Bridal Shower Help!

Healthier_Me
Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
edited September 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
Ok, some of you know that I'm going to be the Matron of Honor in my sister in-laws wedding in January next year. Well, most of the bridal party including the bride to-be, groom to-be & his family live in Philly. I'm in Upstate NY. Everyone is on my *kitten* about planning one which is in about 2 months.


I've never planned one so... HELP!!!!
What can or should I do???
Game ideas?
Food?
Decor?

Everyone is counting on me to do a lot but it's almost impossible when I'm over here and they're over there.

~Joanna:flowerforyou:

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  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    Ok, some of you know that I'm going to be the Matron of Honor in my sister in-laws wedding in January next year. Well, most of the bridal party including the bride to-be, groom to-be & his family live in Philly. I'm in Upstate NY. Everyone is on my *kitten* about planning one which is in about 2 months.


    I've never planned one so... HELP!!!!
    What can or should I do???
    Game ideas?
    Food?
    Decor?

    Everyone is counting on me to do a lot but it's almost impossible when I'm over here and they're over there.

    ~Joanna:flowerforyou:
  • kerrilucko
    kerrilucko Posts: 3,852 Member
    pick a colour and go with it, I think its so cute when all the food and drinks have a colour theme :laugh:
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    pick a colour and go with it, I think its so cute when all the food and drinks have a colour theme :laugh:
    Good idea!!
    The wedding colors are champagne and red.

    Thanks kerri!
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    Ok, some of you know that I'm going to be the Matron of Honor in my sister in-laws wedding in January next year. Well, most of the bridal party including the bride to-be, groom to-be & his family live in Philly. I'm in Upstate NY. Everyone is on my *kitten* about planning one which is in about 2 months.


    I've never planned one so... HELP!!!!
    What can or should I do???
    Game ideas?
    Food?
    Decor?

    Everyone is counting on me to do a lot but it's almost impossible when I'm over here and they're over there.

    ~Joanna:flowerforyou:

    Ask your SIL if she even wants party games at her shower. I just wanted booze (Surprise!!) and good friends. :wink: I'm not a game person....at all. :embarassed:
  • LokiFae
    LokiFae Posts: 774 Member
    Here's a good website I used for some reference for my sister's bridal shower.

    http://www.bridalshower.com/
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    Ok, some of you know that I'm going to be the Matron of Honor in my sister in-laws wedding in January next year. Well, most of the bridal party including the bride to-be, groom to-be & his family live in Philly. I'm in Upstate NY. Everyone is on my *kitten* about planning one which is in about 2 months.


    I've never planned one so... HELP!!!!
    What can or should I do???
    Game ideas?
    Food?
    Decor?

    Everyone is counting on me to do a lot but it's almost impossible when I'm over here and they're over there.

    ~Joanna:flowerforyou:

    Ask your SIL if she even wants party games at her shower. I just wanted booze (Surprise!!) and good friends. :wink: I'm not a game person....at all. :embarassed:
    It's a surprise shower so that's a no-can-do:ohwell:
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    Here's a good website I used for some reference for my sister's bridal shower.

    http://www.bridalshower.com/
    I already went there and got nothing... *sigh*
    I want out of this wedding!!!:sad:
  • time2wrk
    time2wrk Posts: 773 Member
    A few games -

    1) Count the M&Ms - and you can order M&Ms on the website that say Congrats or something personalized in the wedding colors. Put them in a jar (you have to count them!) and have all the gals write down their guesses. The person who comes closest gets to keep the jar of candy.

    2) No crossing your legs! Everyone gets a pink bow to wear. If you catch that person crossing your legs, you get to take their bow. The person with the most bows at the end of the evening wins a prize.

    Those are 2 that can be done while everyone is socializing, so it doesn't take away from conversation, but they are still fun. :smile:
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    A few games -

    1) Count the M&Ms - and you can order M&Ms on the website that say Congrats or something personalized in the wedding colors. Put them in a jar (you have to count them!) and have all the gals write down their guesses. The person who comes closest gets to keep the jar of candy.

    2) No crossing your legs! Everyone gets a pink bow to wear. If you catch that person crossing your legs, you get to take their bow. The person with the most bows at the end of the evening wins a prize.

