how to deal with jealousy of weight loss

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  • DianneOct2913
    DianneOct2913 Posts: 5 Member
    I am sorry you are going through this.

    You are being verbally and emotionally abused.

    Have you thought about counselling? If he won't join you then go yourself at least to be validated and learn how to deal with it.

    Good luck!
  • justagirliusedtoknow
    justagirliusedtoknow Posts: 13
    Good news everyone!!!!
    Tonight at our monthly HOG meeting another man, we share the same diabetic dr, he came upto me and asked how my diabetes was doing and talking about our mutual dr. Anyway, he looks at me kinda strange and says have you been losing weight, of course I said yes I have thank you and he says to me right on front of Mr I will look at other women if I want, you look amazing, really you look great!!!!

    Hubby walked away at the point thinking that I would follow him, nope I stayed right there so he came back over to hear the fella say again, I cant tell you how great you look!!!

    This man talks to me everytime we have these meeting but I couldn't tell you what his name is, don't care cause hubby got a rude awakening and I now have the self esteem I needed to push forward!

    Not too mention hubby must have told a co-worker about me losing weight cause he too saud to me tonight you know if your going to be on this health kick thru out the riding season your going to put us all to shame!!!!

    SCORE!!! I feel great!!!! thanks everyone!
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    I'd suggest marriage counseling. Was it good for 25 years? I couldn't end a 26 year relationship over one bad year without even trying to figure out what went wrong.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I'd suggest marriage counseling. Was it good for 25 years? I couldn't end a 26 year relationship over one bad year without even trying to figure out what went wrong.

    This. It is far too easy for people on this forum to pass judgement on someone's significant other based on limited information from only one side of the equation.

    Go seek marriage counseling and try to fix your marriage unless you are ready for it to end.

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