How do I go from this to that? Pictures

First of all, stop comparing yourself to other women. You may not have the genetics to look like those girls in the pictures, and they could be airbrushed for sales purposes.

Secondly, you can't spot reduce.

Finally, I have found that weight lifting helps the over-all body composition.

That's what I was thinking. The girl in the first picture has quite wide hips. No matter now much weight you lose you might not get that waist to hip ratio. You can weight train and bulk up your thighs a bit but it's not the same. If you are apple shaped, you can't really become hourglass or pear.

First of all, stop comparing yourself to other women. You may not have the genetics to look like those girls in the pictures, and they could be airbrushed for sales purposes.

Secondly, you can't spot reduce.

Finally, I have found that weight lifting helps the over-all body composition.

I agree not everyone can look like exactly like that...but weightlifting IS CRUCIAL for reshaping and sculpting if you will your body. And when I say weight lifting I don't mean 5 pound light weights for a million reps, but heavier weights that you can do for 8-12 reps. Follow a good full body or upper lower body split that focuses on the big compound lifts that work multiple muscle groups at once. Excessive cardio isnt necessary and is actually counterproductive. 30 minutes three times a week is plenty. No need to be neurotic about your diet and 100 percent clean all the time but most of your food should be whole unprocessed foods. Lean meats, whole grains, veggies, healthy fats...Not only are they more nutritious but they are more filling and satiating

thank you!! this was really helpful but one thing - i can't do really heavy weights w/o the help of my trainer as in, physically he helps me

Heavy means you should be able to lift the weight for 8-12 reps and not much more beyond that. For instance lets say I'm aiming for 10 reps. If I can barely lift the weights for a couple reps, it's way too heavy and I need lighter weights. If you can keep lifting the weight with hardly any effort beyond the 10 reps the weight is too light. You get a feel for the right weight after awhile. If your trainer is lifting the weight for you I think your lifting way too heavy. You should challenge yourself but a spotter is not there to lift the weight for you but to make sure you don't hurt yourself. For instance lets say I'm doing the bench press but I overestimated the weight or I'm just tired after so many reps and I'm really struggling to lift the bar back up. The spotter will assist with bringing the bar back up so I don't drop it on myself.