Teaching children about weight and nutrition

jr235
jr235 Posts: 201 Member
in Food and Nutrition
I've really been thinking about this a lot, and I wonder what other people are doing with their kids. My daughter almost 3, so I have awhile to go before she has any control over her food.

I feel like nutrition is easy enough with children, especially when they are small. Its not like she has money or can go out by herself to get any food. We don't keep any junk food in the house besides some microwave popcorn, and on the weekend we will get a bit for our weekly movie night. Besides that she eats what we eat during meals and is allowed one snack between meals. I am not too strict. We get pizza a few times a month and if we go grocery shopping she is allowed a small bag of crisps or a candy bar.

So now its easy, but at some point I will have to verbalize information about nutrition and weight to her.

One thing I really regret not being done with me is having a scale in the house. During my teens and early 20s my weight was fluctuating by about 20-30 lbs. At 30lbs I clued in, but before that I had no idea. I guess because I was never overweight no one ever said anything to me, or maybe because weight is such a sensitive topic. I am rather tall and tend to wear my clothes loose, so I just didn't notice or was in denial, but in pictures I can absolutely see it. I know a lot on here don't believe in the scale, but I do. For me it a tools to keep on track. That mental push of "I'm going to weigh myself and don't want to see a gain!" is huge for me.

I'm really in two minds about it. I'm worried getting a teenager a scale would set them up for a dysfunctional relationship with their weight, especially if they are still growing and gaining weight as a result of that.

On that note I also really wish it was ok to say to someone "hey, you've put on a bit of weight you may want to watch that", and that we lived in a society where it wouldn't be taken as a criticism but as a gesture of caring. And I'm speaking from experience here. When my husband told me I was putting on weight before I hit my highest (nonpregnant) weight I absolutely took it as a criticism and was very upset.

So what does everyone else think? How do you address weight and nutrition with your children and family?
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  • DawnieB1977
    DawnieB1977 Posts: 4,248 Member
    Personally I think you just have to model correct nutrition, and also exercise. My kids are 4.5 and 2.5 so obviously still at an age where they eat what we make, and eat at set times.

    We all sit together to eat, which I think is important. No meals in front of the TV! My husband does shift work so isn't always there, but either the 3 or 4 of us sit down at the kitchen table for meals.

    I make sure I don't obsess over calories in front of them. I always make healthy meals. Maybe once every 6-8 weeks we'll get a take-away curry. I don't particularly like pizza, nor do the kids, but my husband likes to get Dominos occasionally. And sometimes he'll get fish and chips, which the kids do like. This is rare though.

    We have some chocs at home now as it's Xmas, but they're kept out of reach, and the kids are allowed a couple after dinner, then the tin goes back!

    They know I go to the gym a lot, and they also enjoy being active. My husband was doing P90X a while ago and they were copying him. I take them out on their scooters a lot.

    My son is at school now, so he has breakfast at home (egg and beans, or porridge, or shreddies occasionally) , a piece of fruit at break, a tuna or ham sandwich and a yogurt at lunch, then something like chicken or fish and veg for dinner. I don't usually give him an after school snack as he won't be hungry for his dinner then. My 2.5 year old is at nursery 3 days a week, when I work, so she gets all her food there on those days.

    I don't ever make the kids anything different to what we're having, so they know we all eat the same.

    I just think it's important that kids grow up seeing us eat healthy, balanced meals with an occasional treat, and that they see being active as part of everyday life.

    If any of my kids (I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant with no. 3) has a weight problem when they're older, then I'd make an effort to get them more active, or stop treats at home or something. I'm hoping that they won't have weight problems though as I think I know quite a bit about eating healthily.
  • jr235
    jr235 Posts: 201 Member
    Its nice to meet another mom who doesn't make her kids separate meals. Most of the moms I know do that, and sometimes I get the impression they think I am a bit of a slacker for not doing the same. We also eat all of our meals at the table, and generally pretty healthy.

    My daughter used to be a bit picky, but cutting down on her snacks helped tremendously with that. She does get an afternoon snack, which I'm not crazy about, but she doesn't eat much lunch at nursery because she is a very slow eater on top of being distracted by the other kids. But overall the quality of her food is quite good and she is a very active child.

