Needing to lose 150+ pounds.
DeeAnn2004
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My name is DeeAnn, I have a very long journey ahead of me. I am looking for support an motivation to help me along this journey.
I am a food addict... food has been my drug of choice MY WHOLE LIFE. I am tired of letting food control me. I want to take control once an for all. I have a 7 year old son who is following in my foot steps. It breaks my heart and scares me to death to see him eating an gaining. I'm doing this for MYSELF and also to SAVE SAM.
Anyone who would like to add me an encourage me along the way is welcome to do so. Lord knows I need all the encouragement a girl could get.
I am a food addict... food has been my drug of choice MY WHOLE LIFE. I am tired of letting food control me. I want to take control once an for all. I have a 7 year old son who is following in my foot steps. It breaks my heart and scares me to death to see him eating an gaining. I'm doing this for MYSELF and also to SAVE SAM.
Anyone who would like to add me an encourage me along the way is welcome to do so. Lord knows I need all the encouragement a girl could get.
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Feel free to add me. I am also working on loosing 100 pounds. Good luck on your journey. This has been a great resource for me and I am down 10 pounds already.0
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Hi DeeAnn, I'm on the same long journey. I started just about a year ago and have lost 83 lbs so far. I still have over 100 left to go. Feel free to add me, I log daily!
You can do this!!!
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I suffer with the same addiction and it is a hard addiction to kick because it is my go to drug. So it is so hard to kick an addiction to something that you need to live. It is a constant reminder in my head that I can just keep eating. I have to eat the amount and nothing else. I have to totally change the way I think about food and the relationship I have with it.0
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same here. I started last July. this is the first time that I have done this well and I actually think I can do it. Feel free to add me as a friend if you would like. Good luck. Just take it one day at a time. You can do it. You have yourself and a little boy to do it for. I kept telling myself that nobody else is going to look out for my health but me. Somehow, that helped.0
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Hi! Feel free to add me. My end will be -178 pounds ( I think). We can help each other! :flowerforyou:0
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Just beginning again...neglected myself for last 6months :noway: looking to lose 75lbs... Easily frustrated and de-motivated - food not an addiction per se but cravings kill me - I love crusty bread and water crackers...also big time potato and corn lover!!!! I am looking at starting a workout regimen but I just hate exercise...ugh
I was going to yoga religiously and was seeing strength, balance and 'inner peace' improvements but I fell off the wagon. I tried Zumba don't like gyms and workout classes though. I work 60-70 hrs a week too so time is not a luxury I have, but I realize that I don't feel good ...always tired and blood sugar is out of whack! :noway:
I am a certified scuba diver and I absolutely love diving...I can't imagine trying to engage in that right now though :sad: - I need to focus on me for sure and regain a sense of self!n0 -
Hi Dee, you've already had a huge success in understanding that it's a real, honest to goodness addiction that you're facing. Some folks on MFP are not addicts and they're people who perhaps didn't have nutritional information and they gained a bit of etra weight. It's my opinion that someone like me who gained all the way up to 339 pounds has something more going on than simple overeating. I call it "a touch of the fang" because sometimes it feels like a ravenous beast nagging me to eat more and only then will the beast shut up. I knew for a long time that the beast was never satisfied, that eating until I was stuffed didn't even stop it's demands for 24 hours. Even worse was the guilt, the genuine remorse I'd feel afterwards, knowing full well that I was being controlled by something that not only was making me ugly but it was actually killing me. After years of yoyo dieting I just gave up, feeling like I would never get the upperhand. I gave up for about 6 years, ate everything the beast wanted and began the trips to the doctors for them to fix what ailed me. I developed heart disease, sleep apnea with pulmonary hypertension, crippling arthritis, and still I ate. Thank God, one day I had a moment of clarity and I understood that I was committing a form of slow suicide because of my ADDICTION to food. I wasn't simply overeating, I was gorging myself to death. I faced the lie, you know, the one where we think we'll feel so good if we just have that ice cream or a dozen cookies. True, after a certain point of stuffing myself I did reach a sort of homeostasis and a calmness or more aptly a TRANCE would ensue and the fangs would retreat until the next day. I finally got the message that like any other addict I had to stop, just stop. It wasn't easy, and it still isn't but for me the first step was facing my addiction, understanding that I was causing my own health catastrophes, and that I was allowing a lie to lead my life. I made changes immediately. I stopped drinking all soft drinks and substituted lemon in filtered water with lots of ice. Instead of sweets I switched to slices of cold, crisp apples with lots of cinnamon. I discovered that many of the new granola bars were delicious, less than 140 calories, filling and could replace my craving for sweets. Look for the ones without sugar preferably. I bought an air popper and to this day I have a bowl of popcorn every night. I logged in to MFP everyday, several times a day, and I found inspiration and success stories. I've now lost more than 100 pounds in 15 months. I'm still an addict and I'm not sure if I'll ever not be, but I have learned to substitue healthier foods and the beast is a lot less noisy now. I'm off all blood pressure meds, my sugar levels are normal, and I while there is permanent damage to my body from the morbid obesity I am facing it and trying every day to be a stonger woman. Now, you're still so very young and you have a young child and you the center of his universe. He will do as you do. You're here because you made a choice ...you chose life. You can do this!0
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I'm also trying to do this for myself and my kids. My son is overweight for his age and I get scared that he may keep on gaining. The only problem is that he's a very picky eater so I struggle a lot!0
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You can do it!!!
