Stronglifts for women

Ok, so I've read the plan and I'm on board. I believe men's exercises work for women, I'm not afraid to bulk up or whatever, I just wanna get stronger.

In fact, I am so weak now I can't even pick up a 45lbs barbell, let alone with extra weights, or pushing or pulling it anywhere.

I daresay the original numbers may be different for women.. has anyone tried this, or does anyone know how i could modify the plan to start much easier?

I'd be happy if I can do 60 at the END of the first 12 weeks.. anyone with some advice?
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  • LovenderNurse
    LovenderNurse Posts: 57 Member
    I am in the same boat as you are. I just began lifting 2 weeks ago. Right now I've only been using 10-15lb weights, but I do believe I'm ready to graduate to 20lb weights this week. I think making sure you are using proper form is more important than starting out heavy. Use whatever weight you feel comfortable with while still being a challenge towards the end of your set. I like to begin with 3 sets of 12, if I can complete my set without any struggle then I know I need to add more weight.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    .... some advice?

    Get started. The numbers you use to start won't matter one whit 12 weeks from now. Start with whatever you feel comfortable with and add weight each week
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    1.)

    good start- good for you. this is a step in the right direction.

    2.)
    these are not "men's exercises" they are just exercises. There is no men or woman's exercises. none of them inheiriently require a penis or vagina to complete the movement.

    3.)
    unless you are eating at a calorie surplus- you will not bulk.


    4.)
    strength gains /=/ size gains. (this ties into # 3)
    you will get STRONGER even at a deficit- but you won't get BIGGER- esp as a woman- it's really REALLY hard to do (laughable hard actually compared to what some women THINK it takes)

    5.)
    FORM FORM FORM. This means- get a broom stick- or a pcv pipe. "Heavy" is not a number- heavy is a rep range-and before you can go heavy- you must go RIGHT. So start with the pipe- or broom stick.

    The weight you add on will be up to you- and use as small of plates as you need. There is no rush- weight lifting can be a life long very fufilling hobby/sport if you take the time. by time I mean years. Seriously- most people cycle through 6-8 MONTHS of training/food things.

    work at your level and no one else's!!!

    Feel free to ask more questions. we are here to help!
  • InForBacon
    InForBacon Posts: 1,508 Member
    1.)

    good start- good for you. this is a step in the right direction.

    2.)
    these are not "men's exercises" they are just exercises. There is no men or woman's exercises. none of them inheiriently require a penis or vagina to complete the movement.

    3.)
    unless you are eating at a calorie surplus- you will not bulk.


    4.)
    strength gains /=/ size gains. (this ties into # 3)
    you will get STRONGER even at a deficit- but you won't get BIGGER- esp as a woman- it's really REALLY hard to do (laughable hard actually compared to what some women THINK it takes)

    5.)
    FORM FORM FORM. This means- get a broom stick- or a pcv pipe. "Heavy" is not a number- heavy is a rep range-and before you can go heavy- you must go RIGHT. So start with the pipe- or broom stick.

    The weight you add on will be up to you- and use as small of plates as you need. There is no rush- weight lifting can be a life long very fufilling hobby/sport if you take the time. by time I mean years. Seriously- most people cycle through 6-8 MONTHS of training/food things.

    work at your level and no one else's!!!

    Feel free to ask more questions. we are here to help!
    This, so much, this.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    oh- and Good luck!

    okay- edit- but good luck- I mean- good hard work and determination- none of this is luck. LOL
  • KeairaSedai
    KeairaSedai Posts: 138 Member
    Good to see so much support. I do suppose I should pick a weight that at least feels like a challenge?

    I guess if I pick something I can throw around it won't work.. but then what.. should I not be able to lift it another time at the end of the set, or still feel ok?
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    Good to see so much support. I do suppose I should pick a weight that at least feels like a challenge?

    I guess if I pick something I can throw around it won't work.. but then what.. should I not be able to lift it another time at the end of the set, or still feel ok?

    do you know how to properly DO the thing?


    If the answer is yes- get confirmation (Because all in all you're most likely wrong or need tweaking)

    if the answer is NO... than NO- keep doing form work.