    I'm not totally convinced though that setting a good example is enough. If so then why would there be such a rise in obesity in the last decade?
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
    i make it all about health, and what the body needs each nutrient for (protein for growing and healing, fat for their brains and energy, vitamin D for their bones, etc) I'm totally downplaying the connection between diet and weight, because I have two girls and eating disorders are appearing in younger and younger girls these days, so it's just not worth the risk. A healthy diet is about far, far more than just whether you are fat or thin. Additionally, I don't want my girls to grow up thinking that aesthetics is more important than health. Hence the focus when I teach them about healthy eating, is on health. It also includes dental health, because a good reason for kids not to snack on sugary things all day is it leads to tooth decay. And this combined with encouraging them to do physical activity, obesity shouldn't happen so there's no reason to scare them with things like "don't eat x you'll get fat" which a) doesn't promote a healthy relationship with food and b) isn't true anyway, because getting fat is the result if eating more than you burn off, not eating specific foods.

    Also, I'm not puritanical about healthy eating. I know a lot of cases where the parents were very strict about so-called "unhealthy" foods and once the kids got old enough to make their own food choices, they went OTT on all the foods they were not allowed when they were younger, and quickly got into unhealthy eating habits. IMO learning to enjoy everything in moderation (i,e, without going OTT) is a vital life skill, and so I let my kids have all the so-called unhealthy foods, but as part of a balanced diet where the main focus is on getting food from all the food groups. In terms of education, I focus on them understanding why their body needs each of the nutrients, and the concept that too much of anything can be bad for you and the concept of a balanced diet, rather than demonising specific foods and banning them.

    Also I very much agree with modelling good nutrition not just teaching it. "Do what I say, not what I do" absolutely does *not* work with children. They want what you're eating and if you're telling them to eat more vegetables while you're eating a diet of dessert foods and no vegetables, then the message they get is "we're supposed to eat vegetables, but they suck and people prefer to eat dessert foods instead".
  • livingleanlivingclean
    livingleanlivingclean Posts: 11,751 Member
    I don't have kids (yet), but I care massively about what kids are fed. I have about 70/80 students and some of their eating habits sadden me a lot. For the most part they eat so much processed food lacking in nutrients, and often have "substitute" fruit and vegetables (juice, fruit roll ups, tinned/packaged fruit etc).

    I would focus more on nutrition choices and not weight. Getting them to understand that they need nutrient dense foods - good protein, fats and fresh fruit and vegies - to have a healthy body, so they can run faster, play better, not get sick, concentrate better at school etc. "Sometimes" foods are just that, and food should not be a treat...kids aren't dogs or trash cans!!

    Staying active, playing sports and just moving in general (as opposed to sitting in front of a device/computer) needs to be encouraged too - so many think that a whole weekend inside playing a computer game is ok!! What happened to the days where we'd go out and make up games for hours? Climb trees? Ride bikes?

    I never knew about how important food was to health until I was about 28. We were never taught why! I wish I'd known, i also wish my "healthy " mother hasn't been so lenient and let me have treats every day, or given in when I wouldn't eat whatever did she had prepared...
  • Railr0aderTony
    Railr0aderTony Posts: 6,803 Member

    So now its easy, but at some point I will have to verbalize information about nutrition and weight to her.

    Why? If you lead by example and are feeding her good food and showing her good habits you will never have to verbalize information about nutrition and weight. All of these threads about kids weight and nutrition are setting us up from being a nation of obesity to a nation of eatting disorders.

    Bottom line , she will do what you show her. Lead by example.
  • DawnieB1977
    DawnieB1977 Posts: 4,248 Member
    Its nice to meet another mom who doesn't make her kids separate meals. Most of the moms I know do that, and sometimes I get the impression they think I am a bit of a slacker for not doing the same. We also eat all of our meals at the table, and generally pretty healthy.

    My daughter used to be a bit picky, but cutting down on her snacks helped tremendously with that. She does get an afternoon snack, which I'm not crazy about, but she doesn't eat much lunch at nursery because she is a very slow eater on top of being distracted by the other kids. But overall the quality of her food is quite good and she is a very active child.

    I'm not totally convinced though that setting a good example is enough. If so then why would there be such a rise in obesity in the last decade?

    Why do they think you're a slacker for not making separate meals? There's no reason why kids can't eat what we eat, unless we're having something super spicy! My kids will eat Thai curry and chilli and things like that though.

    When my daughter started eating solids, I used to just purée our meals, things like casseroles, lasagne, shepherd's pie etc (it was winter then). Neither of my kids ever had pre-prepared food from jars.

