My ex wants to make me jelaous - HELP!
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Guys are somewhat shallow...compliments are usually a subterfuge for "How YOU doin'?"
Traitor... you're not supposed to tell them!!0 -
I need a pic of you and your best friend.. that would help with answering this question .0
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I need a pic of you and your best friend.. that would help with answering this question .
Creepy post, too little, too late.
Whaa whaaaa0 -
Easily offended people are my fave.0
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Just in case you're still reading this...it sounds like wounded pride to me. You "respected his decision" and have moved on. He probably wanted to see you beg for him to come back and fawn all over him in an attempt to get him interested in you again. I think he's doing this to get your attention and get you competing with your best friend for him.
1) If she's a real friend, she'll tell him to take a long walk off a short cliff
2) You're DEFINITELY better off without this dude. Sounds like he's showing his true colors.0 -
Uhm, you should have broken ties with him right then and there.
That's too much for one person to handle. Remove him from everything, avoid him. You don't need that mess in your life.
Yep quit her whole life because a man broke up with her. He is trying to break her off from the group because he is uncomfortable with her. The comments and actions, he just wants her to leave everything so he doesn't have to start over with friends. Well bump that.0 -
.. she deactivated?
LOOKS LIKE IT SMH ... I didn't think this post was harsh or anything ... oh well
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.. she deactivated?
LOOKS LIKE IT SMH ... I didn't think this post was harsh or anything ... oh well
Meanie!0 -
.. she deactivated?
LOOKS LIKE IT SMH ... I didn't think this post was harsh or anything ... oh well
Meanie!
I know it was all your fault K.0 -
he offers her to pick her up to take her to college and stuff like that...
Wha? Sorry but I don't even think you're college age. Who says that..."take her to college"?
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.. she deactivated?
son of a biscuit.
i hate giving advice to no one.
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Why do you even give a *kitten* if it is your EX?
Break ups are rough and she explicitly said that it was his decision, not hers. Plus, it's her best friend. It would bother me, too, but even if it wouldn't bother you, there's no reason to be unkind.
I have to agree with many of the other posters, OP. It's difficult, but cutting all ties is really the only way you can truly move forward without letting him pull you down. It's hard if you have mutual friends, but I'm sure they will understand if you want to put a little distance between yourself and him. If I was you, I'd also talk to my friend about the situation just to let her know how I was feeling and how uncomfortable it made me (it sounds like she's not doing anything to encourage the flirting, but if she knows how it's making you feel she can try to put a stop to it or even put a little space between herself and him).
Hahaha and just noticed she deactivated. Dammit. I'm posting this anyway.0 -
Yes, you have to see him in class. But you are the one deciding to still interact with him. You are sitting and listening to him compliment your best friend. If he does something that is upsetting you, remove yourself from the situation. Walk away.
I would think any mutual friends would understand and, if they don't, obviously they picked him in the break up and you need to find new friends.
This. After breaking up with my husband we now have the same friends but don't hang out with them together. I know it's hard to move on, but move on. You're in college so it's not hard to make new friends and sit as far away from him as possible in the classes. If they're your true friends they'll ask why you aren't around them anymore and it'll put things in perspective for them. If not, cut ties and move on.0 -
.. she deactivated?
LOOKS LIKE IT SMH ... I didn't think this post was harsh or anything ... oh well
Meanie!
I know it was all your fault K.
I am the worst ever ... whomp whomp she better get some thick skin ... it sounded like people were about to rip her apart anyways ... it was prob for the best lol 0 -
Ignore! Or join in! Piss him off!0
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My best guess is that you're coping and he's not and he's just mad about that.
Ignore him. He'll be out of your life soon.0 -
Then get a rebound guy. You'll be fine.As I explained in my post, I'm pretty much forced to see him everyday because we take classes together, so as much as I would like to avoid him I can't :S
I haven't talk about "us as a couple" with him since the day we broke up
Thread should have ended here!0 -
.. she deactivated?
LOOKS LIKE IT SMH ... I didn't think this post was harsh or anything ... oh well
Meanie!
I know it was all your fault K.