    Those are 2 that can be done while everyone is socializing, so it doesn't take away from conversation, but they are still fun. :smile:
    I love it!!!!
    Thank you!!!!!

    Ok, now I'm getting a teensy excited:indifferent:
  • time2wrk
    time2wrk Posts: 773 Member
    It will be fun! It is always a little nerve-wracking to be the one who has to plan stuff, but you will be fine and have fun. :smile: Do you have folks who can help you out with any of it or are they all too far away?
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    It will be fun! It is always a little nerve-wracking to be the one who has to plan stuff, but you will be fine and have fun. :smile: Do you have folks who can help you out with any of it or are they all too far away?
    I have the other girls numbers but I don't know them but I'm sure they'll be getting a phone call or 2 from me. My MIL (brides mom) will be helping out.
  • kerrilucko
    kerrilucko Posts: 3,852 Member
    what about the toilet paper wedding gown? Everyone gets into pairs except the bride, she's the judge. One teammate is the model and the other has to design a wedding gown on her using only toilet paper and tape. You could time it. Then the bride judges and the winners get a prize. :flowerforyou:
  • JMAMA
    JMAMA Posts: 298 Member
    This is a crazy game that was played at my bridal shower that everyone loved and still remembers to this day! (participants must have a good sense of humor!!!) The bride is blind folded and then the groom and two other guys come in with their pant leg rolled up and no shoes or socks. The bride feels each of the guys legs and feet and tries to guess which one is her fiance's. It is hilarious, plus if done at the end of the shower, it makes it a good time for guests to meet the groom, and it is a huge ice breaker! I think themed showers are great too. Spa/pamper parties, seasonal decor parties-that way the bride receives gifts that go along with whatever theme, and then the party favors, food, decor can go along with the theme too. Good luck, I love the idea of the surprise shower!
  • Phoenix_Rising
    Phoenix_Rising Posts: 11,417 Member
    Here are a few games I'm looking at for a shower I'm executing in a couple weeks...

    What the Bride Says

    As the bride opens each gift, have someone write down what she says (without her knowing). After all the gifts are opened, have the person read her comments back. These are the bride's words to describe her wedding night. (Make sure your guests can handle this one!)
    How to play: While the bride opens her gifts, a bridesmaid secretly takes note of the bride's exclamations. For example, "Oooohh it's so beautiful!" or "You'll have to show me how this works, okay?" When all the gifts have been opened, the mischievous maid will come forward and read the bride's comments to the group as the (sexy) things she'll be shouting out on her wedding night. ______________________________________________________________________

    Clothespin Game

    As each guest arrives, clip a clothespin to her clothing. If someone hears another person saying the word "bride", she gets to take her clothespin. The player with the most "pins" at the end of the shower, gets a prize.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    What is the Bride Wearing?

    Let the bride know ahead of time. After everyone has visited for a while, the bride quietly leaves the room and listens from a spot where the guests cannot see her. Then ask the guests about what she is wearing. Is her hair up or down? Color of shoes? Outfit color? Ask as many questions as you can think of...then start asking about the bride's favorite color, TV show, food. Go around the room taking turns answering. Everyone who has not missed an answer at the end wins a prize.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Happy Wishes

    Provide envelopes and index cards. Have the guests write an event, holiday, or moment in the couple's life together. On the index card, write a happy thought or useful piece of advice. On the outside of the envelope, write the occasion that the bride should open the note. Examples might be wedding night, first anniversary, first child, first fight, first house.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Word Scramble
    Award the prize to the person with the most right answers.


