39ish & 55-65lbs to lose - looking for some buddies!

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Doesn't need to be someone in the same situation now as someone who has managed this already would be a great resource!! Please add me :)

FYI - I do drink and will save some cals for drinks primarily on the weekends so if this will bother you we may not be great buddies.

I was doing MFP 1200\add exercise the first week but just switched to TDEE - 20% yesterday so anyone proficient in TDEE/BMR would be a huge help!

Thanks!

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  • Rocki_
    Rocki_ Posts: 166 Member
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    Congratulations on taking the first step!! You can do this. Though I am more than 39ish (add 9 yrs in the middle of this year and you'll have it right) I can tell you that it DOES work! My photos will tell the story..... Feel free to add me if you'd like.
    Rocki
  • ronbo62098
    ronbo62098 Posts: 59 Member
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    Well into my 40's (47 to be exact) myself and 50 pound loss goal (4 down, 46 to go). No problem on the drinks - I make sure I have the calories budgeted on nights when I pop a homebrew. Feel free to add me.
  • violet791
    violet791 Posts: 13 Member
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    I'm of no help since I'm in the beginning stages too. Also doing the recommended calories from MFP but curious how do you find switching to TDEE? The idea intrigues me
  • birdiecs
    birdiecs Posts: 237 Member
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    I was in your shoes not too long ago. Had just turned 40yr and was 50lbs from my goal weight. Now I'm sitting a hair over 10lbs from goal. It can absolutely be done and switching to TDEE is probably the smartest move to make. Keep it simple and it becomes sustainable.

    Good Luck :flowerforyou:
  • snow00774
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    I'm of no help since I'm in the beginning stages too. Also doing the recommended calories from MFP but curious how do you find switching to TDEE? The idea intrigues me

    I already feel like a tonne of bricks has been lifted off my shoulders! It's only been a few days but it was like a magical switch that turned me from being resentful to happy to particpate in this needed change!

    I will know how effective in the coming months, and expect change to be a bit slower but WAY more sustainable and a much happier day by day existence rather than resenting each meal. But that's just me :)
  • snow00774
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    I was in your shoes not too long ago. Had just turned 40yr and was 50lbs from my goal weight. Now I'm sitting a hair over 10lbs from goal. It can absolutely be done and switching to TDEE is probably the smartest move to make. Keep it simple and it becomes sustainable.

    Good Luck :flowerforyou:

    TYTY, and congratulations on being so close to goal, inspiring :smile: