: 23 Member
    Wow! There are so many great tips in this thread! I don't have too many unique ideas to contibute, but I am definitely on board with planning more active outings with family and friends over the holidays. So many celebrations this time of year are centered around food and it's nice to have a wider range of activities in your calendar that don't revolve around the dinner table.

    Good luck to everyone planning to lose a little extra or maintain!
  • CJ_Holmes
    CJ_Holmes Posts: 759 Member
    Yup, staying at the low end of my weight range and upping activity as much as possible... I get an early warning on the holidays because my birthday is in early October.

    I am also asking my family to do fun things that are more movement and less sitting/eating. pray for us!

    A lot of towns have "Turkey Trot" 5Ks the morning of Thanksgiving. I'm in Sacramento, and we have a "Run to Feed the Hungry" which raises money for the food pantry. A great way to start the day!
  • kluvit
    kluvit Posts: 435 Member
    A lot of towns have "Turkey Trot" 5Ks the morning of Thanksgiving. I'm in Sacramento, and we have a "Run to Feed the Hungry" which raises money for the food pantry. A great way to start the day!
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    Great idea! Amping up the activity level will certainly help. I'm not sure that I'll sign up for any official races, but my plan is that for every day that I'm off from work, I will work out at least an hour which equates to a 5k run PLUS strength training video or a 10k run. On the work days, my goal is 1/2 hour 5k run OR DVD workout such as T25, Power 90, Hip Hop Abs, etc.
  • ChrisS30V
    ChrisS30V Posts: 157 Member
    Nope, don't plan on losing any weight before the holidays. I do intend to stick to my running and weight lifting. In fact, since I am taking lifting more seriously at the moment, I'll probably give myself a 5-10 lb window to play with. Not saying that I'll use that as an excuse to pig out, but if I'm busting my tail in the weight room and upping the mileage I'm running, then I don't see how I little added weight in the form of muscle could be a bad thing.

    Although, after what's happened to me in the past (20+ lbs gained from October to February), I will be paying VERY close attention to the scale and body measurements so that any weight gain will be well-controlled and accounted for.