    Ohnomoney Honeymoon
    Agrimaer Marriage
    Dribal Bridal
    Camphange Champagne
    Wong Gown
    Cactetifier Certificate
    Uncetannmeno Announcement
    Styhailer Hairstyle
    Beblubs Bubbles
    Rocitman Romantic
    Subhand Husband
    Fitg ksbeast Gift Baskets
    Ridmedbais Bridesmaid
    Lernate Eternal
    Scragi Cigars
    Slomi Limos
    Gerthproopha Photographer
    Werjely Jewelry
    Wingded Wedding
    Pechal Chapel
    __________________________________________________________________

    Purse Raid

    How to play: This classic shower game requires that every guest bring her purse to the shower (a given). Before guests arrive, the maid of honor creates a list of objects that are likely to be found in guests' purses. Items can be banal (lipstick, pill box, mints, video store card) or bawdy (used tissue, underwear, a condom), but they should start out ordinary and become increasingly more obscure. At the shower, the maid of honor calls out the items on the list and the first guest to produce each object wins a small prize.
    Pointers: To get more mileage out of the game, you might want to play in installments, calling out objects at different points throughout the shower.
    Instructions v2: Before the shower the hostess draws up a long list of items which you would expect to find in a woman's purse and allocates each item with a number of points from one to twenty, depending on how unusual the item would be, ranging say for one point for a comb to three points for a mirror and five points for nail clippers. Other items could be a driver's license, lipstick, key ring with more than five keys on, a key ring with more than ten keys on, more than five credit cards, more than ten credit cards etc.
    If there are any items which are not on the list, or anything particularly unusual the bride and hostess could act as the judges to award a special points award.
    A variation on this game could be to see who has the most items in their purse, or who has the heaviest purse.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Two Truths & a Lie
    Great for: Breaking the ice

    How to play: Each guest must introduce herself and then tell the group three things about herself -- two are true, one is a lie. Then the remaining guests must each guess which statement was false. When each guest has placed her bet, the "liar" must confess to her lie. The truths are often way wackier than the made-up lies -- which creates opportunities for story swapping (and is generally hilarious).

    Pointers: Shy guests needn't freeze with indecision when it's their turn. Advise them to theme the three statements. For example, "My first car was a navy Saab, I've been in five car accidents, and I got my driver's license when I was 26." In certain circles, this good-natured game can take a sexy turn. If you think this won't be appropriate, be sure to lay down some ground rules beforehand.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Fold Over
    Great for: Entertaining guests while the bride opens her gifts

    How to play: On the first line of a long sheet of paper, write a sentence referring to the bride as if you were beginning a poem (example: "Tess and Toby met at the office"). Attach the paper to a clipboard and pass it to a guest, instructing her to compose a line right below the first, continuing the verse ("She was fair and he was swarthy"). This guest folds the paper so that only the newest line shows, and passes the clipboard to the next guest, and so on. When the paper has circulated to every guest, the maid of honor should retrieve the paper, unfold it, and read the zany, haphazard poem to the bride when she has finished gift-opening.

    Pointers: The lines of the poem needn't rhyme. Also, try to theme the game around the bride and her upcoming marriage (but don't let on to the bride). When you read the poem aloud you can say something like, "Tess, we wrote a poem about you and Toby -- we think it really captures the true story of your love."
    ______________________________________________________________________
  • KrisKabob
    KrisKabob Posts: 1,250 Member
    Yeah, everything that Lauryn said - you go girl!!! :drinker:
  • runawaybride
    runawaybride Posts: 400 Member
    I just threw a Bridal shower the other week. The bride wanted to have it at a Mexican restaurant so we had it in a room upstairs at one.

    I planned everything around it. Like the games were somehow related but yet traditional.....we played the pins/rice game and the spice game. Rice and spices have to do with both!!! Then the door prize game that everyone saw walking in was Guess how many beans are in the jar!! So everything from the games to the colors was tied in to a little bridal tradition plus Mexican themed. I also made her a decorated pink sombrero that I put a veil on and decorated that she wore through out the shower.

    <
    sombrero

    So I think themed bridal showers are a blast and creative!!!!!! Just have fun with it!!!!! :drinker:
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    Here are a few games I'm looking at for a shower I'm executing in a couple weeks...

    What the Bride Says

    As the bride opens each gift, have someone write down what she says (without her knowing). After all the gifts are opened, have the person read her comments back. These are the bride's words to describe her wedding night. (Make sure your guests can handle this one!)
    How to play: While the bride opens her gifts, a bridesmaid secretly takes note of the bride's exclamations. For example, "Oooohh it's so beautiful!" or "You'll have to show me how this works, okay?" When all the gifts have been opened, the mischievous maid will come forward and read the bride's comments to the group as the (sexy) things she'll be shouting out on her wedding night. ______________________________________________________________________

    Clothespin Game

    As each guest arrives, clip a clothespin to her clothing. If someone hears another person saying the word "bride", she gets to take her clothespin. The player with the most "pins" at the end of the shower, gets a prize.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    What is the Bride Wearing?

