What to do on VALENTINE'S DAY!!!! Help

Have Chocolate then! Just make sure you adjust your meal plan to allow for the chocolate.

Have some chocolate. Just adjust your meal plan accordingly. Lots of veggies to fill yourself up so you can save room for the chocolate.

Hubs and I went out for his birthday last weekend and I worked hard all day moving furniture, hauling tools around and installing new flooring to get some extra calories so I could have a piece of flourless chocolate cake. Best damn cake I have had in a while.

If you're going out, just buy one serving of chocolate that way you can't overindulge. For me, that's easier than going home with a whole box of it and trying not to munch

Don't buy a giant box of them. Buy a smaller box of the REALLY good stuff and enjoy them.

If you are going out to eat, then get one dessert.

There are ways to assist in watching portions.

I just get scared because I am afraid I might not stay in control- chocolate is really a problem for me!

You should not be scared of food. Food is food. There is nothing inherently good or bad with any food. Take a portion that fits in your daily calories and put the rest away, or eat it all and then lower your cals for the next few days to compensate. Ask your hubby to not buy you chocolates if you want. YOU and ONLY YOU are in control. Be empowered about what you do and what you want.

We can't help, because we can't slap the chocolate out of your hand. It's your choice. Isn't that empowering?

don't stress, research. go on the internet, look up the restaurants you may be choosing and then look at the menu and nutrition value for things you like and might want to choose. There isn't one restaurant out there that i like that i cant find something to eat that is yummy and i am able to log later on. We go out quite often and this is how i do it. You feel so much more in control that way instead of having an "oh well, maybe i will restart tomorrow" kind of day. We have to learn to maintain once we lose and this is the best way to get in the mode for that and live a normal life. As far as chocolate goes, get you some sugar free coffe creamer for your morning fix, drink some sugar free cocoa, have some chocolate almond milk.. i don't know what kind of chocolate do you like? try some low fat brownies that are prepackaged. It comes down to research and giving yourself a lot of choices.
I do not think "just blow it" is good advice at all. IF you use tomorrow as an excuse then why not use its the weekend as an excuse or its Monday. Its too easy to be bad, it only takes a bit more work to be good.