End the Cleavage Hypocrisy!

OP, you got that right !

And now I'm gonna hang around for the gifs :drinker:

I like attention sometimes and on those occasions I do wear more revealing clothing. Needless to say My friends don't think it's revealing at all ,hahaha anyhow .... when I feel like I have been getting too much attention I cover up, or change .

Although I have no um... real cleavage to speak of . So I have no idea what it's like for women who get the stares all the time.

I get self concious when I wear a skirt with a slit in it so ,

I guess I don't really try to get attention ha ! I'll slowly back out ......

Also, may I add... Most shirts are not made with large breasts in mind and so do not provide enough material to cover it all... So you're either seeing my cleavage or you're gonna have to look at my stomach... Trust me; it's better this way.

Personally I'm getting real sick of guys looking me In the eyes all the time. I have great boobs dangit! Give them some respect and take a gander.

she's wearing an horribly ill-fitting bra.

a lower-cut top would help disguise the lack of bra/perkiness. Also, I think she's sans bra :flowerforyou:

Also, may I add... Most shirts are not made with large breasts in mind and so do not provide enough material to cover it all... So you're either seeing my cleavage or you're gonna have to look at my stomach... Trust me; it's better this way.

I just got to a smaller sized shirt, and I can hardly button them around my boobs. They do not design clothes for large-chested women.

Also, may I add... Most shirts are not made with large breasts in mind and so do not provide enough material to cover it all... So you're either seeing my cleavage or you're gonna have to look at my stomach... Trust me; it's better this way.

I just got to a smaller sized shirt, and I can hardly button them around my boobs. They do not design clothes for large-chested women.

My work shirt is two sizes too big (it's like wearing a tent) but it still strains around my boobs.

Personally I'm getting real sick of guys looking me In the eyes all the time. I have great boobs dangit! Give them some respect and take a gander.

she's wearing an horribly ill-fitting bra.

a lower-cut top would help disguise the lack of bra/perkiness. Also, I think she's sans bra :flowerforyou:

ahh good point. i think you're right about being sans bra.

You know what, I totally agree with you. I consider myself to be a feminist and I don't think there's anything at all with showing some cleavage to get attention (assuming it's in an appropriate setting, i.e. not at work). But you have to admit it when you're doing it, and we all do from time to time, so there's not any shame! But also, if you wear a really short skirt or low cut top, you're going to get attention, and it will be both positive and negative, because people can be jerks.

Also, I completely agree with the comments saying that women with really large breasts often can't help but show them, especially when you're a curvy girl who needs a little sumthin' to avoid looking like a box , but it isn't too hard to take a picture that doesn't show cleavage. It's called, you know, your face. And if every single picture on your profile is a cleavage pic, people are going to get the wrong idea.

I can walk down the street naked if i want to. Yes, you can look.

No, you can't make ANY comments. Can't touch me, can't assume things, can't be rude to me because i'm naked.

What are you? 5? Can't control your impulses? Let's all cover up all the time, because men are such weak people, we can't blame them for their actions when they see a little skin, right?

Just curious here. . . is this comment also verboten? If yes, why? If no, then why are "ANY" comments about your choice of attire off-limits? What, specifically, gives you the right to censor another person's speech when it's about your choice of clothing and how you look wearing it?

I believe you answered your own question when you said it's about her choice of clothing. That's none of your business. Not at all.

You know what, I totally agree with you. I consider myself to be a feminist and I don't think there's anything at all with showing some cleavage to get attention (assuming it's in an appropriate setting, i.e. not at work). But you have to admit it when you're doing it, and we all do from time to time, so there's not any shame! But also, if you wear a really short skirt or low cut top, you're going to get attention, and it will be both positive and negative, because people can be jerks.

Also, I completely agree with the comments saying that women with really large breasts often can't help but show them, especially when you're a curvy girl who needs a little sumthin' to avoid looking like a box , but it isn't too hard to take a picture that doesn't show cleavage. It's called, you know, your face. And if every single picture on your profile is a cleavage pic, people are going to get the wrong idea.

I'm just going to derail and say I think your hair is adorable.

Carry on.