Needing support and motivation in Mn

I am new to this site, but I am enjoying it so far. I am hoping to find some much needed support. I don't have family or friends to look to for it. My husband says I am beatiful the way I am and not fat. Either love is blind or he just don't want to hurt my feelings. The reality is I am fat and need to get healthy. What I wouldn't give to comfortably ride amusement park rides and wear those ever so cute clothes. I'm looking to lose a good 100 pounds. It seems like so much so any support would be wonderful. Perhaps I can find someone in the Mn area who can relate and hold me accountable. If your interested please feel free to add me. Thanks in advance.