    My son wasn't a good eater until he started school. Not that he wouldn't try things, he'd just eat very, very little. I've no idea how he grew so tall! Now he's brilliant and eats a god amount. I never make him finish his plate though if he's full. My daughter was the opposite - she started off eating really well, and now barely eats. Although apparently at nursery she does!

    I think setting an example is enough for now. When my kids get older I will explain why we don't eat too many crisps, choc bars etc. I suppose I explain that a bit now, just say too much chocolate isn't good for you, but a bit is ok. I'll explain more about protein, carbs etc when they can understand that.

    I also think teaching your kids that it's ok not to finish their meals is good. You can still become overweight if you eat big portions of healthy food after all!
  • caseythirteen
    caseythirteen Posts: 956 Member
    I have an 11 year old son and an 8 year old daughter so these things absolutely come up. I don't talk about weight at all but we talk about health, nutrition and fitness a lot. They both play sports and are active so we tell them about how good that is to keep up. I also try and make nutritious meals that are well balanced so we talk about nutrients and fruits and vegetables, etc. Fortunately , their gym teacher at school talks about a lot of the same things so it's a repeated message for them. Sweets, while not given in mass quantities, are certainly not forbidden. They are just as much a part of life but they are told that there is a balance and healthy food comes first. They know mom, and now dad, go to the gym and exercise. To stay strong and healthy so it's about giving them a good example too.
  • ExtremePhobia
    ExtremePhobia Posts: 40
    I don't think you have a whole lot to worry about. It has always seemed to me that food is a habit. If you look at your own food intake, it's all based on habits. You eat all the same things you did when you were little, and you eat in a manner consistent with how you ate then. Don't get me wrong, we pick up other habits as we go too and many of us will try to change those habits over our lives. But if you start with the correct habits, it's much easier to keep those habits and prevent new (bad) ones than it is to fix bad habits and make new good ones.

    You're already on the right track. And one day, when the little ones become teenagers, you have a chat with them. Don't tell them what they will do for the rest of their lives, just make them understand why they've eaten the way they have their entire lives so far.
  • jfauci
    jfauci Posts: 531 Member
    I struggle with this issue quite a bit. I have an overweight 12 year old daughter and an underweight 10 year old son. While I pack healthy lunches and cook healthy dinners, my husband gives in to the unhealthy afternoon snacks. He is a stay at home dad and keeps buying the garbage for snacks.

    He and I had a heart to heart the other day about food choices and he promised that he would significantly limit the unhealthy after-school snacks. My daughter is in school from 7:15 - 2:00, and eats lunch so early that an afternoon snack is essential.

    Our next battle is exercise. My son is insanely active, so that's not an issue. My daughter is way more sedentary and not into sports. However, she is starting to say things about her weight. So, we are looking for fun activities that she wants to try.

    I
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    I think it's a slippery slope, personally. If a kid knows too much about nutrition, they might start obsessing about what's healthy, being too fat etc... I think it's much healthier to teach everything in moderation and just give a good example (like saying no, you can't have another cookie, those are special treats, instead of 'those are bad for you'). The last thing I want is my 5yo to start demonizing food.

    I do wonder though if seeing their mom weigh their food all the time is not just going to do just that though.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Teach your child good eating habits and make sure she's active.

    DO NOT give her a complex about her weight. Good gracious, what is wrong with people???
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Teach your child good eating habits and make sure she's active.

    DO NOT give her a complex about her weight. Good gracious, what is wrong with people???

    QFT!
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member

    So now its easy, but at some point I will have to verbalize information about nutrition and weight to her.

    Why? If you lead by example and are feeding her good food and showing her good habits you will never have to verbalize information about nutrition and weight. All of these threads about kids weight and nutrition are setting us up from being a nation of obesity to a nation of eatting disorders.

    Bottom line , she will do what you show her. Lead by example.

    So very much this.
  • JenniBaby85
    JenniBaby85 Posts: 855 Member
    I don't pound it home with my kids yet, because they are 3yrs old, and 19 months old. I eat right, get primarily healthy food for the house, and explain in kid terms why certain thing are better to eat than others. I let them have cookies once in awhile, and other goodies. Usually baked by me personally, because then I know what goes in them :tongue: I teach them moderation, never let them eat because of boredom, and always encourage the healthy before the not as healthy. I also don't allow them to have not as healthy goodies before a healthy meal. :drinker:
  • 12333beth
    12333beth Posts: 31
    Im an 18 year old girl and I just want to chip in because Ive just come back from uni to live with my parents and Ive been struggling for about 3 years now, and I dont think i can change.
    Ever since year 10 when I became more in 'control' of what I was allowed to eat, ive developed a lovely disorder. I had the power to skip breakfast because my parents never cared what I did in the morning and I could lie, I could pretend I had cooked lunch at school, and then I could skip dinner by saying Ive already eaten or Ive had a big lunch.