Trust me on this one . . When I get a food craving . . (all the time) I work out or just drink water! Find something else to do . . .
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Feel free to add me i have the same journey, 170 ish pounds, and alot left to go. more friends the better!0
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Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement. I wish you all good luck on your weight loss journey. I know we can do it!:flowerforyou:0
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Fell free to add me . I started out with the goal to lose 150 lbs from my starting weight of 300lbs and now about 50 days in i am now down to 276. I am pretty much active everyday and i do try to comment on my friends posts.0
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add me i need your help0
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Hi Guys I have managed to lose 124lb in 37 weeks. You can check out my profile pictures. I am a 45 yr old male from Birmingham England. I am also looking for friends as my few on here don't post much. I would like to see peoples food diaries. I also just created a photobucket of my meals that may give some ideas. Must warm though, I am not a professional photographer or chef lol.
My target is to lose 12st 7lb, so far I have lost 8st 12lb, so still a way to go.
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Feel free to add me as a friend. I have about the same amount to lose and have struggled to lose it my entire adult life. Recent health issues have given me more focus - as my profile says I am not yet ready for the big dirt nap. I lost 30 lbs. in 2013 and have a goal to lose 70 lbs. in 2014. I am 12 pounds towards that goal of 70.0
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Feel free to add me as your friend.0
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Feel free to add me. I'm on the journey to lose 120 lbs. It's going to be a journey but I'm committed and very ready!
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Sent you a FR! I am on a frustratingly long stall and I need to break it! Anyone feel free to add me. I still want to lose another 60 pounds and need a kick in the backside to get me there :laugh:0
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I'm right here with you ... how do we 'add' people? new to this site ... i keep failing at loosing and i'm tired of it. Every time i try to exercise/eat right (even have skinny fiber) i get the most horrible cramping that leaves me almost unable to walk down the stairs to leave our apartment. It scares me off continuing ...anyone else have experience with this or how you got past it how long it took?0
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Hi there girl! If anyone understands, it's ME! I started this journey with 145 lbs to lose. Still have 65 to go after losing 80, (got pregnant and had a baby in there too) and some days that's hard to fathom.
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Feel free to add me. I'm hoping to lose about 75 pounds. Anyone in the same boat can add me, too. I stepped away for a while since 2012, but finally need to get serious. Not really a big poster.0
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Please feel free to add me as well...I, too, am addicted to food!!! I have about 180 to lose and do feel somewhat overwhelmed at that...however, this is s great forum and motivator so let's support one another!!0
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Welcome to MFP and congrats on having the courage to start on this journey! I know how hopeless I felt and how scared of yet another failure I was when I first started this. I was at 309 pounds when I started and now 78 pounds lighter, I feel great and can see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I come from a family full of drug and alcohol addictions and thought I got away without being an addict until I had my awakening and realized I am an addict and my drug of choice is food. Once I faced reality I became able to deal with it and figure out how to recover. Some days I struggle more than others. On those days I think about what my wise mother tells me, "the high only lasts a moment" and the joy I feel when I conquer one food craving at a time is lasting!
Anyway, enough of my rambling. Welcome. Feel free to add me.0 -
Hi there Deann! I just started today too! I need to lose about 150 pounds as well so I'm right with ya baby! We can do this!!0
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Request sent!
I want to lose 101 lbs.
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ALL you ladies are amazing with your weightloss and your determinations.0
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Hi DeeAnn!! My name is Barb!!! I myself want to lose about 150 lbs!!! Please feel free to add me!!! I started my journey in September and absolutely love this program!!! Welcome aboard!!!0
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Hi I'm in the same boat as ya'll I lost 70 pounds over the last year but gained some back over the holidays, and my goal is to double that number this year. Its been a rough road but I feel so much better now with what little progress I have made, there is no way I'm going to give up now.0
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I'm wanting to lose weight and get physically fit. I would like to have some friends on here who can help me - hold me accountable -encourage me- and hopefully be a part of my success.0
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Hey! I am on the same boat as you! I just started my journey so feel free to add me.0
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