    Just because it's super easy- doesn't mean you can't work form. I can lift triple digits of everything. I have a bar only technique day where I work form.

    Oly lifting is a little different- and it's harder to learn certain things with a completely light bar- but power lifting- it's very easy to go through the motions feeling where your body needs to be generating power. I love practicing dead lifting and squats- you can REALLY really generate some force when you aren't doing the "work". It's just a totally different feel.

    Work with the bar. Take some video- compare yourself to other form work videos (there are several excellent tutorials.)
    post a form check somewhere.

    You never stop working technique- I'm a intermediate lifter at this point and I still do form work. It never is wrong.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    If you are having issues with the bar, maybe consider doing the dumbbell versions of the barbell exercises until you work up to 45lbs and then start using the bar and plates from there?
  • KeairaSedai
    KeairaSedai Posts: 138 Member
    Good suggestions. You're right, I have not done these exercises before, only watched videos and instructions. I suppose I can do both, practice form on the barbell (if nothing else with a broomstick ^^) exercises and, while I don't own a barbell yet practice dumbbell versions which I do have.. until my salary comes in and I can afford some barbells.

    Suppose I can also go to the gym, but I've got to admit I feel silly there and the stuff is always in use.

    And thanks for the group mention, had no idea it existed.
  • AngelsFan91106
    AngelsFan91106 Posts: 111 Member
    Is it possible that you're basing your "weakness" on the fact that you can't take a 45-lb barbell off the floor and put it on a squat rack? I deadlift 180 lbs, and still, I have to take a deep breath before I grab a 45-lb plate from the floor and hang it on the barbell.

    "Picking up" 45-lbs off the floor and carrying it around is a completely different story than squatting, deadlifting, or even benching the 45-lb bar.

    You may be pleasantly shocked by how much you can actually lift. Good luck and have fun!
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    if you're having issues starting with just the bar then you can either start with those body bars that some gyms have (anywhere from 9-25 pounds in my gym) those can be used for squats

    there is also the option of the shorter bar barbell that has the same thickness as a standard oly bar, but is shorter. this bar is 25 pounds instead of the standard 25. in order to get the bar to the correct height for deadlift you'll either all the raise up the sides or use the 5 pound bumper plates

    for things like ohp, bent rows and bench press you could always use dumbbells

    and i defintely agree with the person who said form is a continual improvement process. i've been lifting for 20+ years, some of those years spent competing - and i'm still learning form improvements. as your body changes throughout the years and you more mobility in some areas, less in other areas (bigger and rounder body parts for some of us :laugh: ) then you will always find yourself adjusting your form
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Good to see so much support. I do suppose I should pick a weight that at least feels like a challenge?

    I guess if I pick something I can throw around it won't work.. but then what.. should I not be able to lift it another time at the end of the set, or still feel ok?

    I would suggest working on form first...form, form, form, form. Ultimately, the weight should be very challenging for you to lift in order to progress...but you need form first and foremost.
  • geebusuk
    geebusuk Posts: 3,348 Member
    As AngelsFan9110 says - it's very different with the bar on your back.
    I could probably JUST lift 155lb off the floor, then over my head on to my back - doubt I'd get it back to the front over my head again..
    Yet in a squat rack I now lift this up with my shoulders for my WARM UP and it feels like I've just got a bit of a heavy backpack on or something - ok, if I kept squatting, I'd probably get tired fairly quickly, but it's barely noticeable compared to the full weight I go for which has peaked at around twice that for 5 reps.

    However, there is absolutely nothing wrong with starting light and focusing on form. I believe stronglifts is like starting strength in that they both suggest progressing pretty quickly, but starting light to focus on form. So there's no problem at all finding a lighter bar if you can - a 1" bar maybe or some set-weight barbells and using that to start with if you do find that the bar it's self is pushing it a bit.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Good to see so much support. I do suppose I should pick a weight that at least feels like a challenge?

    I guess if I pick something I can throw around it won't work.. but then what.. should I not be able to lift it another time at the end of the set, or still feel ok?

    let's not overthink this. pick a weight and get started. as long as you're increasing the weight weekly, eventually it will be plenty challenging. and in the meantime you'll be getting your form down pat as well as giving your tendons and ligaments a chance to adapt to the rigors of lifting.

    go lift something
    go lift anything
    go lift
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    Good suggestions. You're right, I have not done these exercises before, only watched videos and instructions. I suppose I can do both, practice form on the barbell (if nothing else with a broomstick ^^) exercises and, while I don't own a barbell yet practice dumbbell versions which I do have.. until my salary comes in and I can afford some barbells.