    I want parents to be more aware that teenage girls are very likely to want to lose weight in this day and age, you only have to look at soaps, magazines, celebrities and diets everywhere to know this is the influence we are bombarded with..

    My parents are a bit obsessed too and I dont think they know it impacts me because im not very mentally strong when it comes to thoughts about food and weight, they weigh all the time, and they now dont eat carbs because they think theyre bad for you. Ive avoided carbs for years but the fact they are doing it now makes me feel even worse when I do eat carbs. They never know what I eat, I never eat with them and I rarely did and I think it didnt help me on the slipperly slope I was already on. Even when I lost tonnes of weight really quickly they didnt enforce anything. Ontop of that you never know what friends will be saying to your child at school - I had bad influences at school always talking about weight...And now I wont eat infront of anyone anyway so thats never going to happen - I am really not looking forwards towards a christmas day roast.

    As a parent, or what i would say to my parents if I had the guts (which I dont) is make sure your child doesnt become obsessed or let them know youre there to talk to them. Because I doubt my parents know just how bad these thoughts in my head are and they are destroying me socially and mentally, (and probably physically but no-one will know that because I am a normal size.)
    And your child is so young this wont matter for a long time, but I just feel emotional today so I thought I would post this.

    Sorry for opening up like that haha

    p.s I bought my own scale and every morning i weighed it determined my mood and what I ate for the day. I dont think scales are a very good thing to be honest, it should ultimately be about health and comfort in your own skin


    I hope you all have a lovely christmas x
  • GrabacrPD
    GrabacrPD Posts: 94 Member
    Moderation in Moderation!

    Speaking from my experience growing up..we ate around the table. Parents dictated what we ate. Usually a british roast (meat, veg and british gravy) with a takeaway or junk food being a treat or an occasion.

    I hope when I get round to having kids ill be able to get them cooking at a young age, getting them fit and active and of course everything in moderation....including moderation haha
  • kawookie
    kawookie Posts: 813 Member
    The scale issue:

    My family growing up had a scale in the master bathroom. It was my parents' bathroom and generally not used by us kids unless we had permission. We were "allowed" in the bathroom, but generally it wouldn't occur to us to go in there unless we needed something. This made me use the scale very infrequently.

    Currently my brother has a weigh in day with his wife. I wonder if doing a family weigh in (maybe monthly) and tracking height/weight especially as children are growing might be a good way to have some interesting teachable moments.

    I was overweight as a child and now I am working to have a healthy BMI. My parents didn't do anything wrong as they were active, had mostly healthy food around the house and modeled good choices. I needed an extra push, but I'm not sure what that push should have been. As I'm not a parent yet, I am more brainstorming than anything else.
  • GrabacrPD
    GrabacrPD Posts: 94 Member
    Relevant

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-25427990
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I wonder if doing a family weigh in (maybe monthly) and tracking height/weight especially as children are growing might be a good way to have some interesting teachable moments.
    :grumble:
  • btsinmd
    btsinmd Posts: 921 Member
    I would be really careful about having a scale and weighing children or having them weighing themselves routinely. Weight really is not the important thing compared to fitness. You want your child to grow up feeling and being fit and active and not carrying too much fat. If they are that, then their weight doesn't matter.

    My much much younger sister was a really athletic child. She ran more than she walked and was constantly on the go and played soccer (football) on various teams for 10 months every year from the time she was 4 years old. She easily out distanced all the children, girls and boys, in running at her elementary school and could swing like a monkey on any overhead bars. She had no excess fat, but also couldn't be called skinny or boney. She was athletic, strong and fit, and looked it.

    One day she came home from school in tears. She had been teased all day by the other girls because their weights and heights had been printed out and she weighed more than a lot of them at the same height. The skinny girls, many of whom were very sedentary, school and television were their life, had been calling her "fat" all day and she couldn't deny the weight.

    Luckily for her she had a lot of knowledgable people, even beyond her immediate family, who could assure her that she was exactly right for who she was and not fat at all.