    Let the bride know ahead of time. After everyone has visited for a while, the bride quietly leaves the room and listens from a spot where the guests cannot see her. Then ask the guests about what she is wearing. Is her hair up or down? Color of shoes? Outfit color? Ask as many questions as you can think of...then start asking about the bride's favorite color, TV show, food. Go around the room taking turns answering. Everyone who has not missed an answer at the end wins a prize.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Happy Wishes

    Provide envelopes and index cards. Have the guests write an event, holiday, or moment in the couple's life together. On the index card, write a happy thought or useful piece of advice. On the outside of the envelope, write the occasion that the bride should open the note. Examples might be wedding night, first anniversary, first child, first fight, first house.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Word Scramble
    Award the prize to the person with the most right answers.


    Ohnomoney Honeymoon
    Agrimaer Marriage
    Dribal Bridal
    Camphange Champagne
    Wong Gown
    Cactetifier Certificate
    Uncetannmeno Announcement
    Styhailer Hairstyle
    Beblubs Bubbles
    Rocitman Romantic
    Subhand Husband
    Fitg ksbeast Gift Baskets
    Ridmedbais Bridesmaid
    Lernate Eternal
    Scragi Cigars
    Slomi Limos
    Gerthproopha Photographer
    Werjely Jewelry
    Wingded Wedding
    Pechal Chapel
    __________________________________________________________________

    Purse Raid

    How to play: This classic shower game requires that every guest bring her purse to the shower (a given). Before guests arrive, the maid of honor creates a list of objects that are likely to be found in guests' purses. Items can be banal (lipstick, pill box, mints, video store card) or bawdy (used tissue, underwear, a condom), but they should start out ordinary and become increasingly more obscure. At the shower, the maid of honor calls out the items on the list and the first guest to produce each object wins a small prize.
    Pointers: To get more mileage out of the game, you might want to play in installments, calling out objects at different points throughout the shower.
    Instructions v2: Before the shower the hostess draws up a long list of items which you would expect to find in a woman's purse and allocates each item with a number of points from one to twenty, depending on how unusual the item would be, ranging say for one point for a comb to three points for a mirror and five points for nail clippers. Other items could be a driver's license, lipstick, key ring with more than five keys on, a key ring with more than ten keys on, more than five credit cards, more than ten credit cards etc.
    If there are any items which are not on the list, or anything particularly unusual the bride and hostess could act as the judges to award a special points award.
    A variation on this game could be to see who has the most items in their purse, or who has the heaviest purse.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Two Truths & a Lie
    Great for: Breaking the ice

    How to play: Each guest must introduce herself and then tell the group three things about herself -- two are true, one is a lie. Then the remaining guests must each guess which statement was false. When each guest has placed her bet, the "liar" must confess to her lie. The truths are often way wackier than the made-up lies -- which creates opportunities for story swapping (and is generally hilarious).

    Pointers: Shy guests needn't freeze with indecision when it's their turn. Advise them to theme the three statements. For example, "My first car was a navy Saab, I've been in five car accidents, and I got my driver's license when I was 26." In certain circles, this good-natured game can take a sexy turn. If you think this won't be appropriate, be sure to lay down some ground rules beforehand.
    ______________________________________________________________________

    Fold Over
    Great for: Entertaining guests while the bride opens her gifts

    How to play: On the first line of a long sheet of paper, write a sentence referring to the bride as if you were beginning a poem (example: "Tess and Toby met at the office"). Attach the paper to a clipboard and pass it to a guest, instructing her to compose a line right below the first, continuing the verse ("She was fair and he was swarthy"). This guest folds the paper so that only the newest line shows, and passes the clipboard to the next guest, and so on. When the paper has circulated to every guest, the maid of honor should retrieve the paper, unfold it, and read the zany, haphazard poem to the bride when she has finished gift-opening.