    Suppose I can also go to the gym, but I've got to admit I feel silly there and the stuff is always in use.

    And thanks for the group mention, had no idea it existed.

    you only feel silly because you aren't comfortable doing what you need to be doing. once you get used to doing THE THING... you realize it's okay- and you can go do what you need to do.

    If you can't afford a squat rack and BB/plate set at home- the gym is the most viable option because it' provides access to all this stuff. I do tech work with an unloaded bar at the squat rack. I'll share if need by- but there is no shame at all with BAR only work.

    seriously.

    so do the work at home- do the practice/tech work. Work with dumbells for strength as you can- but if you want to go to the gym- do your homework- go with a plan (and a back up plan so you don't stand there like an *kitten* trying to figure out what to do if Plan A doesn't work)
    learn to ask completre strangers (practice at home if you must) "how many more sets do you have" and if it's a calbe type machine how many sets or can I work in with you?

    You pay to go there- you can share/use equipment.
  • KeairaSedai
    KeairaSedai Posts: 138 Member
    Never heard so much positive support on a topic on MFP before, haha. Always somebody telling you.. No don't do that!

    Good thing is that I guess this is actually a smart thing to do. Form it is, I'll work on that till I got it right, then increase slowly.

    I do suppose carrying something on your back is easier than picking it up, but I guess for deadlifts you still need to pick it up ^^ Then again I suppose that's why squat weight can be higher than the others... It's starting to make sense.. now just to do it..
  • KeairaSedai
    KeairaSedai Posts: 138 Member
    Good to see so much support. I do suppose I should pick a weight that at least feels like a challenge?

    I guess if I pick something I can throw around it won't work.. but then what.. should I not be able to lift it another time at the end of the set, or still feel ok?

    let's not overthink this. pick a weight and get started. as long as you're increasing the weight weekly, eventually it will be plenty challenging. and in the meantime you'll be getting your form down pat as well as giving your tendons and ligaments a chance to adapt to the rigors of lifting.

    go lift something
    go lift anything
    go lift

    Ha I like that. *lifts up her cat and watches it jump away* Ok.. maybe not that. But I get the picture. Stop thinking and start doing, or I'm like to only work my brains.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    heh...

    fyi
    Dead lifts are typically your heavier lift
    squats second
    bench
    then Over head press

    typically.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    heh...

    fyi
    Dead lifts are typically your heavier lift
    squats second
    bench
    then Over head press

    typically.

    this is exactly true for me
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    Good to see so much support. I do suppose I should pick a weight that at least feels like a challenge?

    I guess if I pick something I can throw around it won't work.. but then what.. should I not be able to lift it another time at the end of the set, or still feel ok?

    let's not overthink this. pick a weight and get started. as long as you're increasing the weight weekly, eventually it will be plenty challenging. and in the meantime you'll be getting your form down pat as well as giving your tendons and ligaments a chance to adapt to the rigors of lifting.

    go lift something
    go lift anything
    go lift

    Ha I like that. *lifts up her cat and watches it jump away* Ok.. maybe not that. But I get the picture. Stop thinking and start doing, or I'm like to only work my brains.

    cat-of-the-week.jpg

    ^It's all fun and games until you get one of these cats. Then I say starting out lifting this would be a great start:bigsmile:
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Good to see so much support. I do suppose I should pick a weight that at least feels like a challenge?

    I guess if I pick something I can throw around it won't work.. but then what.. should I not be able to lift it another time at the end of the set, or still feel ok?

    let's not overthink this. pick a weight and get started. as long as you're increasing the weight weekly, eventually it will be plenty challenging. and in the meantime you'll be getting your form down pat as well as giving your tendons and ligaments a chance to adapt to the rigors of lifting.

    go lift something
    go lift anything
    go lift

    Ha I like that. *lifts up her cat and watches it jump away* Ok.. maybe not that. But I get the picture. Stop thinking and start doing, or I'm like to only work my brains.

    you. i like you.
  • dixoncrew
    dixoncrew Posts: 186 Member
    Start! Start with an empty bar if you have to but start! I do Stronglifts and it's awesome. It is a great way to get introduced to heavy lifting and get comfortable with it. I check my form quite frequently, taking videos with my iPhone while I'm lifting.