    Comparing weight can only tell you so much.
  • eblakes93
    eblakes93 Posts: 372 Member
    I'm not a mom, but I am a daughter in an overweight, but very loving, family, and I feel like I can say modeling is key. The best thing you can do is be a role model to your kids. Be flexible, don't be strict, but eat a balanced diet/stay active/have a treat every once in a while. Be casual and normal about it, and your kids will see that healthy nutrition is just a normal part of healthy living. Eat as a family, talk about your days, then go on a walk. Don't demonize friends or relatives that don't make the same choices as you to your children.
  • sevsmom
    sevsmom Posts: 1,172 Member
    I have 5 kids ranging in age from 7 to 22. None of them have a weight problem. All but my daughter are fairly active. My daughter is a book worm and artist....she's not much into exercise yet. We have cakes, cookies, pretzels and chips in our house. My kids have learned over the years to self regulate. To enjoy snacks, but eat healthy meals.

    I talk with my daughter about body image and health. She's aware of the weight issues in our extended family, and she's reasonable about her food consumption. She just isn't interested in exercise (although she did participate in the girl's track team this spring, but hated it).

    You model health, values, morality, work ethic, etc. You teach them and then let them own it and own the outcomes. That's all you really can do.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I have 5 kids ranging in age from 7 to 22. None of them have a weight problem. All but my daughter are fairly active. My daughter is a book worm and artist....she's not much into exercise yet. We have cakes, cookies, pretzels and chips in our house. My kids have learned over the years to self regulate. To enjoy snacks, but eat healthy meals.

    I talk with my daughter about body image and health. She's aware of the weight issues in our extended family, and she's reasonable about her food consumption. She just isn't interested in exercise (although she did participate in the girl's track team this spring, but hated it).

    You model health, values, morality, work ethic, etc. You teach them and then let them own it and own the outcomes. That's all you really can do.
    I'm sure you're aware that "active" doesn't have to mean formal exercise or sports, but if your daughter is artistic and you're looking for an activity for her, have you tried enrolling her in dance classes?

    I'm a lot like what you describe and I was not much for sports, but I loved ballet.
  • bluestarlight19
    bluestarlight19 Posts: 419 Member
    Right now my girls are 15 months and 2.5 years old so I got time. Right now, I am just trying to get them to eat veggies. Its not too hard but my oldest sometimes refuses. I just set an example by having a lot of veggies on my plate, she does watch me and watch what I'm eating. If I eat it and say "oh this tomato is so yummy!" she is more likely to pick it up and eat it and actually like it. My youngest just devours everything we stick in front of her, but she is super super active wall climbing baby. We don't deny them any food really and I do have to watch when she gets growth spurts because she can eat more than me at those times but then for the next week hardly eats half her food, so it can get hiccupy right now.
    When they get older, I will hopefully be at my goal weight and fitness level by then, *cough*, but I plan to emphasize health over everything. That healthy food fuel the body and nutrition and how exercise is important for muscles and your heart, etc. I don't want to put the focus on weight and looking good because girls could take it too far as they get older. And as there mom, I always want to encourage and be supportive, not put them down by telling my future 14 year old, "hey, your getting a little bit of pudge there, might want to do something". I had that happen when I was a teenager and it did not do good things for my self image at the time.
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    I wonder if doing a family weigh in (maybe monthly) and tracking height/weight especially as children are growing might be a good way to have some interesting teachable moments.
    :grumble:

    Double :grumble: With a :angry:
  • twixlepennie
    twixlepennie Posts: 1,074 Member

    So now its easy, but at some point I will have to verbalize information about nutrition and weight to her.

    Why? If you lead by example and are feeding her good food and showing her good habits you will never have to verbalize information about nutrition and weight. All of these threads about kids weight and nutrition are setting us up from being a nation of obesity to a nation of eatting disorders.

    Bottom line , she will do what you show her. Lead by example.

    +1

    I started running this summer and now both of my girls (7 and 9) want to start running. I never talked to them about it, but they saw me doing it, see that I enjoy it and now the oldest is going to be doing Girls on the Run through school and my other daughter wants to do it when she's old enough. Being a good example is the one thing that will have the biggest impact with your kids.

    Eta: I now have one daughter who loves salads, just because she saw me eating them all the time and was curious to how they tasted. My 5 yr old son loves green smoothies because he saw me having one on a daily basis during the summer, when I'd get fresh produce from the farmers market (and my kids always went with me and they got to pick out new things to try).

    They are watching us so closely and they see the good, the bad and the ugly lol.
  • NaomiJFoster
    NaomiJFoster Posts: 1,450 Member
    I teach preschool. My school has recently become affiliated with the "Discover/CATCH" program. It's a part of the JCC of America system. CATCH stands for Coordinated Approach To Children's Health. You can Google it.

