Am I gonna be all saggy....?

I am terrified of using the weights...

Why?

How much weight you have to lose and how quickly you lose it is important before anyone could answer this question. Weights or other strength training, along with proper diet, can help you maintain muscle as you lose fat. It's important to remember that most of the muscle is already there though.

If you lose a lot of weight you may still have saggy skin. Hydration and time are how you get rid of it. Lose more slowly and your skin will adjust more as you lose. Use a good moisturizer and drink plenty of fluids. And make sure you hit your fat goal. Low fat diets can dry your skin.

I was the same about using the weights. It took me over a month to build the confidence to try in the gym but honestly it has revolutionised my journey. I was starting to see myself looking "loose" as I was losing weight, within a week of adding ten mins of weights/resistance to my routine it all changed. And aswell my weightless actually sped up.
Take it slow,
Do some research before,
And don't forget, everyone was once a beginner, never be afraid to seek help
Good luck

What about weights terrifies you? They don't bite...

Thanks everyone...I did talk to someone at the gym last nights and I did use the weights and NO, I am not sore at all today. I am scared of the weights because I don't want to be really muscular. I just want to tone up, and scared if I lift too heavy then I will "bulk up"

You will not bulk up - you cannot gain muscle while eating at a calorie deficit. On top of that it is extremely difficult to gain muscle even when you are trying, and for a woman its even extra difficult because we don't have the level of testosterone that men do. And it takes a long time so it won't happen accidentally either.

I repeat, you will NOT BULK.

I started weight training (New Rules of Lifting for Women) in November and I have dropped a dress size with very little scale weight lost. Its the best thing I ever did! Honestly - all women should lift heavy.

There's no way to know for certain, but to lessen the chance, stay hydrated/drink lots of water, use lotions/vitamin e and lift!
Lifting's not hard, there are tons and tons of ways to learn form. Use very light weights to start. Learn proper form, like when you squat, look forward to keep your back straight and don't let you knees go past your toes. The more you look into it, the easier it is to understand
And much easier if you have someone to ask in person. So if you have a gym, don't be afraid to ask someone who doesn't look busy, or better yet, the staff or a trainer.

ETA: Don't work the same muscle groups two days in a row. You should leave 24-48 hours so your muscles can rest. I like lifting for every part of my body a few times a week, other do it every day, but target just certain muscles. Figure out what works for you.
IF YOU HURT, STOP
I myself have not lifted since Friday, because I upped my weights too quickly and my arms HURT so bad. I'll probably start again today, but with less weight, maybe tomorrow. I'm not hurting anymore.

Listen to your body, don't over work it, give it rest

Greetings! No need to fear bulking up. That would only happen if you lift heavy, consume a lot of protein and some illegal substances.

A good option to learn weight lifting exercises is to start with resistance bands. You can do the same exercises with less risk of injury.

I did take a hot yoga class and loved it. Unfortunately I don't have the time nor money to keep up with it. That being said...I love stretching.

No protein? I love protein....

Not no protein, you need it. Just don't eat four times as much as you need XD

Lifting won't make you bulky, unless you work out like a body builder. No matter how much protein you eat

what is lift heavy? Am starting to do 3-4 sets of 13-15 reps at a weight that is like 33 lbs. And that's tough for me...

Lifting heavy means lifting weights that are heavy for you which sounds like what you're doing.