    There is a Stronglifts for women group on here that is really great, you should check it out.
  • dixoncrew
    dixoncrew Posts: 186 Member
    heh...

    fyi
    Dead lifts are typically your heavier lift
    squats second
    bench
    then Over head press

    typically.

    True for me as well.
  • Grendel07
    Grendel07 Posts: 112 Member
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  • geebusuk
    geebusuk Posts: 3,348 Member
    Heh - I often stick my dog on my shoulders - sometimes jog a little bit with him there (he's not entirely impressed with that, to be honest).
    He weighs just over 100lb.
  • JDubIsShrinking
    JDubIsShrinking Posts: 207 Member
    Start! Start with an empty bar if you have to but start! I do Stronglifts and it's awesome. It is a great way to get introduced to heavy lifting and get comfortable with it. I check my form quite frequently, taking videos with my iPhone while I'm lifting.

    There is a Stronglifts for women group on here that is really great, you should check it out.

    Agreed. Stronglifts are a great place to start! And yes... form form form form form. Form over lifting heavy. Constantly watch form. If you get sloppy, back off a little on the weight.
  • Briargrey
    Briargrey Posts: 498 Member
    I'm doing SL 5x5 now, just started Saturday. Last week, I did 2 60-minute sessions with a personal trainer at the Y to work on my form for squats, dead lifts, bench, overhead press, and the variety of dumb bell substitutes and other exercises there are out there. It really helped a lot to be able to have someone give me confirmation on form. If you can't do that, no worries - videos, mirrors, and asking others!

    Don't fret about how much (or little) you are starting out at. Don't. We all start somewhere.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/560459-stronglifts-5x5-summary this was a great summary on SL5x5.

    Watch good videos on form. Practice in front of a mirror. Don't be scared of free weights. Just lift. You'll do great.

    If you can't lift the standard bar (45 pounds), DO NOT WORRY! Use one of the smaller bars you can typically find around there or modify and use dumb bells or body weight first and build up. There is no shame in this - you are doing something for your health, and that is to be celebrated.

    For me:
    Heaviest - deadlift
    Next - bench
    Next - squat
    Next - military/overhead

    Now, I recognize that bench and squat are reversed from the typical - which is why I pointed it out. My arms are typically stronger than my legs because I haven't pushed them in the squat form yet. Today I did it at 65# but I felt like I wasn't going down low enough, and that is going to be the way I build all that right muscle strength, so Thursday, I'm going to drop down to the bar and just work on form, form, form and getting lower and trusting my body not to fall over. Years of being morbidly obese mean I don't trust my legs to hold me up because I was short and held the fat in places that I felt I was going to just tip over and look like some horrifically laughable version of a broken Weeble. I think I *can* do the bar and a correct form squat, but trusting myself to get all the way down is hard. If I struggle there, I'll drop back to dumb bells until I make myself comfortable and work back up.

    Strength will come.

    I'm only 2 days in and I'm already addicted to it, I can tell. I did machines for months and built up some strength and that was nice, but this just gives me an extra 'oomph' to my day that I can't explain :)
  • KeairaSedai
    KeairaSedai Posts: 138 Member
    I am thoroughly convinced. I have great trainers at the gym so they may help, as well as mirrors, but I intend to get me a set of at home workout supplies, for those days that I should workout but can't bring myself to leave the house.

    I suppose a simple barbell bar with a few weights will do to begin with, along with the light set of dumbells i already have. Squats I've always found rather easy actually.. but that was without weights. My legs are far better than my arms, though, so I guess I'll just start and see.

    Now to just do it instead of thinking about it.. and don't worry about being laughed at by my boyfriend ^^
  • Ok, finally! Other women doing stronglifts!!
    Any suggestions? I lost over 15 lbs but gained like ten back?!? I am freaking out!
    HELP