    We are required to teach nutrition and exercise as part of our daily/weekly curriculum. We must have 60 minutes of planned physical activity each day, in addition to our normal playground time. And we talk a lot (I mean *a lot*) about food. In CATCH there are no 'bad' foods. We call them Go Foods and Whoa Foods. Whoa foods are those things with lower nutritional value, that you can still always have but should pause when making that choice. Pause, say 'whoa', and remember that this is something to have in small doses. It's a sometimes food, not an always food. We don't forbid anything, we just help the children know that some foods have better health value than others. And those healthier foods are the things w want to choose more often, and eat in higher quantity. It's amazing. My class of three year olds, after just 3 months of this type of learning, can sort their own lunches into sections of Go and Whoa foods, they independently choose to eat their Go Foods first and take only small tastes of the Whoa Foods, they are instructing their parents during grocery shopping trips, they ask questions about which of their foods have protein or calcium or vitamins, etc. It's wonderful.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I teach preschool. My school has recently become affiliated with the "Discover/CATCH" program. It's a part of the JCC of America system. CATCH stands for Coordinated Approach To Children's Health. You can Google it.

    We are required to teach nutrition and exercise as part of our daily/weekly curriculum. We must have 60 minutes of planned physical activity each day, in addition to our normal playground time. And we talk a lot (I mean *a lot*) about food. In CATCH there are no 'bad' foods. We call them Go Foods and Whoa Foods. Whoa foods are those things with lower nutritional value, that you can still always have but should pause when making that choice. Pause, say 'whoa', and remember that this is something to have in small doses. It's a sometimes food, not an always food. We don't forbid anything, we just help the children know that some foods have better health value than others. And those healthier foods are the things w want to choose more often, and eat in higher quantity. It's amazing. My class of three year olds, after just 3 months of this type of learning, can sort their own lunches into sections of Go and Whoa foods, they independently choose to eat their Go Foods first and take only small tastes of the Whoa Foods, they are instructing their parents during grocery shopping trips, they ask questions about which of their foods have protein or calcium or vitamins, etc. It's wonderful.
    Love it!

    We definitely learned about nutrition in very early school years. I have absolutely no problem with that kind of teaching. It's the focusing on weight in the OP that makes me see red.
  • sam_r_i
    sam_r_i Posts: 37 Member
    Definitely a discussion I'm interested in as well. My girlfriend and her son live with me now, and he's on the heavy side for his age (7 years old). He is very tall, but still overweight for his height. We don't really focus on his weight, but try to focus on eating healthy and making healthy choices (limiting sweets and soda, eating balanced meals).

    He's very active with us, taking swimming lessons, playing football and baseball, riding his bike. However, it appears that when he's at his dad's (which is most of the time), he's not getting much exercise and eating out is the norm.

    I've been searching for ideas to make living a healthy lifestyle fun so that he might be encouraged to do this on his own while he's with his dad, although at 7 that might be a tough battle. Would love to hear peoples ideas on how to encourage this behavior.
  • AlabasterVerve
    AlabasterVerve Posts: 3,171 Member
    I teach preschool. My school has recently become affiliated with the "Discover/CATCH" program. It's a part of the JCC of America system. CATCH stands for Coordinated Approach To Children's Health. You can Google it.

    We are required to teach nutrition and exercise as part of our daily/weekly curriculum. We must have 60 minutes of planned physical activity each day, in addition to our normal playground time. And we talk a lot (I mean *a lot*) about food. In CATCH there are no 'bad' foods. We call them Go Foods and Whoa Foods. Whoa foods are those things with lower nutritional value, that you can still always have but should pause when making that choice. Pause, say 'whoa', and remember that this is something to have in small doses. It's a sometimes food, not an always food. We don't forbid anything, we just help the children know that some foods have better health value than others. And those healthier foods are the things w want to choose more often, and eat in higher quantity. It's amazing. My class of three year olds, after just 3 months of this type of learning, can sort their own lunches into sections of Go and Whoa foods, they independently choose to eat their Go Foods first and take only small tastes of the Whoa Foods, they are instructing their parents during grocery shopping trips, they ask questions about which of their foods have protein or calcium or vitamins, etc. It's wonderful.
    Oh, goody. Another low fat diet. :huh: I hope the program is optional -- no wonder so many parents are choosing to home school.

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