I am the worst ever ... whomp whomp she better get some thick skin ... it sounded like people were about to rip her apart anyways ... it was prob for the best lol
You do look pretty evil. You probably ask that everyone on your FL eats clean, and logs everything. Who does that?!0 -
Your best friend, if she truly is a best friend, should be telling him where to go, in a polite but firm way. If she's actually encouraging this behaviour then she's not your best friend.
Aside from that, just ignore him. I don't actually think sleeping with your friend is his top priority, I think he is trying to get to you, and by the looks of it, he's succeeding. Pretend that it's not happening and get on with your life, and try and separate from him a little. Find other friends that aren't involved, for example.
Edit: Damn it, I hate actually putting effort into a response to find out they deactivated. :grumble:0 -
.. she deactivated?
Apparently she didn't like the advice!
Abandon topic.... She's gone everyone.
hahaaa Yeah, I just went to check before posting. Gone!0 -
.. she deactivated?
LOOKS LIKE IT SMH ... I didn't think this post was harsh or anything ... oh well
Meanie!
I know it was all your fault K.
I am the worst ever ... whomp whomp she better get some thick skin ... it sounded like people were about to rip her apart anyways ... it was prob for the best lol
You do look pretty evil. You probably ask that everyone on your FL eats clean, and logs everything. Who does that?!
YEP! Eat clean ... train dirty ... drink GALLONS of water ... no cheat days ... LOG even no calorie things ... must go to the gym 2x a day!!!!0 -
Yes, you have to see him in class. But you are the one deciding to still interact with him. You are sitting and listening to him compliment your best friend. If he does something that is upsetting you, remove yourself from the situation. Walk away.
I would think any mutual friends would understand and, if they don't, obviously they picked him in the break up and you need to find new friends.
Could not have said it better myself.0 -
Didn't read all of the posts but I'm hoping your BEST FRIEND tells him to go kick rocks.
Also, the best revenge is your own success. Move forward, go about your life and be successful. It's the best way to serve it.0 -
She deleted her account...no more advice needed lol.0
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.. she deactivated?
son of a biscuit.
i hate giving advice to no one.
"Son of a biscuit" had me all tickled for some reason. Giggling like an idiot here.0 -
I went to a college of 5k students, it was hard to get away from people if you really liked them and they wanted to move on... especially with someone else. I went thru it and my friends (guy and gals) went thru it, time heals all wounds, it will get easier and at the end, you will see that the person wasnt right for you. In a small school situation, it can be hard to find people that aren't friendly acquaintances, so that could make it tough.
Id second the advice to have a chat with him and maybe your "friend" (indirectly approach the subject with her, make up a ficticious situation mirroring what is happening with her).
Last thought .... if the above doesnt go well, and he is completely self centered and inconsiderate... dont be a doormat, take the gloves off and turn the tables. Do not do it yelling or making a scene. As much as part of this will hurt you, act like you dont care, compliment his friends (especially if he has an alpha clash with a bro friend, compliment him). You may know what bugs him about himself or others ( for example: if he works out and has a big upper body but Bambi legs, compliment a guy with nice quads around him). Find his Kryptonite, the conversation you wanted to have in the beginning will be much easier (and dont hook up with him that "talk" night if it ever happens, there will be another day).0 -
Yes, you have to see him in class. But you are the one deciding to still interact with him. You are sitting and listening to him compliment your best friend. If he does something that is upsetting you, remove yourself from the situation. Walk away.
I would think any mutual friends would understand and, if they don't, obviously they picked him in the break up and you need to find new friends.
This. After breaking up with my husband we now have the same friends but don't hang out with them together. I know it's hard to move on, but move on. You're in college so it's not hard to make new friends and sit as far away from him as possible in the classes. If they're your true friends they'll ask why you aren't around them anymore and it'll put things in perspective for them. If not, cut ties and move on.
Your ex making fun of you in front of friends is emotional abuse. My husband used to do the same thing and it was embarrassing and painful. I even told him that it hurt me and he kept it up saying that he was only teasing and that I couldn't take a joke. Well, I got the chance to turn the tables on him and it stopped immediately. Since you're not in a relationship with him any more. RUN! You don't need/want someone in you life who treats you that way.0 -
he offers her to pick her up to take her to college and stuff like that...
Wha? Sorry but I don't even think you're college age. Who says that..."take her to college"?
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LMAO!!! "Hey do you need a ride to college today?"0
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