    Pointers: The lines of the poem needn't rhyme. Also, try to theme the game around the bride and her upcoming marriage (but don't let on to the bride). When you read the poem aloud you can say something like, "Tess, we wrote a poem about you and Toby -- we think it really captures the true story of your love."
    ______________________________________________________________________
    Thanks for these.
    I already seen these on a website lastnight and have it saved:wink:
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    I just threw a Bridal shower the other week. The bride wanted to have it at a Mexican restaurant so we had it in a room upstairs at one.

    I planned everything around it. Like the games were somehow related but yet traditional.....we played the pins/rice game and the spice game. Rice and spices have to do with both!!! Then the door prize game that everyone saw walking in was Guess how many beans are in the jar!! So everything from the games to the colors was tied in to a little bridal tradition plus Mexican themed. I also made her a decorated pink sombrero that I put a veil on and decorated that she wore through out the shower.

    <
    sombrero

    So I think themed bridal showers are a blast and creative!!!!!! Just have fun with it!!!!! :drinker:
    I want to do a theme shower but I have to ask around to see what she's really into and I can go from there. I'm going to buy personalized M&M's to do the "Guess how many M&M's are in the jar" game.

    We'll do the no crossing legs game - No crossing your legs!
    Everyone gets a pink bow to wear.
    If you catch that person crossing your legs, you get to take their bow.
    The person with the most bows at the end of the evening wins a prize.

    The bridal gown TP game ofcourse.

    Bridal Bingo

    Pass the balloon game

    I'll have everyone sign a guestbook.

    Games are not the problem.
    I'm worrying about the food and drinks even though my MIL is going to be in charge of that the most but I want it to be a great one since I can't be there for the engagement party.
  • runawaybride
    runawaybride Posts: 400 Member
    Just remember to not play too many games because some of the people cannot stay that long and if you plan too many everything will be hard to fit in before people have to leave. I would keep it to three or two and your guess the M&M one!!!! I did the two and the guess game and still was crunched for time because people only expect to be there at most 2 hours I think.

    Is it women and men attending or just women?
  • runawaybride
    runawaybride Posts: 400 Member
    Since the colors are champagne and red ...do a Bubbly party ....either mock champagne bottles with red ribbon around them, filled with christmas lights for the centerpieces and maybe champagne color tableclothes.

    Buy cheap champagne glasses for the drinks. and serve the food on red dishes.

    just some ideas
  • I just had a bridal shower this past Sunday and my bridesmaid threw a Hawaiian theme shower (since we're Honeymooning in Hawaii). They had it at my house and kicked me out while they cooked and decorated...no biggy though because that was a great excuse to go get my nails done! They had the backyard all done up with green and yellow streamers, themed plates and cups, they put goldfish and seashells in our fountain and quite a few paper decorations. We had pulled pork sandwiches on Hawaiian sweet rolls, white rice, fruit, veggies, spinach dip, a cupcake cake, sangria, this great sherbert, bubbly water, lemonade mix that my Mom made and water.

    We played a hula hoop game...who could do it the longest and we had another game lined up but didn't play it. Everyone was pretty content with chatting and snacking and that vibe was pretty steady and we didn't want to break it up to play a game. The person who came in the most creative outfit went home with a gift as well as the hula hoop winner (much to my surprise there was a tie between my friend and my future-mother-in-law!!)

    My bridesmaid had a pillow that looked like a face and was wearing a veil and played "Here Comes the Bride" that everyone signed. For the favors she gave out scented seahorse, seashell and starfish soaps tied in organza bags.

    Overall, a great time with lots of fun memories and all my favorite people!

    The shower was to start at 1 but there was a bit of traffic so most people arrived around 1:30 and then most left around 4:30.
  • Johanna,

    email me at tmarshall14.com and I will send you some games to play on paper that may interest you.
    I have been to a few bridal parties and they are always pretty boring until the late night entertainment arrives.

    I have always wanted to have pink panther themed bridal party. Everything pink and black. Just celebrating my and my femininity before sharing myself and my life with someone else. I can just picture and pick and black polka dot cake favors, pink feather boas for the guest. They should love that and can take it home for there own enjoyment.

    Come up with a theme represented of the bride and go from there. Don't worry about who will show up and how many will show. Just plan to have your sister in law have a great time being with her friends.
  • Fit2btied
    Fit2btied Posts: 486
    Last year, I served chicken wraps(have to be made the day before, but easy-peasy) and pinwheels. You could use tomato tortillas for the red color on the tray! Some I sliced in half and wrapped in wax paper, some I sliced into pinwheels for light bites. I served them with a berry salad and a veggie pasta salad. It was summer, so I served unsweet iced tea and peach iced tea, sweeteners on the side. If you don't want to prepare the food yourself, your local wrap shop can do it for you...but beware, they have more calories! Good luck with your planning! It will a great hit, I'm sure!
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    I am not going to do all of those games.. there is no way. I was just listing all the ones that I've come across. Definitely the TP bridal gown game, M&M's in a jar and I'll choose 1 other.

    My MIL will call me tonight and we will discuss everything else.
    I'm just trying to go with the flow a bit. I'll call the bridesmaids and tell them what I've put together and maybe they can pitch in somehow.

    I was thinking maybe my MIL and I can take care of the big stuff like the main course, decorations, games and everyone else can bring in a little something... maybe their fave dessert, snack or drinks and write down the recipe for the bride to-be.

    If I don't go with a theme, I'll go with the wedding color scheme.
  • Fit2btied
    Fit2btied Posts: 486
    Idea...If you have the guests bring a recipe with them, you might specify that it be index card sized. Then you could provide a small photo album to insert them into, maybe even a photo of the person on one side, the recipe on the other type thing.
  • kjllose
    kjllose Posts: 948 Member
    If you want them to bring a recipe when they come, you could put the index card in with the invite if it fits and then she would have all the same cards, not different sizes and you could pick out a nice recipe card so they all match. You could have the recipe box set up next to the cake and people could just put them in as they arrive. We have done the same thing with an album because the recipes are then behind plastic and won't get smudged when cooking. It might be a little more expensive to do the album but it is worth it for the bride later.
  • Healthier_Me
    Healthier_Me Posts: 5,600 Member
    The bridal shower invites have been sent out already by a bridesmaid so I will ask everyone to write their fave recipe on index cards and I will put them in a nice album for her.
  • hmmmm
    hmmmm Posts: 607 Member
    AIt is a really nice gesture to buy thank you cards and envelopes for the bride and put out the envelopes on the tables so every one can write down their own address on the envelopes. This saves her time by not having to do that on top of planning her wedding.
    Also make sure you have a paper plate and scotch tape on hand to make her bridal hat from all the bows and ribbons on the presents
    Then you have to think of party favors and prizes for the games. The last one I was at gave magnets that were really cute. The party prizes consisted of jams, sauces, candles and notepads. All wrapped cutely with raffia? Paper. You give so many great ideas here so I am sure you will come up with fabulous ideas!
  • EllaBella
    EllaBella Posts: 140
    Lucky me when I got married 17 years ago, my maid of honor had someone weld a chain onto a bowling ball and then had a handcuff on the end of my chain. I then had to wear the "Ball-n-Chain" around at a street dance that happened to be at the same time as my party. I can admit now that it was a clever idea, however, it would have been better had it happened to someone else!!:laugh: Just kidding, it was a blast!
  • muskratface
    muskratface Posts: 32 Member
    A few games -

    1) Count the M&Ms - and you can order M&Ms on the website that say Congrats or something personalized in the wedding colors. Put them in a jar (you have to count them!) and have all the gals write down their guesses. The person who comes closest gets to keep the jar of candy.

    2) No crossing your legs! Everyone gets a pink bow to wear. If you catch that person crossing your legs, you get to take their bow. The person with the most bows at the end of the evening wins a prize.

    Those are 2 that can be done while everyone is socializing, so it doesn't take away from conversation, but they are still fun. :smile:

    I played a game pretty similar to this, except the rules were that no one was allowed to say the bride or groom's name in conversation, they had to refer them as "Bride" and "Groom". Oh, and we had little bells strung on ribbon to wear around our necks. It gets fun when you steal a whole load of bells from one person and then turn around and get 'em snatched away!
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